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benjamendeng @benjamendeng (46) • China 4 Nov 09

Hi, mylotters, Just a few days ago, I was told that i got an opportunity to transfer a goog new job which I always want to be standed. when I got this message, I was so happy of it, but it seemed not easy to get transfered. My...

work

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benjamendeng Hi,dawnald, thank you for your good suggestion. and i have written a email to my boss, sometimes, writing is better than talking. i hope he can understand the situation and let me transter peacefully, and now he is considering the issue. i hope i can get a...

6 Nov 09

getbrowser @getbrowser (1708) • China 4 Nov 09

Everyone want to improve the relationship with their boss because it is very useful to lower the workplace stress. What's more, for staff, they can increase theirr workplace happiness and have more chances to improve themselves if...

boss

refuse to listen

staff

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benjamendeng Hi, there, sometimes, I got the same situation, but I have no idea if my boss pretent to listen,I just present my suggestion based on fact. if i can not convince to adopt my suggestion, that is not my lose, just my boss. I think a good boss should allow...

5 Nov 09

benjamendeng @benjamendeng (46) • China 4 Nov 09

Hi, mylotters, Just a few days ago, I was told that i got an opportunity to transfer a goog new job which I always want to be standed. when I got this message, I was so happy of it, but it seemed not easy to get transfered. My...

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hotsummer @hotsummer (13835) • Philippines 4 Nov 09

I have this habit when i buy things that i want it to always look new, glossy and scratchless as much as possible. For example , in books i read or buy like i don't like any fold or creases on the pages. i don't write on the pages...

new

things

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benjamendeng Hi, hotsummer, you are an absolutely good habit, but as far as so long, I have not gotten a habit to keep things looks new here. maybe i am a little lazy and used to its natural. i need to learn from you, that not only is a good habit, but also can get a...

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earth2jacq @earth2jacq (1502) • Philippines 4 Nov 09

I have had my fortune read 3 years ago. There were points that came true and there weren't: The one that did come true was: I would resign from my current job (at that time)...well after a year I did resign and I am glad I...

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benjamendeng Hi, earth, just reviewed you thread, you were so lucky that you did not trust the fortunetellers' words, as a matter of fact, no one can completely predict future. just do you like doing and treasure the present possession. In my opinion, Life is a bit of...

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bodhisatya @bodhisatya (2384) • India 3 Nov 09

I haven't yet changed changed a flat tyre. Once the tyre got flat and fortunately my friend knew how to do it, so it was done. I have got my fair bit of theoretical knowledge, that I have to put in the jack, bring in the...

driving

spare

stepney

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benjamendeng Hi, bodhisatya, that is an excellent question, I had an experience in changing flat tire, but the car was not belonged by me, it was of my friend's car. the story is like this: Saturday in week. we four guys just finished dinner, and planed going to one...

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werdan88 @werdan88 (272) • Philippines 3 Nov 09

How do you think your life would be without all the gadgets like computer, mobile phones, televisions, etc.?I think I could not live with all these things. Once they were merely luxuries. However, at the present age, they have...

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benjamendeng Hi, werdan, in my opinion, i pretty agree with your point. electronical gadgets change our life, and now it to be necessary for living, present society is an efficient development society, people around the worldwide have got a strong feeling with high...

4 Nov 09

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 24 Oct 09

Have you ever even thought of what you are going todo with all that time that you will have when you get to retire? Me and my husband have along while togo until we retire and i would like to think that we could sell this house...

move to the beach

retire

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benjamendeng Hi, there! it is hard to say, To be frank, I have no idea of when i will retire yet. in other hand, if i want to do something , I will do in my spare time. I don't want to wait till someday i retire. the future seems out of our thinking. only the present time...

25 Oct 09

Sheri @tuckersheri (1327) • United States 23 Oct 09

I keep my doors locked when I leave home. I want to be safe than sorry later. I would never leave my doors unlocked. I live in a small town but I would not say it safe just becuase it is a small town. I do not want to be robbed...

house

lock

locking doors

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benjamendeng Hi,there, I think it is necessary to lock the doors when all familial members leave the house. Otherwise. i always worried there will be something happened in my unlocked house. i can't concentate on doing anything.

23 Oct 09

apples99 @apples99 (6556) • United States 21 Oct 09

I just recently saw Slumdog millionaire three days ago on cable, and I really enjoyed the film. in fact I had to watch it agin later that same day, I thought that the film was really fascinating, and it had a really sweet love...

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benjamendeng HI, I like this movie too, a good indian film. as you said, it has a good ending. maybe i will watch again in my light schedule. thank you for share with such a good movie.

21 Oct 09

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Andrew O @creationhub (3066) • Malaysia 18 Oct 09

When I was young, many of my friends migrated to other countries giving the reason of studying. There are many reasons for one to migrate. Whether it is for the good or bad, we should never forget our homeland. Have you friends...

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benjamendeng Hi, creationhub, In china, As I know, In my hometown, Many farmers migrated to other developmented Province for earning money. but at present. there is impossible to give them a comfortable position in the migrated city as the related ploicy limited. so...

19 Oct 09

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crystallight1l @crystallight1l (347) • Canada 16 Oct 09

It's a virtual game on youtube where you can win real "imaginary" dollars. Not only that but you can be rick-rolled by the one and only RICK ASTLEY ! :D

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benjamendeng Hi,crystailight. Money comes from hard works, Game just is a game. I have no more expectation to earn million dollars by games. Just do the things I should do. concentrating on works or studies would make more sense. Yes. there are so many attractive things...

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