strawberryfields

@strawberryfields (14)

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How do you keep yourself attractive both physically & mentally to other people ?

akumei1269 @akumei1269 (1749) • India 11 Feb 07

To my dismay I have felt that I am not interesting to other people . This feeling is reinforced when I find my private message button blank(no new message coming). I think , so far mylot is concerned my discussions are boring...

smartness

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strawberryfields I think the best course of action is to not expect life to come to you, you need to go to it. Make a list of things you like to do, or would like to try, find out how you can do these things in your local community and go and do it. Or if you can't do these...

12 Feb 07

How many chances do you give someone?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 11 Feb 07

Reading through a lot of posts here on MyLot, - one thing really strikes me. There seem to be so many women out there who are unhappy, and in unfulfilling marriages or relationships, and yet they still stay with their spouse. Now...

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strawberryfields Having recently come out of a long-term relationship where I was unhappy for sometime, I would never just "stick it out" again. Yes if you really love someone you should try and negociate issues and problems, but if you become unhappy for a length of time and...

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Do you still remember your first childhood crush?

jinkson_unoh @jinkson_unoh (186) • Philippines 11 Feb 07

Hey admit it guys! We all have our childhood crush right? I can still remember the feeling when I got attracted to this certain guy in our neighborhood. I was 8 years old then. And his name is Dennis. We still live in the same...

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strawberryfields I didn't really like boys till I got a bit older. Not in a romantic sense anyway. I was always more of a tom-boy, the lads were there to teach me how to throw punches and climb trees. The last thing I was interested in was kissing any of them. They were after...

12 Feb 07

i think my boyfriend is cheating me!

naadia @naadia (828) • India 8 Feb 07

i have a deep relation with my bf.it started 1 year ago.he was my best friend once.they we take that relation to a step ahead.everything was fine till last month.now he is not caring me,he is not talking much with me,but always...

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strawberryfields Hi Nadia, If he is not the person that you knew before then regardless of whether he is cheating on you, it is probably time to raise serious questions about the durability of the relationship that you have. If he is not showing you the respect that he...

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who is your dream date?

mae1216 @mae1216 (658) • Philippines 9 Feb 07

my dream date is with my bf in dinner at the middle of a floating boat or the two of us alone in an island...how about you?share your dreams with us

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strawberryfields My dream date would be with a guy that I'm seeing right now. It would be in Paris, not because it's supposed to be romantic, just because I've never been there and would like my first time to be with him. We would definately have dinner plans and then back...

9 Feb 07

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Do You Remember Enid Blyton?

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 7 Feb 07

As a child I loved her Famous Five books, I collected them all, read them all over and over again, it helped me with my reading and I would just escape into her books. I know her books were banned sadly and there was a lot of...

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strawberryfields I loved Enid Blyton, I read a lot of her titles and series. If you liked the Famous Five, you should also definately check out the Secret Seven. Other titles she did included The Folks of the Faraway Tree - which is very imaginative and highly amusing. And...

8 Feb 07

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When should you say "I love you?"

coffeeshot @coffeeshot (3783) • Australia 7 Feb 07

I've been with guys who have told me after a couple of weeks that they love me. Guess what happened to them? They never heard from me again. A friend of mine had a guy tell her the first time they kissed that he loved her! I...

i love you

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strawberryfields If you are truly into someone in a big way, you may feel a little wary of telling them that you love them because you are frightened of getting hurt or rejected yourself. My advice to you is to allow yourself to feel whatever it is that you are feeling for a...

8 Feb 07

The idea of finding "Home"

strawberryfields @strawberryfields (14) 7 Feb 07

One of my favourite films is Garden State, and in that film Zach Braff's character talks about a difficulty in finding that "homely" feeling anymore. This is something that I can really relate to. Once I left home to go to...

sense of home

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strawberryfields Yes I agree, that the sense of home is really something that comes from the people who instill that sense in you rather than a particular location. In a way I suppose it's a rather obvious point that in our life times we may move house many times but it is...

8 Feb 07

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Putting the Pressure on Love

strawberryfields @strawberryfields (14) 8 Feb 07

Throughout my life I've been chasing down the idea of being happily settled and married with somebody who is in love with me. It is only recently that I have realised that with this vision of how my relationships "should be" I...

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Why does a person give you their cell phone number but never respond?

kgwat70 @kgwat70 (13388) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am curious to know why someone would give you their cell phone number but whenever you call they do not answer, they do not return your call, and do not text message you or anything. I have this friend who keeps asking me to...

call backs

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phone numbers

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strawberryfields Although it is very difficult when you feel as though you're being constantly ignored, it is important to remember that objectively, you do not know why she hasn't responded. There could be a myriad of reasons. Perhaps everytime you call she has her phone...

8 Feb 07

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What is your earliest memory?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 7 Feb 07

I read somewhere, that no one really remembers anything until they are at least 5 years old! But I don't think that is true. My first memory was when I was just 18 months old! Not a very nice one, - I will spare you the gory...

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strawberryfields My earliest memory is from when I was about three years old, my mum used to throw all the bedding down the stairs for washing. Unfortunately this particular day, my mum over-reached at the top of the stairs when she threw the bedding and she fell down the...

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The idea of finding "Home"

strawberryfields @strawberryfields (14) 7 Feb 07

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Do you love someone?

sendil143 @sendil143 (183) • India 7 Feb 07

i love someone.

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strawberryfields I love many people, but I am only in love with one person in my life. Unfortunately because our relationship would be disapproved of we do not get to see each other very often. We met as friends a few years ago, recently I moved away and it was only after...

7 Feb 07

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Shyness - have you ever been told you are shy?

Pigglies @Pigglies (9329) • United States 6 Feb 07

Sometimes people tell me that I'm shy. But generally, they don't notice it much. I don't think I'm nearly as shy as I used to be. But apparently, I'm wrong. Today my professor told me that I'm shy and should tell myself in...

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strawberryfields I haven't ever been referred to as shy, but this is mainly because I have spent a large portion of my life pretending to be a lot more confident than I truly am. At school my favourite subject was drama, because I was pretending to be somebody else I was...

7 Feb 07