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Darkest_Lily @Darkest_Lily (16) 2 Mar 07

I found out today that my father said he has wasted 25 years of his life on my mum, me and my sister. My parents were arguing about their divorce settlement and my sister was in the room too. He actually said the words "I've...

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helpme901 They are terrible when you take them worth of you. If you really think that your father really wasted his 25 years on you and your mum these words would be really terrible. I can understand.

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Darkest_Lily @Darkest_Lily (16) 2 Mar 07

I found out today that my father said he has wasted 25 years of his life on my mum, me and my sister. My parents were arguing about their divorce settlement and my sister was in the room too. He actually said the words "I've...

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melanie652 That sure wasn't a very nice thing to say. It's too bad he feels that way. Maybe he was just angry and frustrated at the time? Maybe he didn't really mean it? I would tell him how you feel and those words hurt you, but you forgive him. If you take those words...

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Darkest_Lily @Darkest_Lily (16) 2 Mar 07

I found out today that my father said he has wasted 25 years of his life on my mum, me and my sister. My parents were arguing about their divorce settlement and my sister was in the room too. He actually said the words "I've...

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bigpinkmomma Saying what your father did has got to be ones of the most hurtful things in life. I am sure you will remember it to your dying day . It was so cruel and I am sure not true. However for your own sake I think you need to work towards the place where you can...

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Darkest_Lily @Darkest_Lily (16) 2 Mar 07

I found out today that my father said he has wasted 25 years of his life on my mum, me and my sister. My parents were arguing about their divorce settlement and my sister was in the room too. He actually said the words "I've...

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trickings Can terrible words ever be forgotten? I dont think so, for me I'd raher get hurt physically and be scarred by it than be hit hard by a very hurtful word or statement. Hurting words are very dangerous because it could lessen one's self-esteemed, it can even...

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Darkest_Lily @Darkest_Lily (16) 2 Mar 07

I found out today that my father said he has wasted 25 years of his life on my mum, me and my sister. My parents were arguing about their divorce settlement and my sister was in the room too. He actually said the words "I've...

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aquaspices hi lily, you must be pretty upset with your family situation now. i once, and is still a bit upset about mine too, including my relationship with my mom.. i know, it must be pretty hard to adjust on family crisis at your stage now. for me, words are...

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Darkest_Lily @Darkest_Lily (16) 2 Mar 07

I found out today that my father said he has wasted 25 years of his life on my mum, me and my sister. My parents were arguing about their divorce settlement and my sister was in the room too. He actually said the words "I've...

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slickcut Hi lily,its a sad thing thats happening in your family right now...First of all I have been there and i know that your father did not mean what he said,it was said in the heat of the moment,and it was mostly directed at your Mom..He shou;d not have said what...

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Darkest_Lily @Darkest_Lily (16) 2 Mar 07

I found out today that my father said he has wasted 25 years of his life on my mum, me and my sister. My parents were arguing about their divorce settlement and my sister was in the room too. He actually said the words "I've...

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meljessxena im sorry to hear about the problem between your parents, and it could really affect your mum big time if she got accused for that, because of the type of job she has. i think that your father has been feeling like this for some time now and it has been...

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Darkest_Lily @Darkest_Lily (16) 2 Mar 07

I found out today that my father said he has wasted 25 years of his life on my mum, me and my sister. My parents were arguing about their divorce settlement and my sister was in the room too. He actually said the words "I've...

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devinitly boy thats really awful...there is no excuse for him to say thar. really only you know for sure how he really feels. i think that no matter what, you will never forget his words...even if he apologizes, you will know if he really feels that way in the end. If...

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Darkest_Lily @Darkest_Lily (16) 2 Mar 07

I found out today that my father said he has wasted 25 years of his life on my mum, me and my sister. My parents were arguing about their divorce settlement and my sister was in the room too. He actually said the words "I've...

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hertaintedlips I would be able to forgive, but once something is said/done, it's usually not as easy to forget. When you're ready for forgive, you will. Don't try and force it because it won't be genuine and will come back up in your life later.

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Darkest_Lily @Darkest_Lily (16) 2 Mar 07

I found out today that my father said he has wasted 25 years of his life on my mum, me and my sister. My parents were arguing about their divorce settlement and my sister was in the room too. He actually said the words "I've...

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revdauphinee whilst you may not ever forget you must forgive many things are said in the anger of the moment that are untrue he is your father and we a re told to honor our parents !when thigs finaly calm down (and they will ) get together with him and discuss how you felt...

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Darkest_Lily @Darkest_Lily (16) 2 Mar 07

I found out today that my father said he has wasted 25 years of his life on my mum, me and my sister. My parents were arguing about their divorce settlement and my sister was in the room too. He actually said the words "I've...

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lucy02 I've often said some really mean things that I didn't mean and really regretted just because I was hurt myself and wanted to hurt the other person. You should talk to your dad in private. I'll bet he doesn't really feel that way. If he did he could have left...

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Darkest_Lily @Darkest_Lily (16) 2 Mar 07

I found out today that my father said he has wasted 25 years of his life on my mum, me and my sister. My parents were arguing about their divorce settlement and my sister was in the room too. He actually said the words "I've...

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ironstruck Personally, I believe the words will be with you for the rest of your life. I grew up with a father who was a mean drunk and I remember every rotten thing he ever said or did. And I'm 57. It still bothers me. That is why when you are around your kids,...

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Darkest_Lily @Darkest_Lily (16) 2 Mar 07

I found out today that my father said he has wasted 25 years of his life on my mum, me and my sister. My parents were arguing about their divorce settlement and my sister was in the room too. He actually said the words "I've...

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goodson You can never take your words back, nor can one forget them. You may forgive but forgetting is another story.

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