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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 13 Nov 08

I have been going out with this guy for 4yrs now, and although some things about him have bothered me right from the start, i always thought i loved him and tried to ignore those things. There was a time when I thought we would...

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AcousticSoul Well to start off you have to think about you what makes you happy. and you have to weigh in how much you love this man 4 years a long time to quit someone because of communication errors. have you ever expressed to him how he makes you feel? and if so, has he...

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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 13 Nov 08

I have been going out with this guy for 4yrs now, and although some things about him have bothered me right from the start, i always thought i loved him and tried to ignore those things. There was a time when I thought we would...

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angelface23 Simple answer- if you are unhappy with your current boyfriend then leave him. He obviously doesnt want the same things you do. It's not like you would be doign it for this other guy it would be for yourself. He doesn't have to know that you met someone else.

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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 13 Nov 08

I have been going out with this guy for 4yrs now, and although some things about him have bothered me right from the start, i always thought i loved him and tried to ignore those things. There was a time when I thought we would...

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lenmay I think I understand what you're feeling right now. You don't have to agree with me, I just want to express my opinion on this matter. First of all, do you really love your bf? have you really loved him? and do u still love him? Second, if you know deep...

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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 13 Nov 08

I have been going out with this guy for 4yrs now, and although some things about him have bothered me right from the start, i always thought i loved him and tried to ignore those things. There was a time when I thought we would...

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deedeehall sounds like you have thought things thru before this other guy.however if you dont think you love the guy you are with now you should let him know .hold off on any other relationship until you have cleared all problems up with this guy .you dont want to make...

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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 13 Nov 08

I have been going out with this guy for 4yrs now, and although some things about him have bothered me right from the start, i always thought i loved him and tried to ignore those things. There was a time when I thought we would...

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chiaeugene follow your instinct and heart on this. no one can help u. only u can find your own happiness and 4 years in a relationship is rather long. it is normal that a relationship may turn blend and has its up and down but the most important is u must have feelings...

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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 13 Nov 08

I have been going out with this guy for 4yrs now, and although some things about him have bothered me right from the start, i always thought i loved him and tried to ignore those things. There was a time when I thought we would...

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simon9527 Never give up your love. IF you have the feeling for him, keep your love and maybe get married. Love should resist passing of time. After dating for a long time, you will find more shortcomingss or weak points in your lover. Then, what you should focus on...

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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 13 Nov 08

I have been going out with this guy for 4yrs now, and although some things about him have bothered me right from the start, i always thought i loved him and tried to ignore those things. There was a time when I thought we would...

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teejams okey first of all i admire you for choosing not to cheat on him. and it's the right thing to do. another thing you can do for now is to really really assess what you're feeling for both guys. is what your feeling for the new guy real? or maybe you're just...

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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 13 Nov 08

I have been going out with this guy for 4yrs now, and although some things about him have bothered me right from the start, i always thought i loved him and tried to ignore those things. There was a time when I thought we would...

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trixyteddy Isn't it better now than later? What's the point of being unhappy your whole life? You will be miserable and in the bargain, your boyfriend too will become miserable. You cannot keep pretending forever. Tell it to him straight. He might get hurt, but this hurt...

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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 13 Nov 08

I have been going out with this guy for 4yrs now, and although some things about him have bothered me right from the start, i always thought i loved him and tried to ignore those things. There was a time when I thought we would...

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mythreya It is not tough to answer.Have a Heart to heart talk with your old boy friend.Tell him about what you feel about your relationship.You are hurting yourself by thinking that you dont want to hurt him.So speak to him once .

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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 13 Nov 08

I have been going out with this guy for 4yrs now, and although some things about him have bothered me right from the start, i always thought i loved him and tried to ignore those things. There was a time when I thought we would...

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darkfeary474 I would have to say from first hand experience to follow your gut feeling!! ,,, 9 times out of 10 your gut is usually right. I Know in the past i wish i would have listened to my gut. and due to me not listneing to my gut i ended up in a domestic violence...

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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 13 Nov 08

I have been going out with this guy for 4yrs now, and although some things about him have bothered me right from the start, i always thought i loved him and tried to ignore those things. There was a time when I thought we would...

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yangshuai not too hurry.after all you have a long time feeling with your boyfriend,if suddenly announce to break up with him,hard to receive.the better way is to talk each other ,having a nice communication.exchanging feeling from each other,if you had done this, but...

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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 13 Nov 08

I have been going out with this guy for 4yrs now, and although some things about him have bothered me right from the start, i always thought i loved him and tried to ignore those things. There was a time when I thought we would...

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robert19ph hello KhittiKhat77, You need a lot of thinking before making your final decision. Choosing between your boyfriend and your new boy friend is really tough. Have to weigh between the two who is the right guy for you. If you're really decided then you can tell...

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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 13 Nov 08

I have been going out with this guy for 4yrs now, and although some things about him have bothered me right from the start, i always thought i loved him and tried to ignore those things. There was a time when I thought we would...

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jeszieltrevor_4ever I guess what you should do is to find your self first. Don't ignore your feelings, and find within yourself what do you want to be. Also with this you should also be open to whatever you feel you want and the decision lies in your hand. You are the one holding...

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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 13 Nov 08

I have been going out with this guy for 4yrs now, and although some things about him have bothered me right from the start, i always thought i loved him and tried to ignore those things. There was a time when I thought we would...

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skysuccess KhittiKhat77, Love per se isn't some mutually exclusive entity living on its own dimension - in fact, it's very much interwoven with one's life. I see this as two possibilities (no offense): I) You are naturally weak in communication, self expression...

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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 13 Nov 08

I have been going out with this guy for 4yrs now, and although some things about him have bothered me right from the start, i always thought i loved him and tried to ignore those things. There was a time when I thought we would...

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lilaclady I guess you are the only person who can make that decision, I think you have to keep in mind that this is your life, to be happy and make the most of that life is what it is all about, but before you make any permanent decisions make sure you know what you are...

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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 13 Nov 08

I have been going out with this guy for 4yrs now, and although some things about him have bothered me right from the start, i always thought i loved him and tried to ignore those things. There was a time when I thought we would...

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Rachelce I was with a guy for 4 years, we lived together and we had a dog. He was supporting me so i could finish my educaion and working long days. My feelings toward him started to change...i just didnt find him attractive anymore and we never really paid affection...

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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 20 Feb 08

Hi, I haven't been here for a few days but I'm hoping someone can give me some advice. I have a coworker who should've been fired years ago, but my boss is rather soft hearted and feels sorry for her. She has become a real pain in...

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jhl930 I think that if everyone is having a problem with her and she didn't know how to do her job well...I would say that you should go and have a talk with the boss about her..just bring it up not like saying you need to fire her...just say like I noticed that some...

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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 20 Feb 08

Hi, I haven't been here for a few days but I'm hoping someone can give me some advice. I have a coworker who should've been fired years ago, but my boss is rather soft hearted and feels sorry for her. She has become a real pain in...

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Czheckproductions Id let this person know how you feel and give them another chance or just tell the boss how you feel it might not make you feel good but it seems like the right thing to do-Czheck

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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 20 Feb 08

Hi, I haven't been here for a few days but I'm hoping someone can give me some advice. I have a coworker who should've been fired years ago, but my boss is rather soft hearted and feels sorry for her. She has become a real pain in...

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bijuparekkatt In my opinion you should not support her. You are just killing her individulaity and ability by supporting her. What u can do is tell her frankly that you are not going to support her and you give her a deadline by which she should rectify her mistakes and...

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KhittiKhat77 @KhittiKhat77 (27) 20 Feb 08

Hi, I haven't been here for a few days but I'm hoping someone can give me some advice. I have a coworker who should've been fired years ago, but my boss is rather soft hearted and feels sorry for her. She has become a real pain in...

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titaniumsoul I think it is no use of any ideas to kick her out of the office. From the situation described, I can only give an advice which is if you cannot tolerate anymore of her nonsenses, quit the job. The reason for the advice is because your colleague seem to have...

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