Aerdran

@Aerdran (19)

United States • Age 59

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Forcing Classes on a Teenager

Aerdran @Aerdran (19) • United States 8 Jun 07

My 17 year old daughter has decided that she does not want to take choir in high school next year. She's taken it for several years and says she just doesn't feel like taking it again. My husband has talked to her about this...

forcing classes

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Aerdran He's going to have to learn someday that he cannot have full control of any of his kids. He has a 24 year old daughter that he still tries to control by using the "I'm your father, you won't argue with me, it's disrespectful" line.

8 Jun 07

Forcing Classes on a Teenager

Aerdran @Aerdran (19) • United States 8 Jun 07

My 17 year old daughter has decided that she does not want to take choir in high school next year. She's taken it for several years and says she just doesn't feel like taking it again. My husband has talked to her about this...

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Aerdran Exactly. She seems to enjoy it less than before and so she shouldn't be forced to take it. She wants to focus on other things, and I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Apparently, he doesn't agree. I'm definitely going to support her on it, no...

8 Jun 07

Forcing Classes on a Teenager

Aerdran @Aerdran (19) • United States 8 Jun 07

My 17 year old daughter has decided that she does not want to take choir in high school next year. She's taken it for several years and says she just doesn't feel like taking it again. My husband has talked to her about this...

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Aerdran I'm certainly sticking to it, that's for sure. And she's got a nice strong stubborn streak, so I don't see her caving on it anytime soon. If she starts to, I'll definitely step up to the plate.

8 Jun 07

Forcing Classes on a Teenager

Aerdran @Aerdran (19) • United States 8 Jun 07

My 17 year old daughter has decided that she does not want to take choir in high school next year. She's taken it for several years and says she just doesn't feel like taking it again. My husband has talked to her about this...

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Aerdran Unfortunately, he seems to be of the opinion that she has to take choir in order to learn responsibility. Try wrapping your brain around that one. He has to force her to do something she doesn't want to do so she'll be responsible. But then, this is the man...

8 Jun 07

Forcing Classes on a Teenager

Aerdran @Aerdran (19) • United States 8 Jun 07

My 17 year old daughter has decided that she does not want to take choir in high school next year. She's taken it for several years and says she just doesn't feel like taking it again. My husband has talked to her about this...

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Aerdran Good timing! As I mentioned in my response up there, yeah, he's a control freak. More than a bit of one, sadly. He does think that he should be in total charge of the household, and he hates when I don't let him get away with that, especially when he's...

8 Jun 07

Forcing Classes on a Teenager

Aerdran @Aerdran (19) • United States 8 Jun 07

My 17 year old daughter has decided that she does not want to take choir in high school next year. She's taken it for several years and says she just doesn't feel like taking it again. My husband has talked to her about this...

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Aerdran Honestly, I think it's a control issue. He is more than a little bit of a control freak and he doesn't like people arguing with him. What he says, he thinks should go. It's a great way to make her hate choir, and perhaps singing altogether. Hell, when we go to...

8 Jun 07