@andreaskye on myLot

andreaskye @andreaskye (390) • United States 22 Apr 07

I was answering a post earlier in regards to brain tumors and it reminded me of this topic and I would like to see what anyone has to say or if they have dealt with this situation. My children's father was a Desert Storm vet....

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andreaskye Of course, my theory is that it has nothing to do with any chemical exposure from any outside source. I have spoken to many people who have loved ones with neurological ailments and the response is always the same . "They made them take ALL these...

2 Jun 07

sigma77 @sigma77 (5383) • United States 4 May 07

Do you think it is possible to instantly forget the past? To just let it go all together and live right now? Would you feel better about yourself and life if you could let the past melt away? Remember, the past includes everything...

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andreaskye This whole topic was very therapuetic to me because I, on another post, was going over how to get over some very strong anger feelings about a recent event in my life. I got some great answers there too. It seems I have been able to let go of a lot of...

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andreaskye @andreaskye (390) • United States 3 May 07

So I am reflecting back on a mistake of a relationship I made during a break up with my current boyfriend/ex husband. (Long story, anyway....) There was this 4 months wherein I let this guy, pretty much take over my life. He...

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andreaskye Well, thanks for the kind words and it is hard not to be very angry but you are right. It would be hard to go through the trouble to recoup. And yes, he has tried to get me to feel sorry for him. Do you know him? LOL! Thanks for the answer!

4 May 07

andreaskye @andreaskye (390) • United States 3 May 07

So I am reflecting back on a mistake of a relationship I made during a break up with my current boyfriend/ex husband. (Long story, anyway....) There was this 4 months wherein I let this guy, pretty much take over my life. He...

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andreaskye Yes, seeing everything that has happened as a lesson had helped some. It is just those moments when the rage inside pops up. Hard to fight. Thanks for your answer!

4 May 07

andreaskye @andreaskye (390) • United States 3 May 07

So I am reflecting back on a mistake of a relationship I made during a break up with my current boyfriend/ex husband. (Long story, anyway....) There was this 4 months wherein I let this guy, pretty much take over my life. He...

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andreaskye I know I need to move on but it just is SO hard. And being irritable from the full moon has not helped a bit. :-) Thanks for the answer.

4 May 07

babygurl03 @babygurl03 (268) • Canada 30 Apr 07

How old do you think that your child should be before they move out on there own? Do you think that they should wait untill they are done of school, Or do you believe that they should be able to move out when they feel they are...

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andreaskye I feel very strongly that they are welcome here until they are strong enough and ready to be on their own. I hear other people's opinions but I noticed we all had one answer in common and that is finish school. I guess where I am goign with this is that I...

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babykay @babykay (2131) • Ireland 27 Apr 07

We all have certain songs and tunes which when we hear them, arouse emotion in us. We might not be able to say precisely what this emotion is or why this particular song, but which are they for you? "Bright Eyes" by Simon and...

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andreaskye Well, I am so emotional about all the music I hear. And sometimes I can pinpoint an obvious reason but sometimes one song will just strike me for no reason whatsoever. I hear the words, I can relate in some way but yet just not sure how. One song I have...

3 May 07

heatspine @heatspine (1141) • Philippines 3 May 07

As they say, every achievement or fulfillment starts with a dream. What is it that you dreamt of having or getting before and was actually fulfilled? How did you do it?

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andreaskye Well, amazingly enough I have to say that my most recently fulfilled dream was to be back with my ex husband who is actually the only man I have ever truly loved. It's a terribly long story but I think it began with becoming totally honest with each other....

3 May 07

LCecelia @LCecelia (1124) • United States 3 May 07

I'm kinda new to mylot and I'm feeling my way around. Day after day I go through the posts and I can't find any discussions that brings forth my creative juices. Is it just me or am I just in a slump?

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andreaskye I guess I am a very opinionated person because I do answer a lot of posts. On the other hand it really has to grab my attention. I know there are some one liners that drive people insane but sometimes I get into those if a good thought strikes me or a very...

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subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 2 May 07

Today morning i came to notice one thing. very recently i have put notofication on for few friends of mine. when i checked my mailbox i have seen that a single user has started about 30 discussion in a span of say 3-4 hours. i...

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andreaskye This is me too. I have to really want to know what other people think to start a discussion so I may start a couple a week if that many. The strange thing is the ones I think are most interesting get the least reponses ;-( LOL!

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andreaskye @andreaskye (390) • United States 3 May 07

So I am reflecting back on a mistake of a relationship I made during a break up with my current boyfriend/ex husband. (Long story, anyway....) There was this 4 months wherein I let this guy, pretty much take over my life. He...

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andreaskye Both of you make sense and I have been thinking greatly about it. The kicker is , and I am not ashamed to admit it, is I ended up in the hospital for a second suicide attempt so a lot of what he did was when I was legally "incompetent" anyway.

3 May 07

andreaskye @andreaskye (390) • United States 3 May 07

So I am reflecting back on a mistake of a relationship I made during a break up with my current boyfriend/ex husband. (Long story, anyway....) There was this 4 months wherein I let this guy, pretty much take over my life. He...

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andreaskye Great answer. And yes, he knows I am happy without him. Back track, he is one of those that thinks he is the end all be all but oh well. I am waitign for it all to end as it should. I think I just really loat it when I had to spend all my money on bills and...

3 May 07

andreaskye @andreaskye (390) • United States 3 May 07

So I am reflecting back on a mistake of a relationship I made during a break up with my current boyfriend/ex husband. (Long story, anyway....) There was this 4 months wherein I let this guy, pretty much take over my life. He...

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andreaskye Yes, I did have the best intentions. Thanks for the kind words.

3 May 07

andreaskye @andreaskye (390) • United States 3 May 07

So I am reflecting back on a mistake of a relationship I made during a break up with my current boyfriend/ex husband. (Long story, anyway....) There was this 4 months wherein I let this guy, pretty much take over my life. He...

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andreaskye Thanks and good answer. You make sense. I do not even want to talk to him and am happy back with my pre "him" ex but it is just the injustice, you know.

3 May 07

andreaskye @andreaskye (390) • United States 3 May 07

So I am reflecting back on a mistake of a relationship I made during a break up with my current boyfriend/ex husband. (Long story, anyway....) There was this 4 months wherein I let this guy, pretty much take over my life. He...

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andreaskye I see what you are both saying but I never really loved him so the revenge thing sounds awesome. Then again, you know i am not going to do it but it's fun to think of. I just don't understand how bad people keep getting away with BS.

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andreaskye @andreaskye (390) • United States 3 May 07

So I am reflecting back on a mistake of a relationship I made during a break up with my current boyfriend/ex husband. (Long story, anyway....) There was this 4 months wherein I let this guy, pretty much take over my life. He...

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bornraf @bornraf (228) • United States 3 May 07

Contrary to the fast forward life that we live today, the slow life movementstates thatyou should take your time to live and enjoy life. so you have to slow down and go s-l-o-oooow with your objectives and planning. What do you...

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andreaskye well, I think slowing down and enjoying life will not only help with dreams and objectives, it will just help you enjoy life instead of freaking out all the time. Life is too short to rush through it doing this and that. You should enjoy each moment like...

3 May 07

Swtrose @Swtrose (3385) • Canada 1 May 07

Help me out here. This discussion is just for fun and entertainment. Let us see who can be the most creative. What shouldn't you say to a woman in labor?

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humor

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andreaskye True one here. My late husband looking at the monitor. It was an internal monitor so you could see the contractions coming before I even felt it. "Oh My God, baby, it's a big one. It's going to hurt!"

2 May 07

tgreen80 @tgreen80 (171) • United States 2 May 07

I was at work yesterday when my boss said something about the full moon affecting her mood. She said her husband seems to think that a full moon contributes to what kind of mood she is in. I know I was in a bad mood sorta...

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andreaskye Without any kind of doubt, the full moon afects me. It makes me into an irritable maniac actually. LOL! Every month. Forget PMS. Someone suggested to me that it is the pull of gravity and it messes with the fluid balances in your body, especially the...

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djdeep81 @djdeep81 (1061) 2 May 07

because it was too scary, gross, graphic or something else?? I remember a scene in 'Alien' where the nerdy guy had one in his stomach and the Alien was hatching. I actually had to turn my head away from the screen. It was...

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andreaskye I am going to have to agree with the young lady above me and say that "Saw 3" really got to me. And I have been watching horror films since I was cutting teeth. The part where he watches the guy get twisted to death was just, well, let's say I did not watch...

2 May 07

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