arabellazoie

@arabellazoie (73)

Philippines • Age 40

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Are you 100% sure in your relationship?

jen14ed @jen14ed (865) • Philippines 7 Sep 09

Are you 100% sure that if your in a relationship, and somebody better came along, you would never leave your loved ones, me I am 100% sure i will never leave my love ones?

leave

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arabellazoie yes im absolutely sure i would never leave my love for someone much better...because for me he is already much better than the rest of the world. i would not continue to love that man if he would be any less than what should i be receiving. yes he may have...

7 Sep 09

What was the biggest mistake you made in your first relationship?

jen14ed @jen14ed (865) • Philippines 6 Sep 09

My biggest mistake in my first relationship is i have no time from him my attentions in my work?,, i honestly is my mistake that we breakups? what about you What Was the biggest mistake you made in your first relationship?

first love

first relationship

mistake

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arabellazoie my biggest mistake with my past relationship...is to expect so mcuh from him. and only take take take never also give give give ... after the break up i realized that when you really are in a relationship you have to have give and take and be responsible...

6 Sep 09

How your pride might hurt you.

deod08 @deod08 (166) • Philippines 3 Sep 09

You should never love someone who would lie to you.Who would never show hos trust, and would neer ever let you feel you are alone. Dont talk too much when you are mad. Remember there is no turning back. Making a decision takes...

life

pride

relationship

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arabellazoie that is so true...but most of couples dont recognize it.

4 Sep 09

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What have you learn out of being broken hearted.?

joygracia @joygracia (1325) • Philippines 7 Aug 09

Each of us me see being heart broken as a worst experience that ought to be forgotten for but for some, it maybe considered as a learning experience like mine. I do consider it as a learning experience. Now, what have you learn...

being broken hearted

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arabellazoie i learned to be strong, be choosy of every guy who courts me and then never commit easily to the guy unless its the day of your wedding.eheheh

2 Sep 09

what is important in a relationship? trust or respect?

opalian_forever @opalian_forever (30) • Philippines 2 Sep 09

i've been through with different relationships... but i always feel there is lacking.. i just can't tell what.. I'm with someone right now.. he did a mistake that makes me feel uneasy with our relationship.. my respect for him is...

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arabellazoie for me its a very vital part of a relationship to have both, if ever i would lose trust i would have to strive hard to forgive in order to forget if i love the man im with so much...there is always a second chance if both are willing to work on it. you cannot...

2 Sep 09

What is left after the passion gone?

riani2009 @riani2009 (581) • Indonesia 19 Aug 09

Once, I met my friend. She told me that her husband was sick badly almost two years. He couldn't make love anymore because of his sickness. She looked depressed because of this. She is thinking about to get divorce but on the...

make love

passion

sickness

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arabellazoie she should'n leave her husband for that reason (making love) alone... if she really and still truly loves her husband making love wont be any problem, you didnt love the man your with bec. he made love to you..you love the man bec. of his whole self and how he...

19 Aug 09

have you ever cheated your partners?

lupin0302 @lupin0302 (137) • Philippines 27 May 09

we all have fall in love sometimes in our life but sometimes there is so many temptation all around us, like our ex relationship. sometimes we met someone who is so nice to us that we might compare our partners with them,...

ppp

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arabellazoie i could never dream of cheating to my partner...i love him so much, i would not want to ruin his trust to me and risk to destroy this relationship that i treasure so much. though we are open to being friends with other people or with the opposite. and we know...

27 May 09

How long did it take you to get pregnant?

abkinsey @abkinsey (173) • United States 19 May 09

How long did it take you to get pregnant? My first pregnancy was after almost a year of trying. It was ectopic, unfortunately. But, four months later, I was pregnant with my son who's now 19 months old. It took 11 months after...

infertility

miscarriage

pregnancy

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arabellazoie it took us about almost 2years of trying, finally im at my 38weeks of my pregnancy.. i excited already of my upcoming baby girl...my hubby and i are planning to have another one maybe after 8months of our baby.. best of luck to all of us..

27 May 09

what where your first sighns of pregnancy

babylucy2008 @babylucy2008 (128) • Australia 25 May 09

mine were migrain missed period bloating nasua felling pregnant

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arabellazoie i was very tired all the time and so moody...i get easily pissed off and get angry. and then i suddenly dont want to eat those foods that i really love to eat instead have this weird food cravings. i pee alot to. the next day i had my blood test to check if...

27 May 09

Do girls kiss and tell too?

modstar @modstar (9605) • Philippines 8 Dec 08

It's known that boys, normally kiss and tell. How about the girls?

girls kiss

relationship

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arabellazoie no, i dont kiss and tell even to my friends...i give them tiny mysterious details but not tell everything...and about what happened.; i like to be private and keep it to myself after all its mine to keep not theres

9 May 09

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how was your first kiss?

roxancuacoy @roxancuacoy (441) • Philippines 8 May 09

LOL did you still remember your first kiss? How was it? How did it feels like?

kiss

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arabellazoie the kiss was and still is electrifying...that was our first kiss

9 May 09

The kisses

rareability @rareability (129) • United States 8 May 09

Do you find pleasure in a long passion kiss, a soft gentle kiss or a bunch of kisses all over your companionate face? The bunch of kisses brings out the unexpected and a lot passion. Which is your favorite?

love

relationships

seax

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arabellazoie i used to love the long passionate kiss that burns me to the ground and wanting it more...but 2mnths after my first baby all i wanted is just a simple peck on the cheek or a tender hug when the baby sleeps...that crazy passionate lady who wants to get it on...

8 May 09

What can you do?

med889 @med889 (5941) 6 May 09

I know you love your partner very much and I want to know what can you do for him out of love? Can you leave your family for him?

love

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arabellazoie there are different situations where in we are confronted to make the choice. him or our family. irregardless of what or how...our family is our family. but if you are confronted with the decision that you have to make your own family and with that you have to...

8 May 09

cevical cancer

michiko15carlo @michiko15carlo (161) • Philippines 8 May 09

this past few weeks ... i was diagnose ... i have cervical cancer... i dont want to tell anyone about it.. last night while making love with my special someone...i cried, coz its painful and im not enjoying it anymore..he stop and...

cancer

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arabellazoie i know how depressing this time for you...but if your special someone wont give you.,you yourself should take up his strength to go on with htis. alot of women are diagnosed with cancer everyday...though you might be diagnosed with cervical cancer...it didnt...

8 May 09

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I am so MAD!! Grrr

tabsnlos @tabsnlos (587) • United States 5 May 09

I love my hubbster with all my heart, but today I just wanted to Khg$##@#! and H#@#$*@#$&&%$$(** !!!! him to the ground! What a butt he was today. I think that men get PMS too. If so, its his time of the month! Haha... I think I...

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arabellazoie my hubby has also those moments when he wont get his way with me...i just shrugged it off anyway its not worth fighting over a small things...

5 May 09

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Soulmates...True???

assunta @assunta (25) • Philippines 3 May 09

Soulmates...do they really exist? Hmmm...i've been wondering all my life if there is such a thing. Does God really made that somebody especially for each of us? But then again, there is this lingering thought - how come my...

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arabellazoie yes there is soulmates out there destined for each of us. but we have our own beings have our own choices.

3 May 09

How Do You Deal With A Breakup?

Simply_The_Best @Simply_The_Best (80) • Belize 3 May 09

Are you one who lives by the motto, "bad for the heart, good for the economy?" and shops your way to feeling better and more debt? OR, do you hide away from the world, locked in a chasm of chocolates, tears, old memories and...

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arabellazoie usually when i break up with my boyfriend is i cry for almost 2weeks and when im finally fed up with my self pity and misery..i pick up myself..get a make over, shop but not too much leaving myself with more to pay for my credit cards...eat my way out anything...

3 May 09

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the one you love or the one who loves you

sharlionse @sharlionse (739) • Philippines 30 Apr 09

i just remember answering this question when i was still in school,and i quikly chose the "the one you love" but now I am thinking about it all over again and I am so confused.. what will you choose?

love

you love

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arabellazoie i wont choose any. i certainly wont want to stay with someone whom i only love which i know dont love me back...it would be a total torture,plus i would save him the time and energy getting me hurt just to stop loving him. and i dont want someone who loves me...

30 Apr 09