arlerambabu

@arlerambabu (1079)

India • Age 45

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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arlerambabu's Discussions

Inexpensive way to improve your looks.

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 3 Sep 11

No, I will not advise you skin and body care cosmetics to improve your looks. Just think about those marvels around you created by that Maestro who sits in his studio behind that vast expanse of Blues, and made the world a...

body care

cosmetics

skin

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Rubble in the marble.

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 3 Sep 11

Once Michel Angelo, the celebrated painter and sculptor of renaissance, refused to admit that he’s a sculptor. “The form is there already in the marble. The form is surrounded by ruble around it. What all I have done is just...

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How well are you prepared?

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 3 Sep 11

The deciding factor that plays the key role in executing the jobs successfully in our day to day lives or in the office is the extent of preparation before handling the job. If you are given 8 hrs to do a job, you should spend 5...

tools

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The weapon of achievers.

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 3 Sep 11

Consistency is the hallmark of achievers. Success or failure, rain or shine, achievers with their sheer grit will not allow their grip to loosen on their targets and aims. They know consistency alone will assure them...

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Be Focused.

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 3 Sep 11

Multitasking robs away your focus and leads to shoddy works. Masterpieces of the world be it a Michelangelo’s David or Vincent Vangogh’s Sunflowers are the results of the undivided attention and focus of those masters. Don’t lose...

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I avoid peak hours.

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 2 Sep 11

In order to avoid jostling and waiting in the long serpentine queues, I avoid peak business hours be it for a bank or a trip during peak holiday season. I avoid restaurants and eateries during peak business hours only to avoid...

Fat around the belly

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 2 Sep 11

Fat around the belly which is known as Visceral and liver fat is associated with heart disease, diabetes and some kinds of cancer. To deal with the fat according to a study, it’s advised to do aerobic exercises like jogging which...

visceral and liver fat

weight lifting

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Dreaming Is Fine, but Doing Is Better.

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 2 Sep 11

Dreams act as a Road map that enables one to navigate over the hostile terrain of life with ease and sans hassles while on his way to cherished goals. Dreams should not be used as an escape to hide from the harsh realities of...

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We worry. Why we worry?

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 31 Aug 11

We worry about tomorrow as if worrying will straighten the things and change our tomorrow by preventing the cause of our worry. Realize that most of the things you are worried about tomorrow will not happen and even if they...

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What’s your weakness?

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 31 Aug 11

Can there be a soul without weakness? Weakness is a human trait. It’s not a weakness as many people think. If a child is struggling to walk in its formative years, do you think it’s the child’s weakness or shortcoming? No the...

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Hesitation leads to procrastination.

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 31 Aug 11

Standing on the shore, with a wavering mind and oscillating attitude, ‘To jump or not to jump’ will not help in making the cool water of the river warm for you. Instead of wasting time for the ideal conditions, plunging into...

oscillating attitude

success

wavering mind

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Auspicious time.

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 31 Aug 11

Some, before starting a work or project, see from the almanac ( A Hindu practice,) to check if the time is perfect or not. That’s fine. I can understand that. But for other things, the best way is to start the job on the spot....

almanac

hindu

time

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2 people

Failures frustrate

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 31 Aug 11

Agreed failures frustrate us. But it doesn’t mean we should be distraught over the failures. Definitions and perspectives are never absolute. These definitions and perspectives are always relative. My success may be your failure....

failures

success

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Dream, but don’t live in them.

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 30 Aug 11

Dreams are the Road maps to negotiate with the hostile terrains of life. To bring the dreams to fruition, take action. Dreams are meant for realization. Not to be kept in the deep freeze. Yes, beware of procrastination and start...

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Are you a Quitter? Or a ‘Never say die’ type?

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 30 Aug 11

While on your way to your life’s cherished goals and objectives, do you develop cold feet on encountering a hindrance and say, “I Quit”, or see the things in a new perspective and adjust and make a few amends here and there and...

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What do you think Minimalism is?

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 30 Aug 11

Minimalism is not putting curbs on my dire necessities and leading a mendicant’s life on the peaks of Himalayas. For me releasing my freedom held captive by unwanted clutter so that I can have before me the vast expanse of time...

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Do you have self imposed barriers?

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 30 Aug 11

Owing to the societal beliefs and the family influences, we tend to stay in tune with our deeply embedded beliefs and fears. Did you ever try to defy your own fears and attempt to try “Seemingly impossible “ things and make them...

beliefs

change

family

Are you courageous enough to forgive?

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 30 Aug 11

Mahatma Gandhi says, it’s only someone who is courageous can forgive a person who caused pain and untold misery. The weak can never forgive. What you have to say. [b][/b]

courage

forgive

mahatma gandhi

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. Pointing other’s mistakes.

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 30 Aug 11

Seeing a grave mistake in a person, are you tempted to correct him? Would you rather bluntly put it in a way that causes an unsavory situation? Or tactfully agree to disagree to maintain peace?[b][/b]

peace

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Spend a few moments with yourself.

arlerambabu @arlerambabu (1079) • India 23 Aug 11

Escape from the usual grind. Stop feeling at the beck and call of others. Stay with yourself and look into yourself. Hang ‘Don’t disturb’ warning at the threshold of your mental door. This quietens your monkey mind’s silly...

focus

stress

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