beijingwhitecat

@beijingwhitecat (5)

China • Age 52

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Fear: what is it you fear most?

BYOLA2871 @BYOLA2871 (4371) • South Africa 2 Apr 08

I read of a young school boy who killed himself because he bungled his exams all because he was afraid his father will beat him if he finds out about his poor grades. The father was dejected on learning of his son’s death. Fear is...

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beijingwhitecat i fear losing job. i just had a 2 years old boy, can't afford no incomes. at this stage, losing job is my biggest worry

3 Apr 08

Adviser????????

luhar2001 @luhar2001 (48) • India 10 Mar 08

Hi Friends! Would like to know whether it has happened to you or not.Sometimes you give advice to others in a given situation but when the same situation arise with you,you act differently.Is it easier to give advice to others...

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beijingwhitecat Yes, it is. when you give your advice to others, you stand as a third person, but when you are in the same situation, you are yourself, can't see the whole picture; and the most likely people like to sort their own problems in the familiar way.

21 Mar 08