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bettemachete @bettemachete (194) • United States 8 Feb 11

Looking back on everything, I used to think they were really hard on me, but now I think I was pretty spoiled. Do you ever just look back on some of the stuff you did when you were a teenager and grimace? I have definately made a...

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bettemachete The last sentence you wrote, I completely understand. And volatile is the right word too! Everything got better when I moved out.

10 Feb 11

bettemachete @bettemachete (194) • United States 8 Feb 11

Looking back on everything, I used to think they were really hard on me, but now I think I was pretty spoiled. Do you ever just look back on some of the stuff you did when you were a teenager and grimace? I have definately made a...

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bettemachete I totally agree with you; its because they are scared. And you know kids are a precious gift, as i get older I totally understand why people are over protective. There are so many bad people and bad things that can happen out there and as a parent, no one...

9 Feb 11

bettemachete @bettemachete (194) • United States 8 Feb 11

Looking back on everything, I used to think they were really hard on me, but now I think I was pretty spoiled. Do you ever just look back on some of the stuff you did when you were a teenager and grimace? I have definately made a...

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bettemachete When I used to work at a Teen Center I saw a bunch of carelessness on the parents part that I sort of blamed as to why their kids were getting in trouble. Like, I had this one kid who got another one pregnant, and also had graffiti charges, but their parents...

9 Feb 11

bettemachete @bettemachete (194) • United States 8 Feb 11

Looking back on everything, I used to think they were really hard on me, but now I think I was pretty spoiled. Do you ever just look back on some of the stuff you did when you were a teenager and grimace? I have definately made a...

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bettemachete I totally agree that you needed more freedom. Ive seen alot of parents like your parents. They sound totally paranoid! But you and me both know that they didnt do it from a negative place in their hearts. The coolest part is that your mom totally admits...

9 Feb 11

bettemachete @bettemachete (194) • United States 8 Feb 11

Looking back on everything, I used to think they were really hard on me, but now I think I was pretty spoiled. Do you ever just look back on some of the stuff you did when you were a teenager and grimace? I have definately made a...

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bettemachete Do you think that you are less shy now? Its cool that your parents provided what you needed. Do you have any siblings? If they werent hard on you, was your sibling more of a troublemaker? Basically, I was the troublemaker in my family, so my sister got...

9 Feb 11

bettemachete @bettemachete (194) • United States 8 Feb 11

Looking back on everything, I used to think they were really hard on me, but now I think I was pretty spoiled. Do you ever just look back on some of the stuff you did when you were a teenager and grimace? I have definately made a...

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bettemachete All I can say about that is that I got spanked with the belt when I was a kid too. Those were the worst! I do think that every kid needs a spanking every now and then. I used to work with teenagers and I think that some of them wouldnt have been so troubled if...

9 Feb 11

bettemachete @bettemachete (194) • United States 8 Feb 11

Looking back on everything, I used to think they were really hard on me, but now I think I was pretty spoiled. Do you ever just look back on some of the stuff you did when you were a teenager and grimace? I have definately made a...

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bettemachete Im the oldest so it seemed like I would get in trouble for the stuff my little sister did! Its okay to be defiant about some things. I still remember times that my parents were totally wrong, and Im glad that while i didnt act like a fool, I stayed adamant...

9 Feb 11

bettemachete @bettemachete (194) • United States 8 Feb 11

Looking back on everything, I used to think they were really hard on me, but now I think I was pretty spoiled. Do you ever just look back on some of the stuff you did when you were a teenager and grimace? I have definately made a...

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bettemachete Your upbringing sounds a lot like mine, kind of in the middle in strictness. I am so glad that you are able to influence your daughter like that! I know what you mean about not pushing, but a little bit of motivation and knowing that someone supports you...

9 Feb 11

bettemachete @bettemachete (194) • United States 9 Feb 11

I dont know how many of you other there play guitar, but im interested in knowing what was the easiest way for you to learn. Alot of people use tabs, chord charts, or learn from another person. Other people buy software that...

guitar lessons

guitar tabs

learn to play guitar

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bettemachete Sounds like great software. Ive actually dabbled with it at a friends house but have never explored it fully. Do you know how much it costs?

9 Feb 11

bettemachete @bettemachete (194) • United States 9 Feb 11

I dont know how many of you other there play guitar, but im interested in knowing what was the easiest way for you to learn. Alot of people use tabs, chord charts, or learn from another person. Other people buy software that...

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bettemachete That is a really inspiring story, I know the determination it takes. Now, you will have that skill for the rest of your life. I think thats really valuable. I have always loved the guitar, and admired people who can play. The college I had didnt offer that,...

9 Feb 11

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bettemachete @bettemachete (194) • United States 9 Feb 11

I dont know how many of you other there play guitar, but im interested in knowing what was the easiest way for you to learn. Alot of people use tabs, chord charts, or learn from another person. Other people buy software that...

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bettemachete I agree, thats why I wanted other peoples views on it. And its interesting that you bring up the point, "it depends on what you want to do on your guitar" For me, learning with a teacher was the best way, and all of the points you make are valid. While it...

9 Feb 11

bettemachete @bettemachete (194) • United States 8 Feb 11

I have tried many methods over the years but I think my tried and true source to kill boredom is the Odd News section of Yahoo news. I guess in retrospect that is sort of boring and old school, since I see alot of people use...

boredom

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bettemachete You know what, its kind of sad that no one else mentioned any physical ways to pass the time! Everyone mentioned online activities or watching tv online, lol. But obviously taking your dog for a walk is really important, and it keeps you and your dog healthy....

9 Feb 11

bettemachete @bettemachete (194) • United States 8 Feb 11

I have tried many methods over the years but I think my tried and true source to kill boredom is the Odd News section of Yahoo news. I guess in retrospect that is sort of boring and old school, since I see alot of people use...

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bettemachete Cool, I have never heard of Bukisa, so I will have to try that out. I use Mylot to pass the time at least once a day, and the great thing is that I learn new stuff, find out about awesome websites, and make some change too!

9 Feb 11

bettemachete @bettemachete (194) • United States 8 Feb 11

I have tried many methods over the years but I think my tried and true source to kill boredom is the Odd News section of Yahoo news. I guess in retrospect that is sort of boring and old school, since I see alot of people use...

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bettemachete Yes, it doesnt get much better than Google, I use it the most.

9 Feb 11

bettemachete @bettemachete (194) • United States 8 Feb 11

I have tried many methods over the years but I think my tried and true source to kill boredom is the Odd News section of Yahoo news. I guess in retrospect that is sort of boring and old school, since I see alot of people use...

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bettemachete Man, this was like the best discussion i ever started because people are helping me remember all of the great sites I used to go to! I mean, the Urban Dictionary, I LOVE THAT! I must commend you for this awesome recommendation because me and my friends have...

9 Feb 11

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