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BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 30 Nov 08

I have two daughter-in-law. My youngest son has a really great wife and she treats me with respect. We get along great. However my oldest son has a wife that is out of this world. She is hateful to his family, gets mad when we get...

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BlueStarMom1 We had a marathon 7 hour talk one evening and I did at least get to tell him how I really feel about all of it. He seemed to understand but didn't have any real ideas about helping the situation. We ended on a good note but with the understanding that if she...

5 Jan 09

BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 30 Nov 08

I have two daughter-in-law. My youngest son has a really great wife and she treats me with respect. We get along great. However my oldest son has a wife that is out of this world. She is hateful to his family, gets mad when we get...

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BlueStarMom1 You have a pretty good picture of the situation. I can tell you that it gets pretty tiring biting your tongue. Some times I just wish she knew what I think. But if she did it would make it worse for my son. It is amazing what a good mom does for their kids.

5 Jan 09

BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 30 Nov 08

I have two daughter-in-law. My youngest son has a really great wife and she treats me with respect. We get along great. However my oldest son has a wife that is out of this world. She is hateful to his family, gets mad when we get...

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BlueStarMom1 hehehe, retarded it right. This is not a person you can reason with. She is very self centerd and thinks that the world is her playground. So self-centered. If she were reasonable I would have solved this problem YEARS ago. The fact that she is not is why we...

5 Jan 09

BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 30 Nov 08

I have two daughter-in-law. My youngest son has a really great wife and she treats me with respect. We get along great. However my oldest son has a wife that is out of this world. She is hateful to his family, gets mad when we get...

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BlueStarMom1 How sad for you that you would let any woman come between you and your mom. I want you to remember one thing. Wives come and go - MOM's are forever. Be careful with your mom, you may need her some day.

5 Jan 09

BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 30 Nov 08

I have two daughter-in-law. My youngest son has a really great wife and she treats me with respect. We get along great. However my oldest son has a wife that is out of this world. She is hateful to his family, gets mad when we get...

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BlueStarMom1 Thank you so much dear friend. Thank God they do not have children together. I am going to let go and let God deal with her. I told my son that I would not waste any more of MY life dealing with her. That he married he, I didn't and that she was no longer my...

5 Jan 09

BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 30 Nov 08

I have two daughter-in-law. My youngest son has a really great wife and she treats me with respect. We get along great. However my oldest son has a wife that is out of this world. She is hateful to his family, gets mad when we get...

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BlueStarMom1 How true that is. I have talked to my son. Will see if it helps. If not I have already told him that I am tired of all of this and will definatley be dealing with her a little harder in the future.

5 Jan 09

BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 30 Nov 08

I have two daughter-in-law. My youngest son has a really great wife and she treats me with respect. We get along great. However my oldest son has a wife that is out of this world. She is hateful to his family, gets mad when we get...

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BlueStarMom1 Amazing how some people can be isn't it. Thanks for your response and good luck.

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BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 30 Nov 08

I have two daughter-in-law. My youngest son has a really great wife and she treats me with respect. We get along great. However my oldest son has a wife that is out of this world. She is hateful to his family, gets mad when we get...

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BlueStarMom1 Thanks for responding. You know what they say, "What goes round comes round" and I have seen that over and over. Her day is coming.

5 Jan 09

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BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 30 Nov 08

I have two daughter-in-law. My youngest son has a really great wife and she treats me with respect. We get along great. However my oldest son has a wife that is out of this world. She is hateful to his family, gets mad when we get...

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BlueStarMom1 posioning is out. Couldn't live with myself. Had a long talk with my son and we are going to try some different tactics and standing up to her is definatley one of them.

5 Jan 09

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BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 30 Nov 08

I have two daughter-in-law. My youngest son has a really great wife and she treats me with respect. We get along great. However my oldest son has a wife that is out of this world. She is hateful to his family, gets mad when we get...

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BlueStarMom1 Thanks Smiley, We did talk and made it through the holidays ok. Will see what happens now. Hugs.

5 Jan 09

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BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 30 Nov 08

I have two daughter-in-law. My youngest son has a really great wife and she treats me with respect. We get along great. However my oldest son has a wife that is out of this world. She is hateful to his family, gets mad when we get...

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BlueStarMom1 Thanks Jill, I have been told in the past that it is a jealousy issue and I am trying to understand why an adult woman can be jealous of her husbands mother. I have talked to my son, which was hard since he just got home from Iraq and I would rather him get...

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BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 30 Nov 08

I have two daughter-in-law. My youngest son has a really great wife and she treats me with respect. We get along great. However my oldest son has a wife that is out of this world. She is hateful to his family, gets mad when we get...

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BlueStarMom1 Dear Royal, Thank you so much for your response and I appologize for taking so long to respond but with the holidays and a serious bout of flu I am just now getting consious again. I had a marathon 7 hour talk with my son and was very direct. We both agreed...

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BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 30 Nov 08

I have two daughter-in-law. My youngest son has a really great wife and she treats me with respect. We get along great. However my oldest son has a wife that is out of this world. She is hateful to his family, gets mad when we get...

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BlueStarMom1 Thanks so much for your words of wisdom. This is his second wife so thankfully no grandchildren involved with her. I know what you mean about just keeping my mouth shut and treating her with respect. Hopefully someday my son will decide to change his life and...

30 Nov 08

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BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 30 Nov 08

I have two daughter-in-law. My youngest son has a really great wife and she treats me with respect. We get along great. However my oldest son has a wife that is out of this world. She is hateful to his family, gets mad when we get...

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BlueStarMom1 Thanks for the feedback and yes family is everything. I wish the day would hurry up when he sees through it. I don't want him alone and unhappy but he won't find anyone to love him the way he deserves as long as she is a sack around his neck. I would...

30 Nov 08

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BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 30 Nov 08

I have two daughter-in-law. My youngest son has a really great wife and she treats me with respect. We get along great. However my oldest son has a wife that is out of this world. She is hateful to his family, gets mad when we get...

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BlueStarMom1 Thanks for responding. I am waiting for the day for him to see the light. He just came home from Iraq so maybe he was away from her long enough to start seeing it.

30 Nov 08

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BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 30 Nov 08

I have two daughter-in-law. My youngest son has a really great wife and she treats me with respect. We get along great. However my oldest son has a wife that is out of this world. She is hateful to his family, gets mad when we get...

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BlueStarMom1 Thanks Steph. But after 15 years I don't see much chance of her changing. I am going to have to find a new way of dealing with her. Hopefully someone can give me some Ideas that I haven't already tried. Heeeellllllppppppp.

30 Nov 08

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BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 24 Nov 08

Hello to all of my special mylot friends. I wanted to take a moment and let everyone know that I got to hug Tracy yesterday for the first time in over 9 months. There plane landed tueday morning but we didn't get to see him till...

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BlueStarMom1 Thanks DeeDee, my hats off to you for dealing with triplet boys. God must think you are pretty special to intrust you with something that precious. My younger son is a full time firefighter and believe me I worry about him just as much. Good moms just have...

30 Nov 08

BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 24 Nov 08

Hello to all of my special mylot friends. I wanted to take a moment and let everyone know that I got to hug Tracy yesterday for the first time in over 9 months. There plane landed tueday morning but we didn't get to see him till...

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BlueStarMom1 Thank you and God bless you to.

30 Nov 08

BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 24 Nov 08

Hello to all of my special mylot friends. I wanted to take a moment and let everyone know that I got to hug Tracy yesterday for the first time in over 9 months. There plane landed tueday morning but we didn't get to see him till...

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BlueStarMom1 Thank you so much for your response. Hugs

30 Nov 08

BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 24 Nov 08

Hello to all of my special mylot friends. I wanted to take a moment and let everyone know that I got to hug Tracy yesterday for the first time in over 9 months. There plane landed tueday morning but we didn't get to see him till...

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BlueStarMom1 Thanks so much EB, hope you and yours have a good holiday to. Big huggers right back at you.

30 Nov 08

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