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Debs_place @Debs_place (10520) • United States 19 Nov 07

A girl I work with just had a 'miscarriage' at about 12 weeks into her pregnancy. I was corrected by someone who told me that the word 'miscarriage' is no longer used, because it implies blame. I was told that 'Spontaneous...

miscarriage

politically correct terms

spontaneous abortion

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cane2008 I agree completely and it makes more sense to me to just call it what they have been calling it for hundreds of years. miscarriage is my politically correct term and I could care less what the doctors or government says it should be called. my girlfriend had...

13 Apr 08

cane2008 @cane2008 (34) • United States 12 Apr 08

Written by my girlfriend You left without warning, before you even took your first breath. Now that you are gone I do not want to go on. I'm sorry if I did anything that cost you your chance at life. This shouldn't have...

healing

miscarriage

poetry

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cane2008 thank you so much for your input it really helps me understand how she feels. I was worried when i posted this that no one would respond and I would still be completely in the dark but there are so many good responses that have helped me in helping her. thank...

13 Apr 08

cane2008 @cane2008 (34) • United States 12 Apr 08

Written by my girlfriend You left without warning, before you even took your first breath. Now that you are gone I do not want to go on. I'm sorry if I did anything that cost you your chance at life. This shouldn't have...

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cane2008 Thank you so much. we are trying it is a hard thing to get over but sometimes i think she fails to realize that when i am holding her to make her feel better she is holding me too. It makes me feel better that there are such caring people in the world.

13 Apr 08

cane2008 @cane2008 (34) • United States 12 Apr 08

Written by my girlfriend You left without warning, before you even took your first breath. Now that you are gone I do not want to go on. I'm sorry if I did anything that cost you your chance at life. This shouldn't have...

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cane2008 Yeah i hope so too i just really don't want her to think that if we do get pregnant that we are trying to replace our angel. we never knew if it was a boy or girl it was too soon to tell but we named the baby angel because she said she needed to name it to...

13 Apr 08

cane2008 @cane2008 (34) • United States 12 Apr 08

Written by my girlfriend You left without warning, before you even took your first breath. Now that you are gone I do not want to go on. I'm sorry if I did anything that cost you your chance at life. This shouldn't have...

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cane2008 Thank you. she is not really seeing an expert but she did try online support groups and stuff. I think she is dealing with it in her own way taking on the world as it comes again thank you.

13 Apr 08

cane2008 @cane2008 (34) • United States 12 Apr 08

Written by my girlfriend You left without warning, before you even took your first breath. Now that you are gone I do not want to go on. I'm sorry if I did anything that cost you your chance at life. This shouldn't have...

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cane2008 Thank you and I am trying like i said in previous comments she tends to try to take it all on herself and makes it hard for me to help but when she does need me i am there.

13 Apr 08

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cane2008 @cane2008 (34) • United States 12 Apr 08

Written by my girlfriend You left without warning, before you even took your first breath. Now that you are gone I do not want to go on. I'm sorry if I did anything that cost you your chance at life. This shouldn't have...

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cane2008 Thank you she will be glad to know how much people care! Infertility is a hard issue to deal with as well my friend's wife can't have children at all so they decided to adopt. I know this isn't really the option that anyone wants to hear but I have to say...

13 Apr 08

cane2008 @cane2008 (34) • United States 12 Apr 08

Written by my girlfriend You left without warning, before you even took your first breath. Now that you are gone I do not want to go on. I'm sorry if I did anything that cost you your chance at life. This shouldn't have...

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cane2008 I am doing my best when she lets me. I hate that she tries to deal with this all on her own. sometimes I think she forgets that it was our loss and tries to take it on all on her own. Thank you for taking time to post.

13 Apr 08

cane2008 @cane2008 (34) • United States 12 Apr 08

Written by my girlfriend You left without warning, before you even took your first breath. Now that you are gone I do not want to go on. I'm sorry if I did anything that cost you your chance at life. This shouldn't have...

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cane2008 Thank you so much for taking time to care about my situation. See i wasn't trying to be strong in the hospital room I think we shed about the same amount of tears over this. I am trying my best to be there for her sometimes it is hard because she tries to be...

13 Apr 08

cane2008 @cane2008 (34) • United States 12 Apr 08

Written by my girlfriend You left without warning, before you even took your first breath. Now that you are gone I do not want to go on. I'm sorry if I did anything that cost you your chance at life. This shouldn't have...

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cane2008 thank you for taking the time to care about other people it is really appreciated.

13 Apr 08

cane2008 @cane2008 (34) • United States 12 Apr 08

Written by my girlfriend You left without warning, before you even took your first breath. Now that you are gone I do not want to go on. I'm sorry if I did anything that cost you your chance at life. This shouldn't have...

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cane2008 She saw your idea about the balloon and thought it was a wonderful idea that you for taking the time out of your busy day to put just one smile on her face. She never realized how much people care until she sees that they take time out of their day to help...

13 Apr 08

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