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cherubsn @cherubsn (32) • Canada 16 Feb 07

As a new mother I keep hearing people say that fathers are not expected to participate that much in duties pertaining to the baby. Or more so that they dont do much. Is this true? Or is it just an out of date belief about the...

dads

parenting

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cherubsn my 5 month old's father is not living with us, thats why im so sick of hearing that some men do nothing, as he is totally good when he is visiting. That I should be thankful of that. I'd like to see how well he does though doing a 24 hr stint as a dad!

16 Feb 07

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cherubsn @cherubsn (32) • Canada 16 Feb 07

As a new mother I keep hearing people say that fathers are not expected to participate that much in duties pertaining to the baby. Or more so that they dont do much. Is this true? Or is it just an out of date belief about the...

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cherubsn I agree with your comments. I think dads are more involved these days. The comments I have heard come from older generations and I dont think they realize how much dads do today, though saying that, there sure are a lot of single parents where the father has...

16 Feb 07

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cherubsn @cherubsn (32) • Canada 14 Feb 07

Here's a romantic one for the day. a friend of mine came home early to find her husband in bed with another women. What did she do? She jumped onto the bed and beat both of them up. Did she do the right thing? What would you do?

adult

sex

violence

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cherubsn Yeah it is pretty shocking. I cant help but wonder what it would be like to be the person caught in bed with someone elses partner. I myself would never go near someone who was taken, but imagine that! Gotta feel sorry for that person too.

14 Feb 07

cherubsn @cherubsn (32) • Canada 13 Feb 07

recently a friend gave me a couple of baby outfits. She has a baby younger than my five month old. One outfit was yellow the other white. I couldn't figure out what the problem was. She has a boy and i a girl. She felt that the...

babies

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cherubsn Its hard enought to dress ourselves but now we have to worry about our little one's clothes. I'd rather see a boy in pink then looking like a walking advertisment for some toy brand. I cant get over how many outfits I was given with brand logo's all over them....

13 Feb 07

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angel_of_charm @angel_of_charm (4134) • Philippines 2 Oct 08

i mean to say, we have all the what if's in life...we all made mistakes and we all had wished only if we can turn back time to fix things so it can work out the way we want it to work out... now it got me to the thinking that,...

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cherubsn i mean to say, we have all the what if's in life...we all made mistakes and we all had wished only if we can turn back time to fix things so it can work out the way we want it to work out... now it got me to the thinking that, even if we turn back time and...

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bieke81 @bieke81 (1067) • Belgium 2 Oct 08

Well, almost three years ago, I was pregnant of our youngest son and we were living in an appartment with two bedrooms: one really big, and the second really small. So small it couldn't have two babybeds in it. We looked around to...

cherubsn Well, almost three years ago, I was pregnant of our youngest son and we were living in an appartment with two bedrooms: one really big, and the second really small. So small it couldn't have two babybeds in it. We looked around to find another place, but the...

2 Oct 08

sweetrala @sweetrala (1436) • Philippines 7 Feb 07

feelings of pain and loss?Discuss it here people...

true love

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cherubsn Yes, if you both can drop your ego's totally and not think too much about the past or future. Live every moment like it's your last. Of course i only realized this after I lost that special someone.

13 Feb 07

cyaoping @cyaoping (141) • Malaysia 1 Oct 08

Does paidtoclic scam?I think yes.Lately i found many PTC website with low payment is increase their payout.Like this one,from $3 to &7.I a bit give up.They still a scam. I not be able to earn my first payment even.

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cherubsn Does paidtoclic scam?I think yes.Lately i found many PTC website with low payment is increase their payout.Like this one,from $3 to &7.I a bit give up.They still a scam. I not be able to earn my first payment even.

1 Oct 08

cherubsn @cherubsn (32) • Canada 13 Feb 07

Recently my life changed a great deal. Not in a good way at first. I found I sunk so low that I crashed and totally had to step back and take a look at myself and the choices I had made. I've read quite a few books since this...

enlightenment

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cherubsn Do read it, if anything it will let you know why you do the stupid things you do and thankfully you will no longer do them in the future.

13 Feb 07

missybear @missybear (11391) • United States 30 Sep 08

I work at a hospice. There is always a chargenurse that's in charge for that day. Everybody answers to her. But we have this one CNA that thinks she's boss. She tells people what to do, when to do it and how to do...

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cherubsn I work at a hospice. There is always a chargenurse that's in charge for that day. Everybody answers to her. But we have this one CNA that thinks she's boss. She tells people what to do, when to do it and how to do it. Especally new people. It took me 5...

30 Sep 08

Jocelynk @Jocelynk (130) • Canada 12 Feb 07

(In North America, according to our liniment standards). You're out in public and you see a woman holding a baby, so you keep looking trying to guess the baby's age, then you realize that the baby is actually eating. No breast...

breastfeeding

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cherubsn People have forgotten what the breast is for. I have a friend who wouldn't breastfeed at all because she thought it was creepy. How crazy. I used to be very private about that type of thing, but since having my daughter, I could care less. I keep myself...

13 Feb 07

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cherubsn @cherubsn (32) • Canada 13 Feb 07

Recently my life changed a great deal. Not in a good way at first. I found I sunk so low that I crashed and totally had to step back and take a look at myself and the choices I had made. I've read quite a few books since this...

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cherubsn I should be honest. I kept falling in my situation because my ego couldn't be contained. The book that brought about my transformation, or at least gave me the guidence to get it together was Eckhart Tolle's The Power of Now. the best book I have ever come...

13 Feb 07

cherubsn @cherubsn (32) • Canada 13 Feb 07

Recently my life changed a great deal. Not in a good way at first. I found I sunk so low that I crashed and totally had to step back and take a look at myself and the choices I had made. I've read quite a few books since this...

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cherubsn Meditation has been a huge key for me. When you ar eable to just be conscious of the moment you experiencing its amazing how much love and light can be let in. It amazes me how much of our mind is on the future and the past. But to just be in the moment is...

13 Feb 07

makaira @makaira (1158) • Philippines 13 Feb 07

would age matter in relationships? does this have an effect on how the relationship would be?will it be a problem or not?

relationship

relationship with older people

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cherubsn It may depend on if you are the older or younger person in the reationship. I have been both and liked being the younger person. It's not fun feeling old, though the person I was with that was ten years older is much younger than me in spirit.If you dont tease...

13 Feb 07

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