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cooljoker59 @cooljoker59 (52) • United States 18 Feb 07

MET A WOMAN ONLINE AND SHE SURE MAKES ME FEEL LIKE TAKEING THE TRIP TO FLORDIA TO SEE HER. BEFORE i GO TO THE EXPENCE OF THE TRIP, IS IT GOING TO BE WORTH IT OR AM i WASTEING MONEY? HOW LONG SHOULD I WAIT BEFORE GOING TO SEE HER...

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cooljoker59 Thanks you may have a point. I sure like what I know about her but you never know if it is true.

19 Feb 07

cooljoker59 @cooljoker59 (52) • United States 20 Jan 07

After everyones advice I thought I saw promise but after I got the nerve to tell her now I don't know where I stand for sure. She said she needs time to think about every thing I told her and not to call or come by untill she lets...

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cooljoker59 Just thought I'd let you know, since I read your advice a few times and it was instrumental in my decision to come clean so to speak, she doe's call me on occasion now but her requests of my time are now few and she does'nt ask me over as often. She also ask...

6 Feb 07

cooljoker59 @cooljoker59 (52) • United States 20 Jan 07

After everyones advice I thought I saw promise but after I got the nerve to tell her now I don't know where I stand for sure. She said she needs time to think about every thing I told her and not to call or come by untill she lets...

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cooljoker59 Yea I thought I was ready and I have accepted the fact I am chaseing a ghost, but it cut me deep when she said we had to just be friends and nothing more ever. Guess we live and learn.

3 Feb 07

cooljoker59 @cooljoker59 (52) • United States 17 Jan 07

I have met a woman I am really interested in and have made myself her slave nearly for four years without being able to get any romantic response and its driveing me crazy. Anyone got any ideas as to what I'm doing wrong?

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cooljoker59 WEll in case you were interested I had a talk with her and poured out my hopes and feelings and she asked for time to think about the new developements. Well it took days and on into the second week and she called me and asked me to buy some things from home...

29 Jan 07

cooljoker59 @cooljoker59 (52) • United States 23 Jan 07

days and no calls she hasn't answered the phone or anything. What's up?

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cooljoker59 probaly right, she called me finaly and told me there was a really good deal on some yard stuff at home depot so I think she is useing me for her personal handy man and I have probable screwed away four years but I guess I'll go to home depot and get the stuff...

26 Jan 07

cooljoker59 @cooljoker59 (52) • United States 17 Jan 07

I have met a woman I am really interested in and have made myself her slave nearly for four years without being able to get any romantic response and its driveing me crazy. Anyone got any ideas as to what I'm doing wrong?

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cooljoker59 This is the best advice so far I beleive. May-be I should tell her even though there is no way I can stop seeing her on any terms.

19 Jan 07

cooljoker59 @cooljoker59 (52) • United States 17 Jan 07

I have met a woman I am really interested in and have made myself her slave nearly for four years without being able to get any romantic response and its driveing me crazy. Anyone got any ideas as to what I'm doing wrong?

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cooljoker59 she is the essence of what I want in a woman. I was a good friend of her husband for several years, and when he suddenly filed for devorce and left her for another woman, I more or less started doing everything I could for her and I am caught in an internal...

19 Jan 07

cooljoker59 @cooljoker59 (52) • United States 17 Jan 07

I have met a woman I am really interested in and have made myself her slave nearly for four years without being able to get any romantic response and its driveing me crazy. Anyone got any ideas as to what I'm doing wrong?

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cooljoker59 Yes I guess she doe's, she says all the time she feels like she is takeing advantage of my good heart and she feels like I'm her brother, and I just cain't seem to, altho I try, to tell her how I feel and each time I try I get messed up and she seems to change...

18 Jan 07

cooljoker59 @cooljoker59 (52) • United States 17 Jan 07

I have met a woman I am really interested in and have made myself her slave nearly for four years without being able to get any romantic response and its driveing me crazy. Anyone got any ideas as to what I'm doing wrong?

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cooljoker59 I cain't seem to tell her because I don't want to lose what little relationship I have now and I'm afraid she will decide she doesn't need me at all.

18 Jan 07

cooljoker59 @cooljoker59 (52) • United States 17 Jan 07

I have met a woman I am really interested in and have made myself her slave nearly for four years without being able to get any romantic response and its driveing me crazy. Anyone got any ideas as to what I'm doing wrong?

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cooljoker59 I don't want anyone else, I just want more of a relationship with her. I am on call for her 24 hours a day.

17 Jan 07

cooljoker59 @cooljoker59 (52) • United States 17 Jan 07

I have met a woman I am really interested in and have made myself her slave nearly for four years without being able to get any romantic response and its driveing me crazy. Anyone got any ideas as to what I'm doing wrong?

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cooljoker59 I think the attraction is there but just not the way I want it to be, we go out occasionaly for lunch or dinner, we shop and do other things of intrest to her, but she is ten years my senior and I think that may be part of my problem, or may-be I am not...

17 Jan 07

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