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arkaf61 @arkaf61 (10881) • Canada 11 Aug 08

It seems to be human nature and everyone seems to do it a bit at least once in a life time. Yet, it makes no sense and it doesn't necessarily bring anything positive. I'm talking about this thing people tend to have about wanting...

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arkaf61 I understand and yes studying is very important for our future, our life. It's ok to have friends but we need to keep the more important things first, and studying is one of them. Keep up the good work.

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arkaf61 @arkaf61 (10881) • Canada 11 Aug 08

It seems to be human nature and everyone seems to do it a bit at least once in a life time. Yet, it makes no sense and it doesn't necessarily bring anything positive. I'm talking about this thing people tend to have about wanting...

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arkaf61 Never feel sorry or fear that you have written too long. That's why we are here, to discuss things and experiences. ANd you're right, often people use the excuse that they want to help for their own ulterior motives, which is not nice at all. You do well to...

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arkaf61 @arkaf61 (10881) • Canada 11 Aug 08

It seems to be human nature and everyone seems to do it a bit at least once in a life time. Yet, it makes no sense and it doesn't necessarily bring anything positive. I'm talking about this thing people tend to have about wanting...

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ladysurvivor Oh my God! What you are writing now is exactly the problem that I am facing right now! Actually I have a neighbor who is exactly like the friend of yours, only that the exception is my neighbor only looks like she wanted to help, but actually she has other bad...

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arkaf61 @arkaf61 (10881) • Canada 11 Aug 08

It seems to be human nature and everyone seems to do it a bit at least once in a life time. Yet, it makes no sense and it doesn't necessarily bring anything positive. I'm talking about this thing people tend to have about wanting...

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arkaf61 Yes, Yes! I understand you fully. ANd it's true, sometimes we really really want to help. We love them that much. But as much as they tell us something they rarely tell the whole thing, and even when they do it's with some holes here and there.Amd this is...

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arkaf61 @arkaf61 (10881) • Canada 11 Aug 08

It seems to be human nature and everyone seems to do it a bit at least once in a life time. Yet, it makes no sense and it doesn't necessarily bring anything positive. I'm talking about this thing people tend to have about wanting...

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coffeebreak CLosest I come and have learned to not do it anymore, is with my grown kids. They have a problem and I try to help them fix it. Offer suggestions, things I have learned, tell them learn from my experience, try this or that. Problem was that they only told me...

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arkaf61 @arkaf61 (10881) • Canada 11 Aug 08

It seems to be human nature and everyone seems to do it a bit at least once in a life time. Yet, it makes no sense and it doesn't necessarily bring anything positive. I'm talking about this thing people tend to have about wanting...

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arkaf61 I believe it's ok to try to help specially if the person asks for help. But we need to keep things in perspective - in the other person's perspective. But you're right, in the end only the person can solve it.

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arkaf61 @arkaf61 (10881) • Canada 11 Aug 08

It seems to be human nature and everyone seems to do it a bit at least once in a life time. Yet, it makes no sense and it doesn't necessarily bring anything positive. I'm talking about this thing people tend to have about wanting...

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jaffna it's really a difficult one...me too have been under pressure and have taken wrong opinions and later on i have felt learn a lesson...when it's our problem,i can give assurance that only we can solve it rather than frustrating others....

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arkaf61 @arkaf61 (10881) • Canada 11 Aug 08

It seems to be human nature and everyone seems to do it a bit at least once in a life time. Yet, it makes no sense and it doesn't necessarily bring anything positive. I'm talking about this thing people tend to have about wanting...

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arkaf61 Yes, that is the balanced way to do it. And yes often just listen to someone helps a lot because when people let things out they can see their problems from other perspectives. It's when people get so involved in helping that they actually start seeing the...

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arkaf61 @arkaf61 (10881) • Canada 11 Aug 08

It seems to be human nature and everyone seems to do it a bit at least once in a life time. Yet, it makes no sense and it doesn't necessarily bring anything positive. I'm talking about this thing people tend to have about wanting...

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jillhill I don't want to own anyone else's problems....I am ready to listen and try to give an objective idea in which to solve the problem but it's really up to them as to what they want to do...And sometimes when you just listen that is enough..for when they are...

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arkaf61 @arkaf61 (10881) • Canada 11 Aug 08

It seems to be human nature and everyone seems to do it a bit at least once in a life time. Yet, it makes no sense and it doesn't necessarily bring anything positive. I'm talking about this thing people tend to have about wanting...

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Erilyn @Erilyn (3020) • United States 8 Aug 08

This discussion was sparked off by a discussion a friend of mine posted, and by no means is this intended to be a forum for people to bash each other. I typically do not get involved in religous disscussions here on myLot,...

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Erilyn Good point, and exactly what I was trying to say. You got it out in fewer words though lol. PLoitical discussions get that way also. Thats why Itend to stay away from those kind of discussions LMAO!!!!!!

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Erilyn @Erilyn (3020) • United States 8 Aug 08

This discussion was sparked off by a discussion a friend of mine posted, and by no means is this intended to be a forum for people to bash each other. I typically do not get involved in religous disscussions here on myLot,...

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fwidman There just seems to be something about religious discussions that draw out the meanness in some folks. Even though they'd probably deny it, they are more than likely to be the person that will tell someone that there are two ways in the world, the wrong way...

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Erilyn @Erilyn (3020) • United States 8 Aug 08

This discussion was sparked off by a discussion a friend of mine posted, and by no means is this intended to be a forum for people to bash each other. I typically do not get involved in religous disscussions here on myLot,...

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aidenw yes, that's the sad (and scary) thing about religions. they can be divisive, they can turn friends into enemies, and even create wars between nations. the thing is, a religion is a part of a person's core beliefs and values, and the firm believers refuse to...

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Erilyn @Erilyn (3020) • United States 8 Aug 08

This discussion was sparked off by a discussion a friend of mine posted, and by no means is this intended to be a forum for people to bash each other. I typically do not get involved in religous disscussions here on myLot,...

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Sparks I agree to disagree on certain points and still discuss what we believe in. Hows that? Sounds great to me! LOL Sweets, things turn ugly when ugly minds let their fingers do the talking. It's a pain, but it will never go away, much like poverty will never been...

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Erilyn @Erilyn (3020) • United States 8 Aug 08

This discussion was sparked off by a discussion a friend of mine posted, and by no means is this intended to be a forum for people to bash each other. I typically do not get involved in religous disscussions here on myLot,...

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thundero14 It turns ugly because people tend to be persuasive of the things they believe in. No one wants to respect what one believes in. It also turns ugly because of too much pride in the participants of religious discussions, their pride causes them to never give up...

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Erilyn @Erilyn (3020) • United States 8 Aug 08

This discussion was sparked off by a discussion a friend of mine posted, and by no means is this intended to be a forum for people to bash each other. I typically do not get involved in religous disscussions here on myLot,...

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jaypeemanuel Somehow your right. I am honestly active in the religious section and have found people of the same views ganging out a single person just because of differences. I am active as well in other Christian forums and have observed that each representative believes...

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Erilyn @Erilyn (3020) • United States 8 Aug 08

This discussion was sparked off by a discussion a friend of mine posted, and by no means is this intended to be a forum for people to bash each other. I typically do not get involved in religous disscussions here on myLot,...

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Andrealoves7and8 They turn ugly because of the simple fact that people can never agree to disagree on religion. I choose Agnosticism because I was sick of religion and having to follow religious rules. I was also sick of being told that I was wrong by all of the religions that...

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Erilyn @Erilyn (3020) • United States 8 Aug 08

This discussion was sparked off by a discussion a friend of mine posted, and by no means is this intended to be a forum for people to bash each other. I typically do not get involved in religous disscussions here on myLot,...

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Erilyn Having 2 points of view is the basis of a good discussion though don't you think? The point though is why do people feel that they need to resort to bullying just because someone has a different belief?

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Erilyn @Erilyn (3020) • United States 8 Aug 08

This discussion was sparked off by a discussion a friend of mine posted, and by no means is this intended to be a forum for people to bash each other. I typically do not get involved in religous disscussions here on myLot,...

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Erilyn Thats a very good point, and could be a good start. There are many times I have had discussions with people of other faiths and we have been able to have intelligent discussions without comprimising ourselves, yet they were real discussions. We all got our...

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Erilyn @Erilyn (3020) • United States 8 Aug 08

This discussion was sparked off by a discussion a friend of mine posted, and by no means is this intended to be a forum for people to bash each other. I typically do not get involved in religous disscussions here on myLot,...

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kassdaw I think the probable is that people can't just discuss their points of view when it comes to religion. I have a very strong stand on religion and I will not back down but I know that everyone believes in something not the samething. If people would say "I...

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