femmefatale_moi

@femmefatale_moi (79)

Isle Of Man • Age 49

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Why does he just laugh at me?

lexishantell @lexishantell (57) • United States 14 Nov 08

I am a single mother to a wonderful little guy that is going to be 2 in March. Lately, he has been horrible. I don't know what it is with him. I know I heard about the terrible Twos but I thought I still a couple months to enjoy...

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femmefatale_moi don't be stressed because your child could sense that... relax...i have 2y/o boy myself so i know its easier said than done, but you need to have the discipline too because babies copy their moms... if my baby is being naughty (w/c is most often than not) i...

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Best place to stay for Christmas?

the_actor @the_actor (494) • Philippines 14 Nov 08

Does anyone help me suggest where in the Phils best to stay for Christmas vacation?

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femmefatale_moi when i was growing up in the Philippines there was no place happier than my mom's hometown, not because of the place but the people, i get to play a lot w/ my cousins, get plenty of money on Christmas day from all my relations all over town, get to enjoy the...

14 Nov 08

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what's the worst misconception about your country?

kayedanda @kayedanda (1850) • Philippines 14 Aug 08

i live in the Philippines, and over the years that I have crawled the net, I sometimes get into heated arguments about really bad misconception regarding our people. like this super pompous man on yahoo answers, who, in his...

country misconception

filipinos

philippines

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femmefatale_moi that sorry sod is just a disgrace in human race... surely he is only envious of you because english is the only language he could speak and it's not our problem that he is soooo thick. our ability to speak in english does sum up who we are... there is just...

14 Aug 08

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do you like travelling?

zeny_zion @zeny_zion (1283) • Philippines 18 Jul 08

ive been to asian countries already. i loved travelling. it will help you to widen your knowledge and educate us. learn their history and culture. love it! i hope i can travel more.

travelling

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femmefatale_moi yes, i really love to travel... when i was in uni my dream was to work in disney cruise line so i could travel for free and i get to go to disney for free too hehehe i wanted to retire early so i could have the time and hopefully the strength and resources...

5 Aug 08

Have you traveled to another country?

sugarplum9084 @sugarplum9084 (1771) • United States 17 Jul 08

If you have traveled to another country, where did you go? I live in America, and I have been to Canada once, but at the moment I am planning a trip to Stockholm, Sweden! =D Tell me your worldly travels!

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femmefatale_moi yes, i go to places near where i live at that time, i've been to hongkong, schenzhen china and singapore in 2000-2001 because i still reside in the Philippines then... when i moved to the Isle of Man, i went to paris, pisa, florence and scotland... revisited...

4 Aug 08

did you ever see hongkong?

zeny_zion @zeny_zion (1283) • Philippines 18 Jul 08

i went there with my sister, nice place. too many people in the streets. most of the people dont speak english. it's hard to communicate and buy goods. we saw the ocean park. great! hug aquarium, big fish, delicious cuisine. i...

aquarium

hongkong

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femmefatale_moi yes, i went to hongkong in 2001 with my bestfriend, we stayed in Panda Hotel in kawloon. it was a 4D3N packaged tour w/ side trip in schenzhen city china... we went to ocean park, victoria point, to a shopping place where they sell jewelries and some...

27 Jul 08

does anyone know peanut butter is not good for pregnant women..........

Cocoa33 @Cocoa33 (921) • United States 19 Jul 08

i heard on the news that eating peanut butter is not good for women who are pregnant. i had been eating it off and on. i was told that it has the nutrients it needed to nourish unborn children. i wish that i had known about it...

foods that we enjoy

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femmefatale_moi when i was pregnant i was told not to eat peanuts because i have a family history of asthma and that allergen might trigger some reation from the baby and because of "nut allergy" that the baby might get when he's old enough to eat it himself... now i highly...

22 Jul 08

how much will i spend in travelling the world?

zeny_zion @zeny_zion (1283) • Philippines 20 Jul 08

i havent tried it. i dont have an idea on how much will i need to do that. i only did asian travel. will you tell me?im interested to save more for travelling. i love travelling. it makes me feel good and met a lot of people.

travelling

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femmefatale_moi if you are travelling from the Philippines carrying a filipino passport you need to consider the visas that you need to be able to enter your country of destination, if i were you i wont do it in one go, because holidays could be very tiring, most of the time...

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Best age for retirement

Desierra1004 @Desierra1004 (1213) • Malaysia 11 Jun 08

What do you think is the best time to retire and start to enjoy life pleasure without any work commitments? I have seen people retiring in their early 40's and enjoying their life while some shifted their interest to something...

old age

people

retirement

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femmefatale_moi i want to retire when my hubby retires, he is 7 yrs older than me, so if he choose to retire at 60 i get to retire at 53. if he'll choose to retire earlier like 55 y/o i'll get to retire at 48. but it's more likely to be 20 yrs from now... we still have a...

13 Jul 08

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retirement.

blackmantra_x @blackmantra_x (2732) • Philippines 6 Jun 08

good day. I'm still young in respect to this discussion but it got me into thinking that it's inevitable as we age we came closer to it. I'm just curious what you plan to do when we finally leap to another chapter of our lives.

retirement

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femmefatale_moi hi blackmantra, care to share your plan for retirement? before i share mine hehehe

12 Jul 08

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How much money do you think someone should save?

rachsal4 @rachsal4 (391) • United States 21 Sep 07

How much is enough, should you have college funds for your babies, should you have a 401k, should you have a separate account for emergencies, and one for just savings? I feel like it doesn't matter how much I save, or should I...

make extra money

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femmefatale_moi i started saving/investing using a very simple formula, 70-10-10-10, every month i put 10% on savings, 10% for investment, 10% tithes and and we live on the 70%... it's only hard on the first month because you need to adjust your lifestyle. after that it will...

12 Jul 08

The High Cost of Living, How is it affecting you ?

missbdoll @missbdoll (1165) • Australia 12 Jun 08

Is it affecting you? Have you had to make sacrifices ?What do you miss ?

money

saving

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femmefatale_moi My hubby and i live a simple life anyway before oil hit $139. i can't be anymore frugal than i am now and i'm definitely feeling some effect already... our weekly grocery bill that used to be £70 for 2 people went up to £90 and that does not include meat...

12 Jun 08

how do you manage your money ?

p_vadla @p_vadla (1685) • India 12 Jun 08

how much out of your monthly income that you spend for your living and how much you save ? What do you do when you fall short of money ?

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femmefatale_moi i'm married and we have a baby and this is our formula... welive on 65% of our income, we put 10% on savings, 15% on investments and 10% on tithes... we live within our means ... if need to buy something we save for it because my husband don't believe in...

12 Jun 08

how to manage your money

guangjie @guangjie (32) 10 Jun 08

Maybe this is a topic most pepole are very concerned, but now,the prices of necessities related to the life of people such as food ,daily commodities, is rising everyday. how can you do better to manage your money?

money

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femmefatale_moi i listed down a 2 week menu plan, that would not only save me time thinking of what i am i going to feed the family, it also save me a bit of money because then i would only buy what i need, meaning i wont be throwing away food in the process. now that it...

12 Jun 08

How did you handle your monthly income? Plus or Negative after all expenses?

hcpoirot @hcpoirot (1562) • Indonesia 2 Jun 08

Mine is on plus side. I have been blessed so far for my monthly income in my life. These past few years I got a steady income from my job. Never very much but its enough for me and a little saving. I probably will worried from...

financial

monthly income

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femmefatale_moi i had this formula that i followed when i was just getting started on saving and investing... it's 70-10-10-10... (10% tithes, 10% saving, 10% investment and we live on the remaining 70%.) My hubby takes care of our holiday fund, our emergency fund (w/c they...

10 Jun 08

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Second chances

Simoneetah @Simoneetah (420) • Canada 4 Jun 08

I'm in a delima. 2 1/2 weeks ago I broke up with my boyfriend. It was something that felt I needed to do and I've been thinking about it for OVER a year. We didn't have a falling out. I just saw an opportunity to end it and took...

breaking up

love

second chances

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femmefatale_moi an Ex is an Ex for a reason... stick w/ your decision because it took a lot of courage to be able to do what you did... you are a girl who knows what she wants and it so happen that he doesn't fit w/ your definition of the man for you... i don't know how you...

4 Jun 08

Breastfeeding until 5 years old

Amy @artemis432 (7474) • Abernathy, Texas 4 Jun 08

I've only heard of those who breastfeed this long, never met anyone. My landlady tells me that she breastfed her daughter until she was three years old. Then she had a celebration/weaning cold turkey day where they went to a...

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femmefatale_moi i breastfed my baby for a year, i really wanted to do it longer than that but its my baby who weaned his self from it... i thought i'd carry on till whenever he gets tried of it... it's a good bonding between myself and my baby and it's good for his nutrition...

4 Jun 08

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Do you like travelling ?

greenline @greenline (14838) • Canada 5 May 08

I travel quite a lot to foreign countries on business trips and for holidays. It's always so interesting to see new places, learn about different cultures, and meet new friends.

world travel

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femmefatale_moi i do! when i was young my dream job was to work in a cruise line so i could go to different parts of the world for free ... i did a bit of travelling when i was single, i finished my "10 places to go before i'm 30". My hubby and i did a bit of travelling...

30 May 08

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which place would you go on a honeymoon

naseeha @naseeha (1382) • India 30 May 08

Ok those who are married which place would you want to go on a honeymoon. Just the two of you... Those who are yet to be married, when you get married which place would you take your partner to on a honeymoon? Which is the most...

honeymoon

romantic

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femmefatale_moi i got married on feb 14, 04 and we went to Puerto Princesa Palawan, Philippines for our honeymoon... to London on Feb05 for our 2nd honeymoon con 1st wedding anniversary and to Rome for our 2nd "honeymoon again" on October 05. to London again in 06 , then a...

30 May 08

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