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babygrl22004 @babygrl22004 (238) • United States 30 May 07

So my husband's sister is having her first baby and her mother is making such a big deal about their baby shower....I wanted to have one with my first child and my mother in law told me it was pointless to have one. They treat my...

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babygrl22004 @babygrl22004 (238) • United States 30 May 07

So my husband's sister is having her first baby and her mother is making such a big deal about their baby shower....I wanted to have one with my first child and my mother in law told me it was pointless to have one. They treat my...

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Lauraleigh99 I just looked at your picture and you have 2 beautiful kids! And you are very pretty yourself! Yes you have a reason to be upset. That is awful. If I were you I would tell her that it hurts you. My mother in law keeps pressuring me and my hubby to have kids...

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babygrl22004 @babygrl22004 (238) • United States 30 May 07

So my husband's sister is having her first baby and her mother is making such a big deal about their baby shower....I wanted to have one with my first child and my mother in law told me it was pointless to have one. They treat my...

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babygrl22004 thank you for the advice. I have tried to sit down with her and explain how it makes me feel, however I was told shortly afterwards by others in the family that she told them I was rude and disrespectful to her and that caused a heck of a lot more problems for...

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babygrl22004 @babygrl22004 (238) • United States 30 May 07

So my husband's sister is having her first baby and her mother is making such a big deal about their baby shower....I wanted to have one with my first child and my mother in law told me it was pointless to have one. They treat my...

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muscare I really feel for you. It's not easy when you have all the in-laws having a go at you. I think the least you should be able to expect is support from your husband!! I had problems similar to you where anything I or my wife did was never really good enough. I...

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babygrl22004 @babygrl22004 (238) • United States 30 May 07

So my husband's sister is having her first baby and her mother is making such a big deal about their baby shower....I wanted to have one with my first child and my mother in law told me it was pointless to have one. They treat my...

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babygrl22004 No you were more than helpful to me. I just have to really sit down and think long and hard about if I want my children raised around this kind of treatment. My mother in law thinks she's an expert as well....this particular daughter that she's making a big...

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babygrl22004 @babygrl22004 (238) • United States 30 May 07

So my husband's sister is having her first baby and her mother is making such a big deal about their baby shower....I wanted to have one with my first child and my mother in law told me it was pointless to have one. They treat my...

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muscare Oh, they really sound like a really great family.NOT!! I don't think it will take you long to work out whether you want your kids brought up in this environment, but executing a plan is always the hardest thing. I wish you all the best.

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babygrl22004 @babygrl22004 (238) • United States 30 May 07

So my husband's sister is having her first baby and her mother is making such a big deal about their baby shower....I wanted to have one with my first child and my mother in law told me it was pointless to have one. They treat my...

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babygrl22004 Thank you very much I appreciate the encouragement and advice

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babygrl22004 @babygrl22004 (238) • United States 30 May 07

So my husband's sister is having her first baby and her mother is making such a big deal about their baby shower....I wanted to have one with my first child and my mother in law told me it was pointless to have one. They treat my...

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egfitz62150 Yes, you DO have a right to feel hurt. Your husband's family is dumping all over you and he's not defending you or his kids. He needs to understand that YOU are his family now too. They are HIS kids (AND his wife) that are being slighted!! He needs to grow up...

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babygrl22004 @babygrl22004 (238) • United States 30 May 07

So my husband's sister is having her first baby and her mother is making such a big deal about their baby shower....I wanted to have one with my first child and my mother in law told me it was pointless to have one. They treat my...

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babygrl22004 That is so funny because my mother tells me the same things all the time! My kids are her only grandkids but man even my stepfather who I never really got along with growing up treats my kids 100% better than my inlaws! Thanks for the input and advice

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babygrl22004 @babygrl22004 (238) • United States 30 May 07

So my husband's sister is having her first baby and her mother is making such a big deal about their baby shower....I wanted to have one with my first child and my mother in law told me it was pointless to have one. They treat my...

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winifred1999 sorry about your current feelings.just ignore them.let the dogs bark

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babygrl22004 @babygrl22004 (238) • United States 30 May 07

So my husband's sister is having her first baby and her mother is making such a big deal about their baby shower....I wanted to have one with my first child and my mother in law told me it was pointless to have one. They treat my...

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babygrl22004 are you saying I should ignore my feelings? I mean please be more specific. I can't just ignore the family because then that means I am taking that away from my kids as well because my kids only go over there when I need them to be looked after while Im at...

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babygrl22004 @babygrl22004 (238) • United States 30 May 07

So my husband's sister is having her first baby and her mother is making such a big deal about their baby shower....I wanted to have one with my first child and my mother in law told me it was pointless to have one. They treat my...

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egfitz62150 LOL!!!! Actually, I'm probably closer to your mother's age than yours, so that would be about right!! So, I think your mom is exceptionally perceptive, of course! As hard as this is on you, I'm really concerned for your kids, too. They are like little sponges...

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babygrl22004 @babygrl22004 (238) • United States 30 May 07

So my husband's sister is having her first baby and her mother is making such a big deal about their baby shower....I wanted to have one with my first child and my mother in law told me it was pointless to have one. They treat my...

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babygrl22004 Thank you for the advice. Actually my mother really isnt old to me....She's just about to be 41! my mother in law is almost 60 so there is a huge age difference between my parents and my husbands...perhaps that may make a difference as well?

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babygrl22004 @babygrl22004 (238) • United States 30 May 07

So my husband's sister is having her first baby and her mother is making such a big deal about their baby shower....I wanted to have one with my first child and my mother in law told me it was pointless to have one. They treat my...

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sunshinelady You are a very pretty women and your kids are precious. It sounds like this has been a battle for you and your husband is not standing up to his family and telling them to knock off putting you down. I was in a similar situation and it is a no win situation. I...

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babygrl22004 @babygrl22004 (238) • United States 30 May 07

So my husband's sister is having her first baby and her mother is making such a big deal about their baby shower....I wanted to have one with my first child and my mother in law told me it was pointless to have one. They treat my...

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sunshinelady And yes you definitely have a right to be upset and hurt.

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