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happy2bfree @happy2bfree (16) • United States 24 Jan 08

I found out in October that my husband of 9 years had been having an affair for 6 months prior. The week after I found out about the affair I found out the other woman was pregnant. I don't know how many marriages have...

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happy2bfree Thank You lala766!

25 Jan 08

happy2bfree @happy2bfree (16) • United States 24 Jan 08

I found out in October that my husband of 9 years had been having an affair for 6 months prior. The week after I found out about the affair I found out the other woman was pregnant. I don't know how many marriages have...

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happy2bfree Bellaofchaos, no you do not sound harsh. You are only telling the truth. What you said in your response, the majority is right on point. I actually talked with the 'other' woman and while she said that he told her we were no longer together she knew something...

25 Jan 08

happy2bfree @happy2bfree (16) • United States 24 Jan 08

I found out in October that my husband of 9 years had been having an affair for 6 months prior. The week after I found out about the affair I found out the other woman was pregnant. I don't know how many marriages have...

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happy2bfree No need to be sorry. I'd say the affair was 100% his fault because he didn't have to go there. It was childish and selfish no matter what was going on at home.

24 Jan 08

happy2bfree @happy2bfree (16) • United States 24 Jan 08

I found out in October that my husband of 9 years had been having an affair for 6 months prior. The week after I found out about the affair I found out the other woman was pregnant. I don't know how many marriages have...

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happy2bfree I am laughing at your response because about 3 years ago I would have done just that. The past 3 years I have grown a great deal spiritually which is the only reason I haven't kicked him to the curb.

24 Jan 08

happy2bfree @happy2bfree (16) • United States 24 Jan 08

I found out in October that my husband of 9 years had been having an affair for 6 months prior. The week after I found out about the affair I found out the other woman was pregnant. I don't know how many marriages have...

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happy2bfree You might not think you have encouraging words but your response is encouragement enough. I really think that I have forgiven him. I don't feel bitter towards him. I do know that we do have things to work on. Our discussions have gotten a little heated...

24 Jan 08

happy2bfree @happy2bfree (16) • United States 24 Jan 08

I found out in October that my husband of 9 years had been having an affair for 6 months prior. The week after I found out about the affair I found out the other woman was pregnant. I don't know how many marriages have...

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happy2bfree Stephanie5, I know what you are saying. The trust thing is the biggest factor for me. I know it wouldn't be just for the kids because like I said earlier, I do still love him. I love his company and we had fun together. Neither of us likes to fight and we...

24 Jan 08

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just2crazygirlz @just2crazygirlz (2479) • United States 24 Jan 08

My star number has now gone down to 4. Last week it was a 9. I can only assume someone is following my discussions and rating them all negatively. Anyway, that isn't the point. I did not earn any money yesterday on here. Does...

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happy2bfree Thanks for the info! I would have been going crazy looking for my rankings before I reached 100 posts.

24 Jan 08

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happy2bfree @happy2bfree (16) • United States 24 Jan 08

I found out in October that my husband of 9 years had been having an affair for 6 months prior. The week after I found out about the affair I found out the other woman was pregnant. I don't know how many marriages have...

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happy2bfree Lightningd, sorry to hear about your marriage. I guess only time will tell how things work out for me. We are still really loving towards each other. I know that he wishes he could make the whole thing go away. I keep telling him we have to deal with it...

24 Jan 08

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happy2bfree @happy2bfree (16) • United States 24 Jan 08

I found out in October that my husband of 9 years had been having an affair for 6 months prior. The week after I found out about the affair I found out the other woman was pregnant. I don't know how many marriages have...

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happy2bfree Hindsight is 20/20. Looking back, he suggested we go to counseling earlier in the year but I didn't take him seriously. I felt like the little problems we were having we could work out ourselves. Boy, was I wrong. Anyways, now I have put the ball in his court...

24 Jan 08

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