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harini23 @harini23 (84) • India 11 Mar 12

One of my friend asked me to give a suggestion that, her parents are asking her to Mary a person who is not having job but having property of 2crores.And she is not willing to get Mary with that person as he is not doing any...

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harini23 yes.what u said is correct.Person should have his own ideas to lead a life.He has to think about future and how we can develop ourselves to reach certain stage of success.If he has these thoughts then without doing job is not a big matter.Ultimate thing is he...

14 Mar 12

harini23 @harini23 (84) • India 11 Mar 12

One of my friend asked me to give a suggestion that, her parents are asking her to Mary a person who is not having job but having property of 2crores.And she is not willing to get Mary with that person as he is not doing any...

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harini23 Yes.she needs to wait until he gets a job.Without job we cannot handle the situations properly.If we want to spend some money,Every time need to think how we will get that money, even he is having property also.If job is there then there will be freedom to...

14 Mar 12

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harini23 @harini23 (84) • India 11 Mar 12

One of my friend asked me to give a suggestion that, her parents are asking her to Mary a person who is not having job but having property of 2crores.And she is not willing to get Mary with that person as he is not doing any...

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harini23 No.she is not loving him.It is like arranged marriage for her.His parents said that they are having this much property.So her parents are saying that, what is the problem when he is having property even he is not having job.She does not know what to do.let us...

14 Mar 12

harini23 @harini23 (84) • India 11 Mar 12

One of my friend asked me to give a suggestion that, her parents are asking her to Mary a person who is not having job but having property of 2crores.And she is not willing to get Mary with that person as he is not doing any...

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harini23 Yes.It is her parents decision only.Not her decision.But parents also will think about her daughter life only first.They are saying that it is a correct match for her.But her thoughts are different than he parents thoughts.She likes the guy who is intelligent...

14 Mar 12

harini23 @harini23 (84) • India 11 Mar 12

One of my friend asked me to give a suggestion that, her parents are asking her to Mary a person who is not having job but having property of 2crores.And she is not willing to get Mary with that person as he is not doing any...

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harini23 Actually her parents wants her to marry that person.She did not know him before.She is not able to take decision whether she has to listen her parents or she has to take own decision.But the thing is she likes her parents very much.She will do anything for...

14 Mar 12

harini23 @harini23 (84) • India 11 Mar 12

One of my friend asked me to give a suggestion that, her parents are asking her to Mary a person who is not having job but having property of 2crores.And she is not willing to get Mary with that person as he is not doing any...

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harini23 yes.Whatever u people said is correct.Money is not everything in life.First we have to see the character of the person whether he is good or not.First preference we need to give to that only.Then only we have to think about property.If he is having good...

14 Mar 12

harini23 @harini23 (84) • India 11 Mar 12

One of my friend asked me to give a suggestion that, her parents are asking her to Mary a person who is not having job but having property of 2crores.And she is not willing to get Mary with that person as he is not doing any...

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harini23 Yes.we have think seriously before we are going to Mary someone.AS he said in arranged marriages we might not know about that person very much when compare to love marriage.But we know at least some points about him.So taking right decision is important in...

14 Mar 12

harini23 @harini23 (84) • India 11 Mar 12

One of my friend asked me to give a suggestion that, her parents are asking her to Mary a person who is not having job but having property of 2crores.And she is not willing to get Mary with that person as he is not doing any...

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harini23 Even i do not like arranged marriages but finding love is also much difficult these days.And that too finding true love is more difficult.But what people will do if they will not get love. Obviously they will go for arranged marriages only.So that is the...

13 Mar 12

harini23 @harini23 (84) • India 11 Mar 12

One of my friend asked me to give a suggestion that, her parents are asking her to Mary a person who is not having job but having property of 2crores.And she is not willing to get Mary with that person as he is not doing any...

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harini23 Yes.First we have to think about the guy only.Whether he is good or not.Whether he is caring person or not.Whether he will give respect to elders and his parents are not.Whether he can handle life without any problems are not.That much intelligence he has or...

13 Mar 12

harini23 @harini23 (84) • India 11 Mar 12

One of my friend asked me to give a suggestion that, her parents are asking her to Mary a person who is not having job but having property of 2crores.And she is not willing to get Mary with that person as he is not doing any...

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harini23 Hi.Yes we always have to think about different scenarios also.What will happen in future if we loose our property and if we got loss in business.And the matter is not about property but the survival.Whether we are happy with what we are having.But being happy...

13 Mar 12

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harini23 @harini23 (84) • India 11 Mar 12

One of my friend asked me to give a suggestion that, her parents are asking her to Mary a person who is not having job but having property of 2crores.And she is not willing to get Mary with that person as he is not doing any...

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harini23 Hi.His father is having property like land,house etc.That whole property is cost is that much.As u said a man has to work.Simply sitting and enjoying his dad property will not be good.He has to earn money.as he did nothing until now.So better she has to...

12 Mar 12

harini23 @harini23 (84) • India 11 Mar 12

One of my friend asked me to give a suggestion that, her parents are asking her to Mary a person who is not having job but having property of 2crores.And she is not willing to get Mary with that person as he is not doing any...

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harini23 Hi dazzle.My friend is also thinking like u only.She knows the value of work.And she wants her life in a comfort zone.She is not willing to take risks.Risk in the sense, as u said what will happen if he suddenly looses his property.He has to know the work...

12 Mar 12

harini23 @harini23 (84) • India 11 Mar 12

One of my friend asked me to give a suggestion that, her parents are asking her to Mary a person who is not having job but having property of 2crores.And she is not willing to get Mary with that person as he is not doing any...

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harini23 Pramod, My friend is also thinking like you only.Having money is not important.doing job is important.But at present he is also searching job.if he gets a job then no need to worry at all.But the problem comes is whether he will get job before marriage? And if...

12 Mar 12

harini23 @harini23 (84) • India 11 Mar 12

One of my friend asked me to give a suggestion that, her parents are asking her to Mary a person who is not having job but having property of 2crores.And she is not willing to get Mary with that person as he is not doing any...

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harini23 Hi kitty.She did not decided yet.she also does not like the person who is not working.But her parents wanted her to Mary that person.So She is in a dilemma.She asked me suggestion.That is the reason i worried what i need to tell to her.In what way i can...

12 Mar 12

harini23 @harini23 (84) • India 11 Mar 12

One of my friend asked me to give a suggestion that, her parents are asking her to Mary a person who is not having job but having property of 2crores.And she is not willing to get Mary with that person as he is not doing any...

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harini23 Hi pramod.He is Having property is also.he is having land.And He is having his own house.Upon that he is doing business.If he get lose in business, he may get help from his property.But as u said, wasting the property is also not a good thing.If he has a job...

12 Mar 12

harini23 @harini23 (84) • India 11 Mar 12

One of my friend asked me to give a suggestion that, her parents are asking her to Mary a person who is not having job but having property of 2crores.And she is not willing to get Mary with that person as he is not doing any...

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harini23 Hi stary. As you said business can fail if he is not having the skills to manage the business.She does not know whether he is intelligent person or not.By talking we can not realize that he is having skills or not.So she is in a dilemma. But doing a business...

12 Mar 12

harini23 @harini23 (84) • India 11 Mar 12

One of my friend asked me to give a suggestion that, her parents are asking her to Mary a person who is not having job but having property of 2crores.And she is not willing to get Mary with that person as he is not doing any...

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harini23 Hi God_is_good.Whatever u said is correct.If he has a business then no need to worry to Mary him.But the point is,she likes the man who has some job,ambitions etc.If he is a intelligent guy then earning money is not that much difficult.So she wants an...

12 Mar 12

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