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ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

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ibcandy2 I know. It is a bad sign written in plain english that I didnt want to read but I knew it was there. I read the sign now and I know it is time for me to leave. You try to give people chances and time to make adjustments and when you see small changes being...

15 Jul 08

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

14 responses

ibcandy2 You are right. I do need to move out. Honestly, I should have moved out a long time ago but I wanted my son to have a dad and I thought I was in love. I do love him but I am not in love with him, I am just attached. I know if I leave, I am not going back. It...

15 Jul 08

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

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ibcandy2 I think that you are 100% right. There are slim pickings out there so I think I am just going to be in pursuit of myself and my son for a while....I am tired of people taking advantage of my kindness.......

15 Jul 08

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

14 responses

ibcandy2 What is so funny is that I like sports. I even play basketball and work for a sports channel but that isnt the only time that I want to be able to spend with him. I shouldnt be living with someone who is gone when I get home from work and I dont see them until...

15 Jul 08

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

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ibcandy2 Thank you so much. Who would have thought that wanting to spend a little time with your significant other would lead to the dissolve of a relationship???!!!???

15 Jul 08

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

14 responses

ibcandy2 He should be used to having a family. He has never lived alone whether it be with a girlfriend, or his daughters mother or with his family. He had just gotten out of a relationship a few months before we got together. I guess I just dont understand that if he...

15 Jul 08

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

14 responses

ibcandy2 I agree that leaving him forever is the smart thing to do. If I didnt have my son and all these financial ties with him, I think I would have left a long time ago. It is very painful to live with someone who says that they love you but everything comes before...

15 Jul 08

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

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ibcandy2 I know that it isnt going to change. We spoke last night and I told him that he put me in a compromising position because I love him but he is the exact type of person that I never wanted to date. This morning I think I decided that I dont even love...

15 Jul 08

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

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ibcandy2 It sounds simple that is for sure. One of my friends told me that I am not in love, that I am just attached. Honestly, I have always been the one if I see drama then I will leave but I made some stupid financial decisions while with him and I know I couldnt...

15 Jul 08

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

14 responses

ibcandy2 You are both right. I do know what I need to do. I just feel like I am stuck right now because we have a lot of financial ties together that I know I wouldnt be able to handle on my own, or atleast right now anyway. I feel so stupid. I am just such a giving...

15 Jul 08

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

14 responses

ibcandy2 I have a bad feeling too. I mean he has turned into the exact kind of man that I have always tried to avoid. What is funny is that he has a 5 year old daughter but he barely spends time with her. She comes over every other weekend and he sees her maybe an hour...

15 Jul 08

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 11 Jul 08

I am confused when it comes to religion. There are so many religions to choose from and so many different beliefs, how do you know that you are choosing the right path to God? Can you beleive in God and try to live your life doing...

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ibcandy2 I appreciate your input. I like how you said that you believe that church is just a support system. That makes perfect sense. It isnt easy doing the right thing and maybe being around those who have the same beliefs makes it easier. I am leaning towards...

11 Jul 08

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