ibcandy2

@ibcandy2 (40)

United States • Age 48

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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I am hurt with the way my friend make jokes with me!!!

Bebs08 @Bebs08 (10681) • United States 14 Jul 08

Did you experience to be hurt by a friend's joke? I end up crying because I was upset,hurt and mad at the way he made jokes with me. He left an offline message asking for apology. I;m still upset of what he did. Sometimes, too...

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ibcandy2 This has happened to me so many times that I lost count. How did I deal with it? I have a super smart mouth and I use it when necessary. People will treat you however you let them treat you. If they know that they can make jokes about you and you dont say...

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Do You Snore And Is It Normal?

Daddy Neil @neildc (17239) • Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines 14 Jul 08

I am not sure if snoring is really normal for people. Some people say that if you snore, you may have been from a very tiring work. Some says you maybe sick inside? I myself not sure if I snore at night but my wife says I...

noisy sleep

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ibcandy2 I do snore. I snore loud enough to wake the neighbors actually and it is pretty embarrassing but I snore because of medical reasons. I have adnoids which are supposed to go away when you are a baby but mine never did and I would need to have surgery to rectify...

15 Jul 08

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Should Mobiles Phones be BANNED from Colleges???

mtsandeep @mtsandeep (1586) • India 13 Jul 08

I am in my final year Automobile Engineering. Last week my mobile was taken away from me by our college authorities. I got it back after 1 week. Mobile phones are banned in our college. [b]Should mobile...

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ibcandy2 As a college student and a parent, i think it is crazy to ban cell phones at school especially colleges. Last time I checked, If you are in college than you should be an adult and should be able to do whatever you want to do. I know that there was a concern...

14 Jul 08

After marriage, do guys still can go out with friends?

yenwie84 @yenwie84 (1344) • Malaysia 14 Jul 08

I think some of the guys out there are facing this problem. One of my friends whose wife is very pampered always restrict my friend from seeing his friends,even just normal guys' gatherings. His wife always check on him and just...

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ibcandy2 I cant stand when people get married, they think that they "own" their spouse. That isnt how it works. I feel like if the person was hanging out with friends before the marriage and she was cool with it, he should be able to still hang out and she be cool with...

14 Jul 08

money or happy family,which is more imporant in life? please share

successlog @successlog (3172) • China 12 Jul 08

every one know money is almost omnipotent in our life.But when it is compared with a happy family we have, which is more precious? we should be honest and serious to answer this question,not playing at it. Thanks for all my...

every one know money is almost omnipotent in our l

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ibcandy2 Wow....this is a tough one. Honestly, I think a happy family is more important because money comes and goes. I mean dont get me wrong, money makes me very happy personally but just because I have it doesnt mean that I am happy with life. It just means that I...

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Why is it that I am only always wrong ?

ketybhagat @ketybhagat (4123) • India 11 Jul 08

Its soo frustrating. Everythime I try telling my son to do something, the father and son will gang up on me and tell me I am wrong. If I tell hm to study, he will tell me its his life and his father will tell me in front of him...

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ibcandy2 I really do hope that I dont upset you when I say this but your husband is bogus. There is no way that he should be undermining your authority expecially not in front of your child. If he has a problem he should pull you to the side and talk to you about it...

14 Jul 08

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should i still feel like this?

graceandowen @graceandowen (1637) 13 Jul 08

my father left when i was 3 years old and we have been back intouch for about 2 years now, i still get really upset tho that he left and i think to myself im being pathetic, im nearly 25 have a familly of my own and yet i stil...

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ibcandy2 I hate to tell you this but I dont think you will ever get over it. When you experience a tramatic situation, you never forget it. Sometimes, when time passes, it starts to get easier to put those feelings on the back burner but your case is different. You...

14 Jul 08

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Why do students shift courses?

bjcyrix @bjcyrix (6901) • Philippines 13 Jul 08

When you were in college, did you ever feel that you enrolled in the wrong course? If so, did you shift courses or did you just stick it out especially when you're in the middle of your college life (2nd - 3rd year level)? What...

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ibcandy2 Oh my goodness I changed my major so many times while I was in school that it was sickning! I started off as a mechanical engineer major, then went to chemical engineering, then biomedical engineering and finally graduated with a healthcare management...

14 Jul 08

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Online degree - is it worth it?

booboostrider @booboostrider (62) • Philippines 13 Jul 08

I've seen a lot of ads online about popular universities offering online degrees. is this the same as Distance education? Is this widely known and accepted by companies? Is it worth it? Has someone taken an online course and...

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ibcandy2 Hi. I started off going to a traditional university but as time progressed, I didnt have the time to go to a traditional university so I went to school online, Colorado Technical University. I received by bachelors degree in business administration and I am...

14 Jul 08

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Is education Important? What is the definition of success?

questionsnoanswers @questionsnoanswers (622) • Canada 13 Jul 08

Do you believe education is important? Can you have success without a high degree of education? I was debating this subject with my boss. He was saying look at me i have my own bussiness. I cant even wright English, but yet i...

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ibcandy2 Honestly, I think it is important to a certain extent. What is even more important is who you know. I say that because I went to school and got my bachelors degree in healthcare management. Graduated with a 3.7/4.0 GPA. Applied to work at every hospital,...

14 Jul 08

Is it possible ever to go back?

ESKARENA1 @ESKARENA1 (18261) 11 Jul 08

After a relationship has run its course, is it ever possible to go back and start it up again?

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ibcandy2 To answer your question....NO WAY.... NO HOW!!!!! Relationships end for certain reasons and it usually takes a lot of reasons for relationships to end. Are we to assume that all of these reasons would be rectified for the short period of time that you are...

11 Jul 08

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Did you CHOOSE your religion or were you born into it?

James72 @James72 (26790) • Australia 10 Jul 08

Regardless of whether you practice it or not; did you exercise the free will that God ultimately gave us all; and make your own personal decision regarding what religion you fall under or practice? Or did you enter the religion...

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ibcandy2 I was raised in a house with 2 different religions. My mother is a Jehovah's Witness and my father is a Baptist. Unfortunatley, the only time my father went to church was for weddings and funerals so I was raised as a Jehovah's Witness. My mother never made me...

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Failed relationships!

raydene @raydene (9871) • United States 10 Jul 08

When I discovered that my x was giving his best to all the others I was hurt and cried and still do but more and more I am remember the good parts of our life together and trying to stop allowing my resentments to cloud...

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ibcandy2 Oh my goodness....relationships are the worst. Usually when you are in one you debate if you should leave it but when you are out of it, you debate should you have left it. It seems impossible to be happy and to find that "perfect match" now a days. The...

11 Jul 08

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What makes people change when they are behind the drivers wheel?

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 10 Jul 08

hi was walking across the parking lot at Vons the other day and a car was almost hitting the backs of mylegs as I walked and when she saw I was not a driver, but was instead going to Rite Aid she screamed at me, ithought you were...

is it a crime not to own a car

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ibcandy2 I confess...when I drive I can be the nicest person (sure I will let you get in front of me) or the meanest b***** (heck no I am not letting you in) and it is completely dependent on the situation. I am a sweetheart by nature. You know, please, thank you and...

11 Jul 08

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Is this really love?

kharen @kharen (1488) • Philippines 11 Jul 08

I have this relationship. I know in myself that i don't love this person at first and i think that i'm just with Nen for 4 months going 5 out of pity. But Nen does this things that make me feel so special. He went to the hospital...

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ibcandy2 Ok. I am a little confused. In the beginning you were saying that you know that you dont love this guy and you were dating him out of pity and then at the end you are saying you think you might be in love? That is 2 total different ends of the spectrum. It...

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What a week it has been!!!

dhangski @dhangski (3194) • Philippines 10 Jul 08

This is the worst and the most terrible week I had. A week full of heartaches, struggles, stress, pressure. What more can I ask for? I had an argument with my husband last Monday because of the kids. That same day, a...

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ibcandy2 Sorry to hear about all of the problems that you have been having. I hate to say it but there are going to be more times where you are going to get into arguements with friends and your husband because you are individuals and dont always think the same. As far...

11 Jul 08

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Guys: What type of woman do you respect? Girls: What type of man do you respect?

anawar @anawar (2404) • United States 5 Jun 08

A guys perspecitve: Spill all your secrets guys. What do you look for in a woman? What type of woman do you respect? A girls perspective: What do you want a man to respect about you? Or, what kind of man do you respect?

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ibcandy2 Me personally, I respect a man who knows what he wants in life and is trying to get what he wants. I respect a man who is sure of himself but not cockey or arrogant. I respect a man with a sense of humor but can handle business when it is time to do so. I...

11 Jul 08

woman

atyie89 @atyie89 (1) • Iran 4 Jul 08

i am a woman and it's agood thing in my life becuase i'm going to be a mother .

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ibcandy2 Congratulations! Life as you know it will never be the same. Being a mother has its ups and downs but it is rewarding all the same. You are going to get so many people telling you so many things about how to raise your child. The best advice I can give is to...

11 Jul 08