yenwie84

@yenwie84 (1344)

Malaysia • Age 40

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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How to balance a married life,if the wife is earning more than then husband?

yenwie84 @yenwie84 (1344) • Malaysia 18 Nov 10

Recently,I have heard of so many these type of cases.When wife is earning more than the husband,this can be a big issue in a married life. Maybe from the beginning,the wife can still bear with the imbalance,but sooner or later,the...

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Should a woman quit a job in order to take care of children at home?

yenwie84 @yenwie84 (1344) • Malaysia 18 Nov 10

I heard about this from one of my colleagues. Her husband was asking her to quit her job and stay at home to take care of their children. Why should women only to take care of children? Why should women to do the sacrifices for...

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Giving in to a partner

sammy14 @sammy14 (834) • Philippines 18 Nov 10

In your relationship, who between you gives in in times of quarrel or misunderstanding.. Do you easily give in even if you think that you are correct or did not start the fight.. For you guys do you give in easily so that the...

giving in

partner

symbiosis

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yenwie84 Communication and mutual understanding play important role in relationship. In term of who should give in in times of quarrels or arguments, I think this is hard to define. It is depending on which party is more understanding and who can see the bigger...

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What kind of job would you never ever do?

mayrah @mayrah (1144) • United States 17 Nov 10

As I have said in my previous discussion it's nice to find a job that's very much closer to your passion, which you really love. As there is a saying "find the job you love instead of learning to love the job you already have....

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yenwie84 If I am given a choice to choose a job which I never want to do,I think would be a office-based job which requires me to sit there for the whole day and do repetitive things. This may sounds very difficult to understand as most of the jobs are repetitive...

18 Nov 10

How do you define home?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 23 Apr 10

In this day and time of continuing change, many people find themselves moving a great deal, and constantly having to try to make one more place feel "like home." Yet, isn't home a quality that we bring to a place? Some people...

change

quality

quantity

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yenwie84 Home is not only a physical place for me. I take home as a shelter in our heart forever with our family members and loved ones. Home is a place for us to share happiness as well as unhappy matters. Home will be a place where we go to no matter how we will be...

24 Apr 10

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Have you ever thought of something funny and started smiling.....?

karlle @karlle (221) 24 Apr 10

Have you ever thought of something funny and started smiling in the presence of other people? I did...and hubby keeps asking me why I'm smiling and I just told him that I remember something funny. How about you? Have you ever...

funny

smiling

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yenwie84 I had this experience when I thought of some jokes which happened in the day or I heard from others. Sometimes,little funny thing will really cheer up our life. Our loved ones will make us suddenly start to smile too.

24 Apr 10

How do you expand your vocabulary?

Curlann @annierose (21571) • Philippines 23 Apr 10

I expand my vocabulary through reading. I love to read books, magazines, newspapers and anything which has written text on it. Even labels of shampoos, soaps, bottles, signboards, anything. Because of that, I become...

expanding vocabulary

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yenwie84 I can only think of reading when comes to method to expand vocabulary. Ones can also add in more words in brain when starts to read more. I have this problem all this while, I am lazy to read, hence my vocabulary is very limited. Laziness is my obstacle to...

24 Apr 10

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Making enough money, are you happy?

earnnings @earnnings (1325) • India 23 Apr 10

I know everyone wants money for their survival. But online earning may not solve such purpose, instead we can pay some bills through online earning. So, how well do you earn from the online earning sites? Are you satisfied with...

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yenwie84 Earning online for survival is not a mission impossible but definitely it will be more difficult than earning from real life, as there are less opportunities. I used to earn some from Mylot,however lately I had been inactive and no longer earn from here. I...

24 Apr 10

What do we get from falling in love?

uniqueorn @uniqueorn (1011) • Philippines 2 Apr 10

Everybody wants love. Everybody wants to be loved. But again and again we stumble and fall, move on, fall in love again, get hurt and the same process goes on and on. Now, of all these things, what do we really get from falling in...

falling in love

love

relationship

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yenwie84 I think most of the time,falling in love is like gambling. We will never know what we will be getting until we have fallen into it. Falling in love is like taking risk,is only we dare or dare not. Perhaps falling in love can be a learning process in our life...

2 Apr 10

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What if you caught your friend reading your mobile text messages?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 14 Oct 09

I don't like somebody reading my mobile text messages without my knowledge or permission. It's act of disrespect and it's a violation of privacy. I would definitely get upset with that person. One time I caught one of my...

friend

reading

text messages

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yenwie84 In this situation,I think I will react like you too. I dislike others to get into my privacy especially handphone can be a very private belonging to me. If I managed to catch her or him on the spot reading my text messages,I think I will confront with her or...

15 Oct 09

Handwritting of doctor

shibham @shibham (16977) • India 14 Oct 09

Hi everyone. Just weeks ago, my mom became ill and i went to consult with a doctor about her illness. The doctor examined my mom and prescribed some medicines. I baught all the medicines but when i saw the entire prescribtion, it...

doctor

handwritting

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yenwie84 I am from Malaysia and currently working in a private medical centre. I agree with you too,doctors' handwriting are very hard to read. I am also puzzled on the reasons why they are having bad handwriting but fortunately the doctors I am currently working with...

14 Oct 09

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Have you ever met someone off the internet and went on a date with them?

Sheri @tuckersheri (1327) • United States 13 Oct 09

I have met people off the internet but have not went on a date with them. I think it is dangerous to that. By brother on the other had met a...

date

internet

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yenwie84 I knew my current boyfriend from internet too. I think it's alright to meet someone off the internet and go for a date with them as long as we don't go out alone with them. It's very important to bear in mind that we never go alone with someone we have just...

14 Oct 09

Is it okay to make friends with your ex if you already have a new BF/GF?

EARLZHAN @EARLZHAN (934) • Philippines 14 Oct 09

Hi guys.. what is your opinion about this? Do you think it's okay to make friends with your ex although you have a new GF? In my case i don't make friends...

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yenwie84 I agree of what you have done actually. I also don't make friends with my ex anymore because I don't want my current boyfriend to have any misunderstandings in our relationship. Although sometimes we think that be friends with our ex is not a big deal but when...

14 Oct 09

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Age isn't a issue on mylot. How much IMPORTANT is age for you in Mylot?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 13 Oct 09

When you answer to a discussion, or when you start a discussion, you think before for who you answer or for who you start a discussion? I mean, your target are young peoples, mature, or you started a discussion for all who are...

mylot

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yenwie84 In term of age issue in Mylot,I have an assumption. I assume everyone who log in Mylot are matured enough to read and respond to any of the discussions being posted here. I am sure Mylot's members are people who want to share and listen to other's stories....

14 Oct 09

Do music has the power to change your life?

Fulltank @Fulltank (2882) • Philippines 13 Oct 09

I've heard about this many times before. People have change due to music. Religious music has the biggest impact on people that I have meet. They

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yenwie84 I believe in this too. Religious music or songs can really change a person's life. The lyrics most of the time will touch a person's heart and make them open their hearts to certain religion. This is very true.

14 Oct 09

If you receive some money, you will like to travel or buy house and cars?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 14 Oct 09

I have a friend, who receive a lot of money, and he decide to travel around the world, even he don t have his own...

travel

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yenwie84 This is a very good question which I often think of although it can be quite impossible. If I am given a huge sum of money,I think I would buy a nice cozy house then only I will consider a car. Of course,vacation will always be my last choice. I am a person...

14 Oct 09

It has been quite sometimes I have not logged in Mylot,any updates?

yenwie84 @yenwie84 (1344) • Malaysia 14 Oct 09

I have been away from Mylot for quite couples of months, I am quite lost right now,don't where I should start again,whether to start a new topic or straight away respond to others' discussions. Any suggestions from fellow friends?...

Are you a cool or angry person?

mastinet @mastinet (467) • India 5 Sep 09

Are you a cool or angry person? How frequently you get angry? Does small things make you angry or you never get angry even someone does big mistakes? Comment and share your views.

anger

cool

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yenwie84 I am an angry person who is trying to be cool all the time especially during working hours. Sometimes when we meet with some stupid colleagues or team mates,I think no point for me to throw temper to them because this is not helping. I will show my angry...

5 Sep 09

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