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janzki @janzki (49) • Philippines 14 Aug 09

there was this person who keeps on sending me threatening messages. i just ignored her, i even cancelled her friend request in a social network. it gets her even more furious. she again send me a message using her husband's, which...

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janzki thanks for the advise... I have talked to the husband already but nothing happened. i'm not sure if he's doing anything or the wife's just paranoid... i am planning to report it to the police, i am just waiting for a one last text.

14 Aug 09

janzki @janzki (49) • Philippines 14 Aug 09

i have a friend who lacks trust on her husband. she was jealous of someone but cannot find evidence to prove it. she adds the girl to her social network but the later ignored it, she uses her husband's account to threaten the...

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janzki i think the same way.. bu ti don't think the husband is doing anything... or he is just the person who run away from problems... uh well i'm not judging him though.

14 Aug 09

janzki @janzki (49) • Philippines 27 Jul 09

I just had a friend who planned to marry someone he has not seen yet. They knew each other through phone, they we're introduced by the girl's cousin, they communicated for less than a year then they agreed to get married next year...

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janzki for me marriage arranged by parents is better than this situation... when they arranged the marriage, at least they know your soon to be partner.. but with this case, i'm not judging anyone of them, i can't seem to figure out who's being true.. well marriage...

7 Aug 09

janzki @janzki (49) • Philippines 27 Jul 09

I just had a friend who planned to marry someone he has not seen yet. They knew each other through phone, they we're introduced by the girl's cousin, they communicated for less than a year then they agreed to get married next year...

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janzki no it is not in their tradition. my friends family actually can't seem to imagine what lies ahead of them... had read their diary just yesterday, they seem to be so in love but i guess marriage is too soon for them.. they spent a week together knowing each...

7 Aug 09

janzki @janzki (49) • Philippines 27 Jul 09

I just had a friend who planned to marry someone he has not seen yet. They knew each other through phone, they we're introduced by the girl's cousin, they communicated for less than a year then they agreed to get married next year...

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janzki they met for 5 days only. Now the girl is in the US and my friend is in SG.

27 Jul 09

janzki @janzki (49) • Philippines 27 Jul 09

I just had a friend who planned to marry someone he has not seen yet. They knew each other through phone, they we're introduced by the girl's cousin, they communicated for less than a year then they agreed to get married next year...

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janzki I don't think it's love at first sight because they haven't seen each other yet when they decided to get married. As a friend I've told him my opinion on the issue. But it's his life, he has to decide whatever he thinks is right.

27 Jul 09

janzki @janzki (49) • Philippines 23 Jul 09

I am from a country where divorce is not allowed. we have annulment but it takes years to make it approved and the approval rate is 10%. hence i say, when you get married, you were forever tied with the person you chose to marry....

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janzki hi. I'm from the Philippines. That situation is common here. Had friends and relatives who's been into it.

25 Jul 09

janzki @janzki (49) • Philippines 23 Jul 09

I am from a country where divorce is not allowed. we have annulment but it takes years to make it approved and the approval rate is 10%. hence i say, when you get married, you were forever tied with the person you chose to marry....

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janzki now i see the pros and cons of divorce. not having it will motivate the couple to make more effort in fixing things out. not having it will tend to make people move from one partner to another.

23 Jul 09

janzki @janzki (49) • Philippines 14 Aug 07

This is the best book I've ever read. I actually highlighted my favorite lines on it. I can't really remember how many times I've read it, when I feel down I just read the book and I feel fine. I just wish I'd meet Morrie in my...

morrie

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janzki and i've watched the movie too. it was great.

23 Jul 09

janzki @janzki (49) • Philippines 23 Jul 09

I am from a country where divorce is not allowed. we have annulment but it takes years to make it approved and the approval rate is 10%. hence i say, when you get married, you were forever tied with the person you chose to marry....

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janzki i think marriage is security. with a country where divorce does not exist, it would be unfair to the next partner you chose if you can't marry him/her because you were still married with you ex-wife. so breaking up without going through annulment won't still...

23 Jul 09

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