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joan76 @joan76 (16) 22 Sep 09

I shared a trial I was going through with a close friend, and asked her not to say anything to anyone. She was pushing me and pushing me to tell the church we go to but I told her No, I wasn't ready to have them involved yet. Over...

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joan76 Thank you kutedarsu and dawnald.

23 Sep 09

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joan76 @joan76 (16) 22 Sep 09

I shared a trial I was going through with a close friend, and asked her not to say anything to anyone. She was pushing me and pushing me to tell the church we go to but I told her No, I wasn't ready to have them involved yet. Over...

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joan76 Thank you AcousticSoul, I really appreciate your help.

23 Sep 09

joan76 @joan76 (16) 22 Sep 09

I shared a trial I was going through with a close friend, and asked her not to say anything to anyone. She was pushing me and pushing me to tell the church we go to but I told her No, I wasn't ready to have them involved yet. Over...

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joan76 Thank you to all of you, your advisement has been such a help. Bless you all.

23 Sep 09

joan76 @joan76 (16) 22 Sep 09

I shared a trial I was going through with a close friend, and asked her not to say anything to anyone. She was pushing me and pushing me to tell the church we go to but I told her No, I wasn't ready to have them involved yet. Over...

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joan76 Hi Cherrc, thank you for helping...

23 Sep 09

joan76 @joan76 (16) 22 Sep 09

I shared a trial I was going through with a close friend, and asked her not to say anything to anyone. She was pushing me and pushing me to tell the church we go to but I told her No, I wasn't ready to have them involved yet. Over...

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joan76 Thank you for helping, lovelyn_medrano...that was lovely advice.

23 Sep 09

joan76 @joan76 (16) 22 Sep 09

I shared a trial I was going through with a close friend, and asked her not to say anything to anyone. She was pushing me and pushing me to tell the church we go to but I told her No, I wasn't ready to have them involved yet. Over...

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joan76 Thank you for helping, bing28...

23 Sep 09

joan76 @joan76 (16) 22 Sep 09

I shared a trial I was going through with a close friend, and asked her not to say anything to anyone. She was pushing me and pushing me to tell the church we go to but I told her No, I wasn't ready to have them involved yet. Over...

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joan76 Hi patrice7, thanks for helping. Referencing the last 3 sentances of your reply, I would love to be bale to not mind what people might be talking about- the problem is (ironically) outlined in the last thing you said, "Trust God" not "Have a nice day", lol....

23 Sep 09

joan76 @joan76 (16) 22 Sep 09

I shared a trial I was going through with a close friend, and asked her not to say anything to anyone. She was pushing me and pushing me to tell the church we go to but I told her No, I wasn't ready to have them involved yet. Over...

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joan76 Thank you for helping thea09...

23 Sep 09

joan76 @joan76 (16) 22 Sep 09

I shared a trial I was going through with a close friend, and asked her not to say anything to anyone. She was pushing me and pushing me to tell the church we go to but I told her No, I wasn't ready to have them involved yet. Over...

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joan76 Thanks for helping, Henri_Clemens. The situation isn't life-threatening, but I guess it could be a possibility.

23 Sep 09

joan76 @joan76 (16) 22 Sep 09

I shared a trial I was going through with a close friend, and asked her not to say anything to anyone. She was pushing me and pushing me to tell the church we go to but I told her No, I wasn't ready to have them involved yet. Over...

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joan76 Thank for helping, moneygail4...

23 Sep 09

joan76 @joan76 (16) 22 Sep 09

I shared a trial I was going through with a close friend, and asked her not to say anything to anyone. She was pushing me and pushing me to tell the church we go to but I told her No, I wasn't ready to have them involved yet. Over...

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joan76 Thank you calliban for your response, I have thought about what you have said and while I did tell her that I forgave her, but would not trust her again, so therefore we could never be as close, the relaity of it since then has been that I don't even look at...

22 Sep 09

joan76 @joan76 (16) 22 Sep 09

I shared a trial I was going through with a close friend, and asked her not to say anything to anyone. She was pushing me and pushing me to tell the church we go to but I told her No, I wasn't ready to have them involved yet. Over...

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joan76 Thank you, kprofgames. I don't have those issues with my church at large, it is more an issue with her, not wanting her to help make my struggle public. But, that is exactly why I didn't want her to tell anybody- because I knew that this would happen. If the...

22 Sep 09

joan76 @joan76 (16) 22 Sep 09

I shared a trial I was going through with a close friend, and asked her not to say anything to anyone. She was pushing me and pushing me to tell the church we go to but I told her No, I wasn't ready to have them involved yet. Over...

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joan76 Thank you for your response kprofgames. This is how everyone at our church now knows: she told pastors wife who told our small group leader ("so she could care for us") who then told our small group (15 people from our church) "for prayer cover" and then of...

22 Sep 09

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