Keep_It_Real

@Keep_It_Real (7)

United States • Age 65

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Help me to help her

BellasmamaTiff @BellasmamaTiff (2544) • United States 5 Dec 06

Please help me. My best friend is with a new guy. She is blinded by the NEWNESS of the relationship and doesn't see it for what it really is. He doesn't allow her to talk to her friends anymore, he forced her to cut ties with her...

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Keep_It_Real I suggest you let your friend know what you suspect and let her know that you will always be there for her. Keep in contact even if it is only through email. It would also be a good idea for you to speak with some professionals regarding your role in the...

6 Dec 06

What can I Do?

Marie2473 @Marie2473 (8512) • Sweden 5 Dec 06

My ex has 2 kids that I from the beginning didn´t know about. I found out about them after 2and a half years. After 4 years in total we broke up because it turnd out that he had lied about pretty much everything. The thing is...

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Keep_It_Real What do you do?? First of all stop the innocent-dumb roll! Now that we have established that your ex- boyfriend is a BIG liar. You stayed with him KNOWING he was a big liar. You stayed with him KNOWING you were the “other woman” Yeah yeah, you count up the...

6 Dec 06

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Stay at home moms...unappreciated?

triece @triece (111) • United States 2 Dec 06

I am a stay at home mother of 3. I love working. Any sort of adult conversation that doesn't involve peek-a-boo is very exciting for me, lol. BUT when I was working, after paying daycare fees, I was only bringing home about $30 a...

children

moms

stay at home moms

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38 people

Keep_It_Real Since you know you are married to an unreasonable, disrespectful character and you do not plan to leave him anytime soon, then concentrate on making your job easier. Money does indeed solve a lot of problems. Do you have any fluff in the budget? Hire...

2 Dec 06

children-how many is too many?

candaceb87 @candaceb87 (1362) • Canada 17 Oct 06

i have a 3 year old and a 2 1/2 month old and i would like to have atleast 2-3 more children but my boyfriend thinks that i am crazy....

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Keep_It_Real Boyfriend?? Why don't we go for a bit of marriage. You know - spiritual and legal committment? After that, who cares what anyone else thinks. But since you asked... What are you trying to prove? Have you thought about your children and where they fit...

2 Dec 06

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Threatening to leave me, if I don't have a child!!!

what_now @what_now (554) • Canada 2 Dec 06

Ok guys heres the deal me (21) and my gf (22) have been arguing about having a child for almost 3 months now. We've been together for almost 2 years. I feel I am still too young and a lil immature and definately not ready to be a...

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Keep_It_Real Not married...hmmm, Unemployed...hmmm, almost finished with school off of her back...hmmm, won't put a noose around your neck by knocking her up...hmmm. WELL NOW! Doesn't seem like you have much to offer her, just yet, except a bunch of promises to take care...

2 Dec 06

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friendship

beccablueeyes @beccablueeyes (17) • United States 1 Dec 06

When and how do you stop being friends with someone? I have been friends with someone for 22 years. We have helped each other through some really though times but lately she has become more of a fair weather friend. When she does...

friendship

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9 people

Keep_It_Real Only you know whether someone’s in your life for a reason or a season. Either or both can occur with one relationship. A need was being met with this relationship for one or the both of you. We are in each other’s lives for the reason we need them to be....

1 Dec 06