children-how many is too many?

Is it not to much to have 5 childrens? I think have 2 or 3 child is the standard on family. why you want more children, any reason?

I think you have your hands full now. You are only 19, and you aren't even married. How do you know that in the future you're going to be able to support your children if you would find yourself a single parent? You need to wait, grow up, and establish a stable relationship before even considering bringing more children into your life.

if you want a lot ok kids more power to you.

My children are 6, 3, and 8 months and I would like to have one more, but my husband doe not want to. He says he wants our time back and the more children we have the longer that will take. My baby is growing so fast!

It depends on how you and your husband feel about it. Will you have the time to care for more than 2 children? Will you want to get a job? Can you afford more than 3 children? I give you credit because I only have one child and she is very expensive lol. clothes every year for 2 seasons is alot of money, classes for fun like dance ect sports, obviously food and things. It is up to you and your partner really. I have a friend who has 5 children and they are struggling and always have been. I personally do not want any more than 2 children.

I think that childern are a gift and if you really want that many I think it is great. Go for it kids are fun.

You can have as many as you can afford, lol!

If you are responible, caring, nuturing and can afford them then go for it. Just as long as you can provide for them. God Bless

that really depends on individuals... for me, i only want 2 to 3 max...

I think more than 3...

i think two or three is enough

I have a 6 ,5, 3 and a 9 month old and I would love 1 or 2 more. I really dont know when it is too many!!!!

Boyfriend?? Why don't we go for a bit of marriage. You know - spiritual and legal committment? After that, who cares what anyone else thinks. But since you asked... What are you trying to prove? Have you thought about your children and where they fit into the scenario? What values are you communicating to them? Can YOU take care of those kids if "something happens" to your boyfriend? You are not crazy. I do think you are trying to use a bunch of babies to hide behind. What you're hiding from, I don't know...but you do. Just trying to Keep_It_Real. Peace.

You can have as many kids as you want as long as you can support them both financially and emotionally. I always think it is the duty of the parents to provide good education and also to bring up the kids into responsible adults and as long as ou can fulfill boh these criteria the number of kids you want to have dosent matter. It is upto the choice of the parent to make the decision. I dont define as to how many knids a parent should have.

I don't think there's such a thing as too many children, if you can afford them then so be it, I love children but I cannot have more, I have two boys, I would like another one, maybe a girl but health wise it's not possible, if you want more then go for it.

I think people should have as many children as they like as long as they can take care of them. Not only financially, but physically and emotionally as well. Children are a lot of work and they need a lot of attention. They should not be overlooked because you have too many.

its depends on you how you can care all of them and how is your financial status to give them a good life.

You should consider how your boyfriend feels about it. He could end up walking out and leaving you with 4-5 kids and then what??? If you both agree to have more kids, fine...but please remember that it's pretty expensive to feed, clothe, educate and care for children; so keep that in mind.

I have two boys 5 and 3. I want at least one more. But my husband doesn't want anymore. I think it all depends if you can take care of the child financially, emotionally, and give that child stability. So if that means have 10 kids then so be it if you have the above going for you. But if you don't, then one child can be two much.

3 is to many...I think the world is getting over populated as it is, two kids is just fine