lingli_78

@lingli_78 (12822)

Australia • Age 46

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Don't tell me I can't do it!

Charlene Sally C. @PointlessQuestions (15397) • United States 12 Mar 13

I like going for walks. I hadn't been in awhile because of the cold. I can never get my daughter to go when I want to go. And when she does walk with me she wants to only walk the easy route. I wanted to walk the big hill. She...

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lingli_78 i don't like people telling me i can't do something as well... it will make me more determine to do it just for the sake of showing them that i can actually do it... i can see that you are a very determine person and i'm glad that you are recovering fast......

12 Mar 13

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"It's Not Funny!"

STOUTjodee @STOUTjodee (3573) • United States 11 Mar 13

This is what I'm saying to husband after I took a bite of his food that he cooked with fresh habanero peppers. He eats a lot of spicy, hot food, but I ,on the other hand like my food mild. I was commenting on a post and he gave me...

spicy foods

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lingli_78 i love hot food, but not too hot... i don't like the feeling of my mouth burning as it is very unpleasant and can last for few hours... i hope your mouth is OK now... i believe your husband only want to crack a joke at you... :-) take care and have a nice...

12 Mar 13

Do you rephrase words before saying it to others to avoid hurting them?

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 30 Oct 12

A pleasant day Fellow Mylotters, Different people have different attitudes. And this is the reason why others talked tactlessly and others talked softly. But the matter is, there are times, we didn't mean anything, we are...

avoid the feeling of hurting

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lingli_78 i definitely am... i don't like to hurt other people's feelings as i don't like to be hurt... so i am very careful in choosing my words when i speak to other people to make sure that i won't hurt their feelings... take care and have a nice day...

30 Oct 12

Enjoys My vacation in Kitchen...

Dassodils @Dassodils (2010) • India 2 Jul 12

Hai friends.. I am passing through the last days of my vacation time..Now I turned back to see that what I did on this vacation..I realized that I spend the whole time in kitchen..As the vacation started,It was my job to do all...

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lingli_78 i also like to cook and spend my time in the kitchen... i cook almost everyday and spend about 1.5 hrs after coming back from work... but i don't like to do the dishes though... :-) so i get my hubby to wash the dishes and clean up after i finish with the...

16 Jul 12

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Stop making excuses!

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 10 Jun 12

My bosses wife was telling me today and it sounds like she is proud. Her daughter is my age (off by a few months). She said she just turned 24 whereas Ill be 24 in 2 months or so. My bosses wife was saying shes so proud of her...

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lingli_78 every parent raise their children differently... some parents like to pamper their children and also being over protective over their children... my parents are that type of parents... as i am the only daughter in the family, they love me too much... but i...

11 Jun 12

Falling in love cost her $20,000.00 (twenty thousand dollars)

success1625 @success1625 (533) • Trinidad And Tobago 11 Mar 12

Hmmm, the things some of we women ( and men) do for love. I've never been asked to take out a loan for a man, but if I was my answer would be a resounding NO. I hold the view that if a GROWN man is working and asking me for...

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lingli_78 i'm sorry to say... but the lady is either too naive, silly, kind or has too much money to be able to get a loan for $20,000 for the person that she loves... i will never do that unless if it is for my family members like my parents, siblings or relatives......

12 Mar 12

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Parent Stalker

Daddy Neil @neildc (17239) • Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines 10 Mar 12

Hiya myLotters and friends! I know this could be a not so good role or character of a person. But sometimes, I think this is one thing we should do to get an eye with our children. I did it with my step daughter,...

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lingli_78 i am not a parent yet... but i think what you are doing can't be considered as stalking and you are doing the right thing... especially in nowadays world... you just can't trust anybody and young people still need to be protected from those bad people out...

11 Mar 12

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life of Sunday here at Office..

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 11 Mar 12

it because Sunday is Family day my boss will should take Sunday as rest day,meaning there's no pressure in office,my co-worker and i usually enjoy the Sunday because we can do what we want like my one office mate friend,she only...

routine

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lingli_78 i don't actually work on sunday... i used to in the past every now and then... but not anymore... i set sunday as my religious day and i go to my church every sunday... so i prefer not to work on sunday and fortunately my work now doesn't require me to work on...

11 Mar 12

why could people just stay focus on their own business

angelzfangz @angelzfangz (244) • Philippines 11 Mar 12

i am in my workplace now and i live with all of my co-workers in one building... i know you think it is convenient ... yah maybe convenient sometimes but i think it is very much annoying having to hear them everyday rat out about...

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lingli_78 i don't like to listen to gossips as well and i don't like to other people's business... what i will do is i will tell the person directly that i don't want to listen to gossips especially during the time that i am doing the stuffs that i love most like...

11 Mar 12

What is the proper way of disciplining a child?

cearn25 @cearn25 (3456) • Philippines 4 Mar 12

My mother got really angry over her nephew's wife because she beat her first child which is just 1 yr. old. My mother is very close to this child. That is why it hurts for her to see the child being beaten. The reason behind...

proper discipline

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lingli_78 i believe that spanking is one of the way to discipline the child if it is really necessary as long as we are not harming the child... but i will only use it as a very last resort if all the other methods fail... my first option is to always tell the child...

6 Mar 12

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Younger generation should learn something about managing their money

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 5 Mar 12

Through the brunt of economic recession not long ago, we all face hard time from every aspect of our generations, from older to younger, especially those who just newly - grad. I believe that many of our younger generation fail to...

management

money

younger generation

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lingli_78 i can't agree more with you... saving and budgeting are the hardest things to do especially in the current economy situation... i am very fortunate that my parents had taught me how to save and manage my money since i was a child... so it is not a huge problem...

5 Mar 12

someone smell bad in office, what to do??

mrswhitfield @mrswhitfield (2044) • Indonesia 5 Mar 12

Ok so today we received 2 apprentices that will have trained in our office for 3 months. They will learn how the costumer service works. Not long after the two enter the office, we smell something really bad. we all recognized it...

office

work

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lingli_78 well, i will tell the person in private honestly as it is for his/her own good... of course i will tell the person in a very kind and nice manner so that he/she won't be offended... take care and have a nice day...

5 Mar 12

My egg burst!

Elizabeth White @Masihi (4413) • Canada 4 Mar 12

I was shocked. I've always boiled my eggs the same way, in a pot of cold water then let it boil for about 15 minutes and the egg would be a nice, hard-boiled egg. So I was sitting here, and I heard this loud pop and I went into...

boiled egg

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lingli_78 it happened to me quite a few times as well when i boil my egg... fortunately, it doesn't happen often... what i did, i just lower the temperature of the stove and cut down the time for boiling the egg to make sure that it won't crack... i usually only boil my...

5 Mar 12

Is giving your boss a birthday gift can be consider a bribe??

ardoy0731 @ardoy0731 (7308) • Philippines 4 Mar 12

My boss' birthday is coming this Tuesday, her 68th birthday.Quite old to be boss but she is still strong and healthy to perform her duties and responsibilities as our boss.She also serves as grandma to us...

boss

gift

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lingli_78 i won't consider it as a bribe... as long as i know that i have a pure motivation when i give the present to my boss, i won't worry too much about what other people will think about it... take care and have a nice day...

4 Mar 12

I am not going to steal!!!

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85288) • Valdosta, Georgia 29 Feb 12

I went to the store the other day with my mom. One of the guys that worked there was following us all around the store and kept watching us! We got so mad he was doing that we left the store and did not give them our business! I...

stealing

store

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lingli_78 i will feel offended as well if i were in your position... i will definitely leave the store immediately and they definitely won't get my business... i won't ever go back there again as well... i don't like confrontations... so i will leave quietly and may be...

29 Feb 12

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homeless

irene66 @irene66 (1669) • Philippines 25 Feb 12

As I was walking one time downtown, Isaw this homeless man sleeping unmindful of the cold weather. It almost shake me because I was thinking of my warm bed as I was walking when I accidentally saw this man. The cold wind...

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lingli_78 i always feel very sad when i see homeless people on the street especially if the person is still young and healthy... at the same time, it makes me feel very grateful and contented with what i have and every blessings that i receive from God day by day......

26 Feb 12

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Ive started putting signs up. !!

bonnie @bunnybon7 (50973) • Holiday, Florida 23 Feb 12

I dont know if C,daughters bf, is just stupid or if he trys to get on my nerves deliberately. When doing another discussion I thought about this. how ive had to put signs up in the house. If theres...

lazy

work

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lingli_78 fortunately i never have to do this... i always want to treat other people with respect and as adults... so unless i really have to resort to putting signs up to make somebody understand and do something, i won't do it... take care and have a nice day...

23 Feb 12

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My friend is a deaf mute girl

yahnee @yahnee (1243) • Philippines 22 Feb 12

This girl has always been following me lately every time I pass near their area whenever I take a walk in the late afternoon. I often give her a few coins when she would point to her stomach and mouth which I presumed means that...

deaf mute girl

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lingli_78 i always feel very touched whenever i read this kind of story... i think it is a privelege to be able to make friend with a handicap person... we have the opportunity to show our love and also learn so much about their will and determination to live despite of...

23 Feb 12