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kindredspirits @kindredspirits (127) • United States 19 Jan 09

For over a month I have had problems sleeping and waking up with a headache so I finally broke down and bought some new pillows. Now I am not talking about the five dollar pillows that you can buy at wal-mart these cost sixty...

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kindredspirits SOme things are truly worth the money a good bed, good pillows, and good shoes just to name a few.

21 Jan 09

kindredspirits @kindredspirits (127) • United States 19 Jan 09

For over a month I have had problems sleeping and waking up with a headache so I finally broke down and bought some new pillows. Now I am not talking about the five dollar pillows that you can buy at wal-mart these cost sixty...

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kindredspirits I agree in the long run it is well worth the money. What hurt me worse than spending the money was having to admit to my wife that she was right.

19 Jan 09

kindredspirits @kindredspirits (127) • United States 2 Jan 09

For the past month and a half we have been on the go constantly. It started with Thanksgiving and did not stop until New Year day. The constant holiday rush. We have enjoyed the time but we now need a rest after going to Chicago 2...

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kindredspirits It has been good to settle down into a normal routine again although it was fun while it lasted.

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kindredspirits @kindredspirits (127) • United States 7 Nov 08

Do you think that a couple should stay together for the sake of the children? I tried that and I was trying to protect my kids but the enviorment at home was so tense that the kids were affected more by us being together than...

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kindredspirits That is so true the childrens vew point regarding marriage can become so twisted that they feel there is no use for it.

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dreamertink @dfollin (25351) • United States 15 Jan 09

...... the person started the discussion never comes back and answer any of your replies? It's like that no body cares what you say.When I start a discussion I do go back and answer some of the replies but not necessarily every...

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kindredspirits Thats it exactly I am here for some good conversation and to make some good friends and if I make a few extraa pennies thats ok but the main reward here is the people and view points. That is what makes me rich from mylot. I am afraid that if people are only...

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kindredspirits @kindredspirits (127) • United States 17 Jan 09

The easy and fun times in life make relationships seem smooth. However I think it is through the trials of life that our relationships are tested and grow strong. It is only through exercise and resistance that muscles grow. It is...

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kindredspirits Fair weather friends are all take and no give you may be better off without them in your life.

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kindredspirits @kindredspirits (127) • United States 17 Jan 09

The easy and fun times in life make relationships seem smooth. However I think it is through the trials of life that our relationships are tested and grow strong. It is only through exercise and resistance that muscles grow. It is...

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kindredspirits Sounds like you have a great relationship and have learned the secret of the fact that it can not be all smooth sailing

17 Jan 09

kindredspirits @kindredspirits (127) • United States 14 Nov 08

Let me set the scene for you. You have been working on a big deal for weeks and have spent hours in negotiations but tonight is the night. You are expecting a phone call that will finalize the deal any minute now. Just as the...

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kindredspirits Training will be a plus for sure.

14 Nov 08

kindredspirits @kindredspirits (127) • United States 7 Nov 08

Some people say that rainy days affect their mood making them feel depressed. What if you are in a drought affected area and finally get some rain does that have the same effect? Do rainy days affect your mood and make you feel...

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kindredspirits It does soumd like an excuse to me to. I know a man that seems to always be ready to gripe and complain and it is never "his fault."

8 Nov 08

kindredspirits @kindredspirits (127) • United States 3 Nov 08

Living in the mountains my favorite season is fall. This picture is the view from my back porch. All the colors and the way the sunlight plays off of them is great. What is your favorite season?

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kindredspirits At least you have the memories and good luck with your education

7 Nov 08

kindredspirits @kindredspirits (127) • United States 7 Nov 08

Some people say that rainy days affect their mood making them feel depressed. What if you are in a drought affected area and finally get some rain does that have the same effect? Do rainy days affect your mood and make you feel...

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kindredspirits So i guess it just adds to the circumstance that you are in.

7 Nov 08

kindredspirits @kindredspirits (127) • United States 7 Nov 08

Some people say that rainy days affect their mood making them feel depressed. What if you are in a drought affected area and finally get some rain does that have the same effect? Do rainy days affect your mood and make you feel...

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kindredspirits I guess moods can be tied to memories brought back by certain situations.

7 Nov 08

kindredspirits @kindredspirits (127) • United States 7 Nov 08

Do you think that a couple should stay together for the sake of the children? I tried that and I was trying to protect my kids but the enviorment at home was so tense that the kids were affected more by us being together than...

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kindredspirits That is what my kids say that things are better now than before.

7 Nov 08

kindredspirits @kindredspirits (127) • United States 7 Nov 08

Do you think that a couple should stay together for the sake of the children? I tried that and I was trying to protect my kids but the enviorment at home was so tense that the kids were affected more by us being together than...

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kindredspirits The funny thing about our relationship was that we never fought until we seperated but never have we fought in front of the children.

7 Nov 08

kindredspirits @kindredspirits (127) • United States 7 Nov 08

Do you think that a couple should stay together for the sake of the children? I tried that and I was trying to protect my kids but the enviorment at home was so tense that the kids were affected more by us being together than...

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kindredspirits Actually it is not a him, I am the father and have custody of all three kids. I tried my best to talk to her and mend the relationship but she just did not want it.

7 Nov 08

kindredspirits @kindredspirits (127) • United States 7 Nov 08

Do you think that a couple should stay together for the sake of the children? I tried that and I was trying to protect my kids but the enviorment at home was so tense that the kids were affected more by us being together than...

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kindredspirits Like I said earlier we did not fight and the kids did see us trying by going to counceling for over a year but it takes both parties wanting a relationship for it to work.

7 Nov 08

kindredspirits @kindredspirits (127) • United States 7 Nov 08

Do you think that a couple should stay together for the sake of the children? I tried that and I was trying to protect my kids but the enviorment at home was so tense that the kids were affected more by us being together than...

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kindredspirits It was a difficult decision and not one that I made without considering the children. Since making the decision to divorce the children seem to feel better to.

7 Nov 08

kindredspirits @kindredspirits (127) • United States 7 Nov 08

Do you think that a couple should stay together for the sake of the children? I tried that and I was trying to protect my kids but the enviorment at home was so tense that the kids were affected more by us being together than...

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kindredspirits The kids were picking up on the fact that something was wrong all though we never fought.

7 Nov 08

kindredspirits @kindredspirits (127) • United States 5 Nov 08

If your husband or wife has an affair is that the end of the relationship? Or should you try to rebuild and repair the damage done? If you do decide to rebuild the relationship who is responsible for seeing that it is done?

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kindredspirits I think trust is the hardest part of a relationship to rebuild.

7 Nov 08

kindredspirits @kindredspirits (127) • United States 5 Nov 08

If your husband or wife has an affair is that the end of the relationship? Or should you try to rebuild and repair the damage done? If you do decide to rebuild the relationship who is responsible for seeing that it is done?

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kindredspirits Very well said and I agree it takes both parties.

7 Nov 08

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