ledouxs

@ledouxs (64)

Canada • Age 37

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How often do you call your mother?

lishiwei @lishiwei (1550) • China 16 Mar 08

I often call my mother once a week and often do it on fridy evening.Sometimes I have nothing to tell her,just want to listen her voise.If I don't do it I will feel upset all day.I don't know why I want to do that,I think is just...

call

mother

once a week

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ledouxs My mother and I do not really get along ever sice she married my stepdad and had my brother she has pushed me aside because I am another man's child and I don't fit in her picture perfect world. I used to call her once a week when my first child was born and...

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My first Love -------------one sided...help me

ramayay @ramayay (10) 9 Feb 08

HI i am 23 years old and recently for the past 5 months i found a girl who is junior to me b one year and have fallen in love with her.... but i am not sure of how to go and convey iy to her as she just comes in my bus but i have...

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ledouxs I don't think thats love hun. I think It's just a crush. How can you love someone you know nothing about. She could be a mean girl for all you know. I think you should just ask her out for coffee first get to know her than decide but don't go telling her you...

1 Mar 08

On what grounds have you broken a relationship over?

Kaeli72 @Kaeli72 (1229) • United States 1 Mar 08

If you're like any other adult out there...or one whom has known love, you've had your heart broken. But, what if you were the one that called off the relationship. What was it over? Was it over money, intimacy, time away from...

parenting

relationship

religion

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ledouxs I've ended one of my past relationships because he turned out to be the prime example of what I didn't want in a man. When I met this person I was three months pregnant and kicked out on the streets by the father and he just picked my pieces up and took me...

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should a 42 yr old woman get pregnant or not?

ruthinian @ruthinian (2309) • United States 22 Feb 08

I'm 42 yr old and just got married recently. I have no child of my own but I am raising a 6 yr. old autistic boy from my hubby's failed relationship. The boy is his third kid. The first two children (both girls, working and in a...

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ledouxs I'm glad I could be some help. I have read the other posts on here in regards to your situation about autism and down syndrome. They are highly advanced now and there are plenty things you can do to prevent both even at your age. They also do several test...

25 Feb 08

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bra that u wear to attract

nomoso @nomoso (650) • India 25 Feb 08

what colored or what kind of underwear do you wear to attract your partner... does it really matter or influence your night times??

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ledouxs For me to attract my partner is really easy and I really don't have to wear a special certain thing to do so but I like to. But if i'm in the mood I wear black thongs and braziers to hint that I'm in the mood.But he doesn't care other wise as long as it comes...

25 Feb 08

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should a 42 yr old woman get pregnant or not?

ruthinian @ruthinian (2309) • United States 22 Feb 08

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ledouxs I also thought the same with my first about the pot thing but my doctor told me it goes by the mothers intake not the fathers the only thing it does to the male is lower their sperm count so it might be difficult to concieve. And as for your age if you think...

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Do you think abortion should be legal?

MERCEDES1112 @MERCEDES1112 (115) • United States 24 Feb 08

I was wondering how many people believe in abortion! So do you belive in Pro life or womens rights! I think that abortions should be banned and should be illegal!I seen on the tv that women use aborations as a form of birth...

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ledouxs I do not take abortion lightly but on the other hand I myself had an abortion a little over a year ago. Because something was wrong and I became very ill not like your normal morning sickness this was bad I could not keep anything down for just a little over 2...

24 Feb 08

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birthday on Feb. 29th

queenofarms @queenofarms (1659) • United States 24 Feb 08

I just curious does anyone have a child born on February 29th? Or have a birthday on this day? My first child was due the 15th of Feb. and I had her on the 29th.... She will be 24/6 this year. She said she feels so...

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ledouxs How do you celebrate her birthday? I guess it would be on the 28th. I think that is so neat but I guess a little confusing at the same time

24 Feb 08

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child's father in jail for raping minor

lolalolacherrycola @lolalolacherrycola (899) • United States 24 Feb 08

A friend of mine who is happily married just found out that the biological father of her 9 year old son is in jail for raping an underage girl. The biological father does not pay child support or visit her son and has not had...

child molestors

deadbeat dads

freaks

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ledouxs I personally would make my self so hard to find it's not even funny. And only tell those who are important where I am. But seeing as he's locked up the worst he could do is call from prison right and you have to accept the charges first so for now she's safe...

24 Feb 08

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A rant from another discussion

phillygirl606 @phillygirl606 (1112) • United States 24 Feb 08

Ok so yesterday I responded to a discussion about a controlling boyfriend. So today I was on here and I was looking at other responses to the discussion. And it really amazed me as to how many females actually ask for permission...

asking permission

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ledouxs I also ask permission to do things. My fiance brings in the income while I stay at home and raise our kids but I ask him if I could buy certain things. I don't see anything wrong with that it's his hard earn money what gives me the right to take it and spend...

24 Feb 08

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STEP parents need to learn how NOT to over STEP their boundaries

cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 23 Feb 08

I was informed a few days ago by my daughter that her STEP mother thinks I am worthless. She thinks I do nothing all day but sit on my butt watching soap operas while I think up ways to purposely make her life miserable. Maybe...

step parents are the devil

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ledouxs I understand where you are coming from but this will never end. I am a stepmother to and I also recent my fiance's ex I try my best to be polite and would never say anything to my step son's face but I recent her and sometimes him it's just they way it is. I...

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why should I stay in an unhappy relation?

daniraius @daniraius (98) • Romania 24 Feb 08

I am looking for a soulmate for several years, maybe for all my life.I have no children, my carrer is not enought for me, because all my life i wanted to have a familly and I'm afraid to be alone .I have a boyfriend, but I'm not...

love

unhappyrelation

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ledouxs If your not happy your gonna have to end it in the long run you are hurting not only yourself but him aswell.You also shouldn't look so hard men sense desperation and run away if it's meant to be it will happen you might met your soulmate in a grocery store or...

24 Feb 08

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decide to buy which fruit?

zhaoyuexj @zhaoyuexj (98) • China 24 Feb 08

i like eating fruit not only because of its delicious but also because it is good for our health.i eat fruit everyday,but the fruit is expensive .so sometimes i will buy the fruit which there are much in the market,because it will...

fruit

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ledouxs I like my fruit also and I don't mind paying a little extra for it. You should try the dragon fruit it's real delicious. I didn't know a cucumber was a fruit I though the only vegetable thats a fruit was a tomatoe lol

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i feel like coca cola so bad .. but i can't

aconites @aconites (768) • United States 24 Feb 08

i'm sitting on mylot and surfing the net and you know what! i feel like coca cola .. i'm craving it .. the fridge is full of it .. now the time is 3:00 am .. but thats not the reason why i can't have it the reason is i'm...

cola

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ledouxs If your craving it then have it seriously I'm a pop feen my fiance and go through a 20 case a day thats all we drink and I am a mother and I drank pop like crazy when I was pregnant with my girls and they are perfectly healthy my oldest daughter is 2 yrs but...

24 Feb 08

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Do you OR do you not confide your marital problems to your parents and siblings?

Storm @jcj_111776 (3216) • Philippines 23 Feb 08

Marriage can be a "bed of roses" for some but it can also be a "bed of roses but full of thorns" for others. I've been married for 6 years to a man who's not really good with revealing his emotions. And it can be a problem...

being honest

marital problems

unbiased advices

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ledouxs to confide in your family is a good thing if you can do it while you are alone and not with your spouse around. What I mean by this is my fiance and I will be in an argument and calls his parents up whining to them about our problems and then hands me the...

23 Feb 08

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Could you forgive someone responsible for the death of your child?

kiran1978 @kiran1978 (4134) • Australia 23 Feb 08

I read this article from That's Life (February Issue), about a woman that has forgiven and become friends with the guy that accidentally killed her son. Here is a brief overview of the story... This woman's son was riding in the...

for death of your child

forgive someone

responsible

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ledouxs I don't know how I would react but I think that she may have forgiven him because not only does she have to deal with it but so does he he killed someone by poor judgement and for him that must also be devastating. And maybe it's nice to have someone her sons...

23 Feb 08

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Do you free-cycle?

kingcrapper @kingcrapper (1536) • United States 23 Feb 08

I was introduced to very wonderful concept called freecycle. In a nutshell it is a way for people to pass along usable items that may just through out normally for free to others. What a neat concept! I picked up a picnic pack and...

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ledouxs I freecycle and it sure is great the have so many different items people are giving away because the bought something new. I have seen people give away washer and dryers living room sets dressers clothes and if you want something you post it as wanted and if...

23 Feb 08

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Do you tell them EVERYTHING?

pogoaddict @pogoaddict (72) • United States 23 Feb 08

Just wondering how many out there tell their spouse everything; the good, bad, the ugly. Or do you think some things aren't worth telling and in the past.

honesty

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ledouxs I tell my finace everything. Even if it's going to hurt him I do this so he knows he can trust me 100% and not only that i'm not afraid to tell him anything if he wants to leave so be it at least I was honest. Now if you cheat than you shouldn't be with that...

23 Feb 08

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