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lexi19 @lexi19 (25) • United States 17 Mar 09

I've been dating this guy for a few months now.. things were perfect at first (like always) but lately, I've been coming to realize that he has a lot of issues. 7 years ago he was in a 5 year relationship and engaged only to find...

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votenoonpineapple Letting yourself care for someone else can be scary, because it means you'll be more hurt when it goes south. Try and let him know you guys can take things one day at a time, and you're not going anywhere. Also remind him that if he has any worries, he can...

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lexi19 @lexi19 (25) • United States 17 Mar 09

I've been dating this guy for a few months now.. things were perfect at first (like always) but lately, I've been coming to realize that he has a lot of issues. 7 years ago he was in a 5 year relationship and engaged only to find...

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paula27661 He sounds as though he is very afraid of commitment due to past issues. You will need a lot of patience with this one! It certainly seems that pushing him will only make things worse. It would be really good if he was willing to see a counsellor or therapist...

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lexi19 @lexi19 (25) • United States 17 Mar 09

I've been dating this guy for a few months now.. things were perfect at first (like always) but lately, I've been coming to realize that he has a lot of issues. 7 years ago he was in a 5 year relationship and engaged only to find...

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huanghaixia I think first you can support him in your heart!let he find your empressement gradually. until he talk his thinking with you freely.Nomatter the content even that thing about his exgirlfriend then you can share some of your story with him. Let he feel it not a...

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lexi19 @lexi19 (25) • United States 17 Mar 09

I've been dating this guy for a few months now.. things were perfect at first (like always) but lately, I've been coming to realize that he has a lot of issues. 7 years ago he was in a 5 year relationship and engaged only to find...

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Super_Mommy It sounds a lot like he has major trust issues. I use to be the same way, and when I was dating my husband, and even now, I wonder if he's cheating on me, ect. (Even though I know he's not, I think about it time to time) It's a trust issue. I mean he's scared...

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lexi19 @lexi19 (25) • United States 17 Mar 09

I've been dating this guy for a few months now.. things were perfect at first (like always) but lately, I've been coming to realize that he has a lot of issues. 7 years ago he was in a 5 year relationship and engaged only to find...

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Jlowe110 Well, you've only been dating for a few months. That's not long at all,and to already be suggesting therapy for him? If you're really right for him, it will work out. Remember that you haven't been dating too long. I say wait, because it cant ake some guys...

19 Mar 09

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lexi19 @lexi19 (25) • United States 17 Mar 09

I've been dating this guy for a few months now.. things were perfect at first (like always) but lately, I've been coming to realize that he has a lot of issues. 7 years ago he was in a 5 year relationship and engaged only to find...

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rmuxagirl I totally agree. give him time and do what you can to reassure him of your love for him and he means a great deal to you. You have to let him deal with his pain and do what you can to show him that you aren't like her and love him dearly and that would never...

19 Mar 09

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lexi19 @lexi19 (25) • United States 17 Mar 09

I've been dating this guy for a few months now.. things were perfect at first (like always) but lately, I've been coming to realize that he has a lot of issues. 7 years ago he was in a 5 year relationship and engaged only to find...

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pricelis This is what I believe, many may not agree. I feel like when a person is betrayed by a lover and they carry that burden with them, stopping them from feeling the love they could feel, they are partially blaming themselves for the betrayal. Until he lets go of...

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