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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 27 Apr 13

my best friend has married for 8yrs. friday was their wedding anniversary,but her husband totally forgot about this. last night,my best friend complained to me,she thinks her husband doesnot love her anymore as how come he forgot...

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mariaperalta Shame on him.. some men are like that. My ex always forgot ours. My son always had to remind him of these things.

27 Apr 13

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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cherigucchi That is very true. I also have the same experience. I have male friends before and there were so many who wanted to befriend me but when I got married, everyone seems to be apprehensive. I do not know but may be they just do not want complications or they are...

27 Apr 13

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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Aja103654 I had this experience back with one of my ex boyfriends. He was insanely jealous for a flirt. Now that's stupid. Anyway, try reaching out to them then. Maybe they are not aware of what they are doing? or they are just avoiding trouble to avoid bad rumors....

26 Apr 13

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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piya84 Its a two way thing and most of the men are no particularly looking for friendship with women.They are happy with their male friends.Male just wanting to be with friends women are bit are bit a rare.

26 Apr 13

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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Paper_Doll Yes because they usually used that as their way to get close to you. Well, I think I have done the same in the past so I am guilty. I think I started being friend with someone because I personally think that he would be a good partner in the future. But it...

26 Apr 13

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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jazel_juan It all depends i guess, even if i am married, i am still good friends with my male friends, in fact a lot more closer as they find me someone they could trust minus all other issues as they know i am married and they know my husband as well. We became someone...

24 Apr 13

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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airasheila Hi there Mintlin, I have experienced the same before but I guess, that is part of those growing up years.

24 Apr 13

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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missjahn i have a boyfriend but it is not a hindrance for me to be close with my guy friends. in your case, when your friends stopped contacting with you in time they knew you had a boyfriend already was that he wanted something more than friendship. it is being...

24 Apr 13

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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grvdubey11 When you are in a serious relationship you have to give maximum attention to your partner,also normally people dont feel comfortable with the friends of opposite gender which their love interest has.That is why people avoid making friendship with someone(of...

24 Apr 13

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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rtslvtwy I don't think men will behave like that. if let's say you are married or have a boyfriend already and those men that are already married or have girlfriends would not mind being your friend, correct? I myself is a guy and i am married. However, i still have...

24 Apr 13

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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piya84 hi mitlin Those men left you because they were not interested in becoming your friend but wanted to date you.For whatever reason they did not get chance to date you.So once you are married they decided to move on.

24 Apr 13

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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Iriene88 Friendship is more than that. We can always have male friends as friends. If they are into relationship, they will look for those available ones. However, they will still keep in touch as friends. If those who have that type of thinking, then let it be, no...

24 Apr 13

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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Jane I never had the same experience like what you had. Nothing changed when I got engaged and when I got married. Everything is the same and normal- I have male friends and more male friends in the office. My married status never affects having a male friend.

24 Apr 13

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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Rogelio Hi, That was my primary concern a few years back when I got married, losing all my female friends or they shall change towards me. On the contrary, they remain the same, I even made some new friends in my workplace and every where I may go. Maybe girls are...

24 Apr 13

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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ryanong i have many male closed friends but they are my classmate when i studied in univ. After that i can't have any closed male friend anymore. You are right, they say they want to make friends with you but if you have a bf or got married, they won't keep in touch...

24 Apr 13

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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ayeeesha It really does. I have a couple of guy friends who I was close to way back in college. There's no malice or anything and I can talk to them about anything. We can practically goof around each other and just laugh about it. Right now, we don't talk at all. I...

24 Apr 13

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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Angelpink Hi ! Maybe you are just too attractive and tempting that is why when you are taken it is they themselves made a way to make a distance or else they will end in trouble. This is just a hypothesis from me. Nothing wrong in having an opposite gender friend , as...

24 Apr 13

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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dagami i have male friends and they've been friends of mine before and after i got married. maybe those males in your office think your husband will get jealous if he sees you with male friends so they stay away from you. why don't you ask them why they're acting...

24 Apr 13

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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pomwango i don't think they mean bad, its just that there are things they cant tell or talk to you about out of respect for your status and also maybe some had hopes of being more than friends to you and now their hopes are over.if the sincere ones they will keep being...

23 Apr 13

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Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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pals101 Maybe they are afraid of your partner. Have they seen him already? I think its because maybe you are already married, they don't want your partner to get angry with them. You have to explain to them that it is okay, and also to your partner to understand the...

23 Apr 13

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