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Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 4 Jun 09

Do you agree that humans kill in the name of God just to suit their selfish purpose? What do you think of Bin Laden? Why is he acting as God? Why God needs to hide for 8 years and allow his people to get killed? Talk only very...

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Nerissagoh I trust what Ladin has admitted himself that he did kill people not threaten, or what you say warn only. I'm definitely not a Bush supporter either. It is the same whether you kill one people or one thousand. I think you should be the one giving that a serious...

7 Jun 09

Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 30 May 09

You will only be here once... unless you belive in reincarnation. Have you given it a serious thought? Some plan for their life after death. They believe in doing good in this life or accumulate wealth in heaven. Others just want...

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Nerissagoh You truly sounds like a very happy person. Best wishes to you!

3 Jun 09

Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 30 May 09

Would you push all blames to your subordinate in which you delegate a job to or you believe that as his Supervisor you're accountable for his poor performance?

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Nerissagoh If the problem is serious enough to cause you your job, would you push the blame to your subordinates to save yourself?

31 May 09

Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 30 May 09

Would you push all blames to your subordinate in which you delegate a job to or you believe that as his Supervisor you're accountable for his poor performance?

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Nerissagoh Would you ex your staff immediately if he does somthing wrong? How many channces would you give him? What if your boss think you're too lenient on him and suggest that you terminate him?

31 May 09

Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 30 May 09

You will only be here once... unless you belive in reincarnation. Have you given it a serious thought? Some plan for their life after death. They believe in doing good in this life or accumulate wealth in heaven. Others just want...

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Nerissagoh You've a bright future in front of you. Treasure what you have and hope you enjoy your life. I think you're a very realistic person who understands that it is hard to find a dream job and would stick to a job that you'll be good at. Bless you..

31 May 09

Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 30 May 09

You will only be here once... unless you belive in reincarnation. Have you given it a serious thought? Some plan for their life after death. They believe in doing good in this life or accumulate wealth in heaven. Others just want...

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Nerissagoh Well said..may love and peace be with you forever..

31 May 09

Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 30 May 09

You will only be here once... unless you belive in reincarnation. Have you given it a serious thought? Some plan for their life after death. They believe in doing good in this life or accumulate wealth in heaven. Others just want...

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Nerissagoh Wow..'those who are knowledgeable and wise never seek anything from life '. That is really difficult for laymen like me but I do agree with you that we should 'do good'.

31 May 09

Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 30 May 09

You will only be here once... unless you belive in reincarnation. Have you given it a serious thought? Some plan for their life after death. They believe in doing good in this life or accumulate wealth in heaven. Others just want...

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Nerissagoh How often should we change our goal in life? Does that matter? Would we have wasted time by making frequent changes?

31 May 09

Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 30 May 09

You will only be here once... unless you belive in reincarnation. Have you given it a serious thought? Some plan for their life after death. They believe in doing good in this life or accumulate wealth in heaven. Others just want...

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Nerissagoh Its definitely great being able to do the things you love and to show appreciation to people you care.

31 May 09

Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 29 May 09

I came across this topic in Helium. Wonder what you think of children, 12 & below, attending funerals? What should we tell the young? How could we reduce the negative impact on them emotionally?

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Nerissagoh I've seen not just children but adults laughing and enjoying themselves at funerals. Some of them disregards the feeling of those grieving. They laugh at the rituals coz they have different religions thus may not understand the purpose of the whole ceremony....

30 May 09

Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 29 May 09

I came across this topic in Helium. Wonder what you think of children, 12 & below, attending funerals? What should we tell the young? How could we reduce the negative impact on them emotionally?

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Nerissagoh Yes, I understand where you're coming from. It is better to attend the funerals of someone that is not immediate family members when we're young so that we would not get a shock when it happens so close to us. The pain and lost will be too great for anyone to...

29 May 09

Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 29 May 09

I came across this topic in Helium. Wonder what you think of children, 12 & below, attending funerals? What should we tell the young? How could we reduce the negative impact on them emotionally?

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Nerissagoh I've heard of tian zhang in china whereby the deceased are brought to the mountain top by the relatives of the deceased (not immediate family)to be eaten up by the vultures. I guess none of the immediate family would want to see that. Too painful a sight for...

29 May 09

Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 29 May 09

I came across this topic in Helium. Wonder what you think of children, 12 & below, attending funerals? What should we tell the young? How could we reduce the negative impact on them emotionally?

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Nerissagoh Would you insist the to let the kids attend funerals if they refused or express that they are frightened? Should we still explain and make sure they attend or just 'let them off'?

29 May 09

Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 29 May 09

I came across this topic in Helium. Wonder what you think of children, 12 & below, attending funerals? What should we tell the young? How could we reduce the negative impact on them emotionally?

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Nerissagoh A lot of time we can't decide if the children will be negatively affected and whether that will leave a mark in their life. Life is about decisions and it is really up to the decision of the parents whether to involved their young in funerals. The young are...

29 May 09

Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 29 May 09

I came across this topic in Helium. Wonder what you think of children, 12 & below, attending funerals? What should we tell the young? How could we reduce the negative impact on them emotionally?

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Nerissagoh A celebration of someones life -- well said

29 May 09

Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 29 May 09

I came across this topic in Helium. Wonder what you think of children, 12 & below, attending funerals? What should we tell the young? How could we reduce the negative impact on them emotionally?

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Nerissagoh I must say your brother is really brave. As a kid it is not easy to understand what happened and be able to accept the fact that someone close is never going to come back. I don't really understand but feel the fear when I lost my granddad at the age of 9 and...

29 May 09

Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 29 May 09

I came across this topic in Helium. Wonder what you think of children, 12 & below, attending funerals? What should we tell the young? How could we reduce the negative impact on them emotionally?

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Nerissagoh good answer. If we tell the young the deceased are going to God there is no fear and we may miss the deceased but we have the consolation that they are not suffering and at a better place...

29 May 09

Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 28 May 09

This is of concern to a many women. Besides surgery, is there any natural way to achieve a bigger bust size? Of course besides taking more milk and cheese as commonly suggested. How could you maintain a good figure while having...

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Nerissagoh Thanks you for your comments. Yes, I've heard that pregnant women will get bigger bust but some said it will shrink back to original size once you stop breast feeding. Not sure if thats true.

28 May 09

Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 28 May 09

This is of concern to a many women. Besides surgery, is there any natural way to achieve a bigger bust size? Of course besides taking more milk and cheese as commonly suggested. How could you maintain a good figure while having...

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Nerissagoh Thanks for your comments. Milk does work for some of my friends but need to be constant and can't avoid putting on weight. It is difficult for most people to be contented isn't it? We would like to look great and stay healthy at the same time.

28 May 09

Nerissagoh @Nerissagoh (69) • Singapore 28 May 09

This is of concern to a many women. Besides surgery, is there any natural way to achieve a bigger bust size? Of course besides taking more milk and cheese as commonly suggested. How could you maintain a good figure while having...

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Nerissagoh hmmm.. never thought that yoga would work, rather yoga could help tone the body and yoga instructor could teach you moves to prevent breast cancer.

28 May 09

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