Nerissagoh

@Nerissagoh (69)

Singapore • Age 51

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Very happy with Reviewstream

scheng1 @scheng1 (24649) • Singapore 7 Jul 09

A week ago, I came across Reviewstream, and decided to try out. I wrote 5 short reviews, each about 250 words, about common products, such as hairdryer, nutmeg ointment, cruise experience, book review and a facial foam. Guess...

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Nerissagoh ive only earned $2.40 writing 2 articles so far. Will let u know if i do reach a hundred each mth

7 Jul 09

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Would you rather have POWER or WEALTH?

mermaidivy @mermaidivy (15394) • United States 8 Jun 09

Who doesn't want to be rich? Who doesn't want to have power? Most of the time, these two things are usually hooked together, but if you need to pick one, which one do you want? Let's say would you rather be a millionaire or CEO of...

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Nerissagoh I would rather be wealthy. Wealth can buy power. You can invest in company and be a director of the company not just a ceo. You pay your staff well and they will listen to you, though can't guarantee you could get their respect.

9 Jun 09

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It is really hard to find a true friend in today's world?

dev987 @dev987 (11) • India 8 Jun 09

A true friend according to me is a person who knows every bit of you, either in your's happiness or sadness. A Person who knows me more than he knows himself. In this world it is very hard task to find such a person but who finds...

a cool friend

a true friend

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Nerissagoh I think it is possible to find a true friend but I usually look for friend and not true friend coz humans are selfish, thus true friends are hard to come by. I've lots of hi-bye friend buy only 2 true friends. They are rare but sufficient, yet we can't expect...

9 Jun 09

Cheaters...Do You Forgive Them?

cbantly @cbantly (236) • United States 8 Jun 09

They say "once a cheater, always a cheater." If your spouse or significant other cheated, would you be able to forgive them? Are there certain circumstances in which you would consider things under a different light? In other...

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Nerissagoh It is easy to forgive but not to forget. You will have problem trusting the person a second time. Never think that it is your fault for the infidelity. It has to do with him, his choice, nothing to do with you.

9 Jun 09

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Im thinking about leaving my boyfriend

Breelyn @spicysweetie21 (2573) • United States 6 Jun 09

I just don't know what to do anymore, we have had many good times and i do love him, but we also have many problems, he can be a very cold and rude person, im sick but he still proceeds to be rude to me,,,,and tonight i try to...

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Nerissagoh Getting you to do research before talking to him seems like what we would tell our subordinates to do, not our spouse. You need to highlight that to him and the areas you want him to pay attention to. An eye for an eye, though it is not a good to retaliate in...

7 Jun 09

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is your BF shouted at you? or did you shout your GF when you are angry?

joanzz @joanzz (174) • Philippines 5 Jun 09

Hello my lotters!.... I just wanted to know if it is a normal in a relationship if man shouted her girlfriend. Have you tried this? Because, my boyfriend is a high tempered and he always shouted at me when he was in angry. And...

boyriend

love

shout

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Nerissagoh I won't tolerate my boyfriends yelling at me. I know they care for me, jealous that I didn't give the same amount of care and concern to them as they have shown me, but I hate a guy that always pull a long face or yell at me everytime we are together. If you...

6 Jun 09

Given a choice, do you prefer to live in city or countryside?

scheng1 @scheng1 (24649) • Singapore 6 Jun 09

Living in city has many advantages. Shopping is easier. Amenities are nearer home, in many instances, within walking distances or a short bus ride. However, the cost of a small apartment in city is also very high. Plus the fact...

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Nerissagoh i would love to stay in the countryside but work in the city : ) if they are not too far apart and i could have the best of both worlds!

6 Jun 09

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do you ever not have the energy to mylot?

Breelyn @spicysweetie21 (2573) • United States 4 Jun 09

I have a cold right now, so my nose is all stuffy and usually when im on mylot, i can respond a lot....but now since i dont feel good, i see topics i could respond to, but just think "ehhh no i don't feel like" it, i just don't...

energy

mylot

responding

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Nerissagoh Yes after a while, I get tired of looking at mylot, especially if I don't see interesting topics to participate in.

5 Jun 09

Young Mums

x_Jo_x @x_Jo_x (1040) 3 Jun 09

What is your oppinion on young mums? I don't mean age 16 or below, about 18 or above. Lots of people have a really bad view on them, i think that is wrong. Whats to say young mums cant be just as good as middle age mums? Is...

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Nerissagoh I think ther is no problem being young mums as long as you're prepared for it. I've friends that are in their twenties or thirties but they expressed that they are not ready to get married or have children. It depends on what you want in life. Some people...

4 Jun 09

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Do you think making mistake is good or bad?

scheng1 @scheng1 (24649) • Singapore 4 Jun 09

Ever since we started formal schooling, we learnt that making mistake is bad. Making mistakes mean that we get lower marks. When we were in elementary schools, we aimed for perfect answers. When we started working, we feared to...

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Nerissagoh Making mistakes is ok if we have the money, we are the boss. Entrepreneurs would tell you they failed many times before they gain their sucess. As a boss however, you won't tolerat mistakes. Layman like us working for bosses would give our staff chances, but...

4 Jun 09

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when computer become master

unicorn4154 @unicorn4154 (153) • Malaysia 3 Jun 09

what will happen if one day the computer really powerfull and controll our life as a human controll the computer?it just like the movies i robot.. what is your opinion?

computer

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Nerissagoh That would have been a frightening world... as robots has no feeling. they follow rules, not sure if robot would break down if there is a grey area but what if robot sentenced us to jail, to death?? isnt that frightening? no emotions, no second chance involved...

3 Jun 09

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computer is important

unicorn4154 @unicorn4154 (153) • Malaysia 3 Jun 09

each time i look to my computer..i always think that thing really important to me.. can you imagine we live without computer?? i think this world become miserable at all..

computer

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Nerissagoh yes computer has become a necessity in life, no longer a luxury. We work and play with our dear computer.... thats why Bill Gate is so reach with all his systems. I could go without a mobile phone, a radio or TV but no a PC.

3 Jun 09

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how come some people get a huge number of replies?

Breelyn @spicysweetie21 (2573) • United States 3 Jun 09

Do you think it is based on how many friends that they have? I see some topics that are simple and get 200+ replies over time and it makes me just go like "whoa", has anyone else noticed this? is it because these people have a lot...

lots of responses

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Nerissagoh haha.. coz they are easy to reply to interesting, something that many could relate too. Some have their own friends to help each other reply to your discussions topic. You could also do that.

3 Jun 09

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If Today Was Your Last Day....

cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 2 Jun 09

I'm sure it won't come as a surprise to anyone here who has heard about the untimely death of my best friend, that I have been doing a lot of thinking about mortality lately while I struggle to make sense of everything that has...

death

dying

last breath

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Nerissagoh I doubt I would have the time to think about whether or not to forgive my enemies. I would most probably spend my time with my family. I think they are most important to me. Say hi to my mum, telling her I would join her soon.... and brief my family of all the...

2 Jun 09

Does racism exist in mylot

M S R S Choudhary @choudhary03 (943) • Hyderabad, India 2 Jun 09

Guys seriously i want an answer to this. Recently in Australia attacks are happening on Indian students day in and day out which prompted me to ask this question. Does racism exist in mylot. I personally dont think so. I just...

color

mylot

racism

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Nerissagoh yeah... racism is everywhere though many refused to admit that they are racist while others are not afraid to voice that as their 'personal preference' in which no one should question. If you are a minority in a country, you will feel that very distinctly. It...

2 Jun 09

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Have you ever help someone in you life?

shikaymaru @shikaymaru (700) • Malaysia 2 Jun 09

Most of us had experience helping someone in life. What was the most memorable helping experience have you done. No matter how big or small, share your story here. I would like to hear them....

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Nerissagoh I do take care of an elderly in an old age home. Not that she doesn't have children, but nobody truly concerned about her wellbeing. It makes me wonder why people have children in the first place? Anyway, I does bring us joy sharing with others, listening to...

2 Jun 09

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How long can you wait?

France7 @France7 (385) • Philippines 2 Jun 09

Have you ever experienced waiting for an hour or more for something or someone? In which situation? How did you feel? How did you face such situation? Is patience always a virtue? Friends, feel free to post your experiences.

experience

patience

waiting

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Nerissagoh If my friend or whoever could give me a good reason why she/he is going to be late, I won't mind waiting for an hour. If the person can't be reached over the phone, I wont have patience to wait for one hour. Depending on my relationship with the person. If the...

2 Jun 09

Do you like more salty food or sweet food?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 1 Jun 09

A great steak or a chocolate cake? What you will choice if somebody ask you what you like she cook to you? Can t choice both, just one, salty or sweet? I can say that i don t like sweets, i eat only ice cream, but are person...

food

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Nerissagoh I love chocolate cakes. Chocolate lifts your mood, but that doesn't mean i love all sweet stuff. Ice cream and cakes are ok but not sugar in main dishes in which some people would love.

2 Jun 09