Im thinking about leaving my boyfriend

Maybe you should leave him. My daughter is in the same spot actually and as much as I like her boyfriend, I don't like how he talks to my daughter all the time. He is very sarcastic and sometimes kind of mean with his words. He also has a hot temper. To his credit, he did quit drinking which as helped a bit but a lot of it is his nature. If your're sad more than happy and if your ego is taking a beating then I think it is time to move on or at least take a break.....maybe it will open his eyes.

i'll tell you what my girlfriend did to me, she threatened to leave me and was screaming and yelling at me at the top of her lungs and told me everything i was doing wrong and started crying and left all day for 2 days and didn't return my phone calls at all and after the 2 days she came back and asked me if i was going to change and if not she was going to leave right there and never come back. within the 2 days she was gone i sat back and thought of all the things i did wrong and what made her upset and i decided i didnt want to lose her and she made me realize that i had to change quickly in order for her to stay around. and ever since we have been doing great and i have been doing everything I can to make her happy. so i think you should do something similar to what my girlfriend did and maybe it might help or it may not depending on how stubborn your boyfriend is. hope this post helps, hope you feel better soon.

Hello spicysweetie21, If he is that type of person who is cold, rude and does not respect you, it is better for you to live separate ways. I don't think it is a good choice to love someone like this and ends up feeling more guilty and hurt. It is hard to forget someone that you think you love so much but time will heal the pain. I remember my own experience a few years back. I came to know this guy and was quite close to him but after awhile, I kept asking myself why I need him in my life as he kept doing all the wrong things and kept hurting me emotionally. Finally, I realized that I needed him because I just broke up with my long time boyfriend and I felt worried to face the loneliness and since he was good to me, I thought it's best to have him around. I am lucky that I made the right decision as I don't know what will happen to us if we go further and further in our relationship.

Sometimes i do considering of leaving someone too. In this case i am careful and slow to decide because once i say i will leave i really do it. Considering of some good times spend, i will not think of it anymore but the fact he is rude, i won't consider of continuing the relationship. If there is problem in the behavior i can not tolerate it.

Ask yourself this question... "Do I deserve better than this?" If the answer is yes, then leave him. Never settle and you will find someone who treats you like you should be treated.

Hi I feel for you. Being with somebody who either doesn't care for you or possibly doesn't know how to show you that he does actually care, is difficult. The fact that you are posting this blog could be indicative that your mind is alraedy mind made up. However the more people that you listen to, the more you are possibly likely to talk yourself out of taking positive action. Of course, that would include trying to makle your boyfriend understand what you are feeling, so that he can and you can work things out A difficult decision, but surely your own happiness is paramount. Good luck

It sounds like he may love you but he doesn't respect your views and that is bad. You shouldn't have to put up with rudeness especially from someone who suppose to love you.I don't know what his problem is but before you do anything rash, try one more time to sit him down and talk. tell him how you feel and he needs to stop being rude . and then if he still is rude, it is time to leave.good Luck.

Well,this thread of yours came to my notice just now and though it is a day old, but still I couldn't resisted myself in responding, even though I know it might not be read anymore by you. Well,let me tell you,though I know on what magnitude the differences between you and him have grown,but whatever it may be, it's not wise to take such decisions in a haste. Before anything,you have to make sure that you have tried all means to fix things,and that still all have gone in vain. For that purpose,the only thing you can do to is to engage him in a frendly discussion,without generating violence, and try to make him realize the consequences of all these,and also at the same time do let him know your true feelings for him,with all these it would be better to wipe away any misunderstandings that might be arising between you two,because that is what damages the most in a relationship! Please try not to cry,and smile a little, because smiles can work wonder even under these circumstances. A smile for you :) If you still want, you can indeed send me a PM,I would be glad to talk to you over this, since I know the pain when such a situation arise. Wishing you all the best,hope everything ends in a sweet note for you!

What you do is go the other way. This man is only belittling you to make himself feel like he's the smart one. It's called emotional and psychological abuse. He will continue to do that to you until you are so broken down you won't fight back anymore. He's not worth the tears and there are always more men out there. If you're with a man and he's not treating you like you are the only woman on this planet then he ain't no man and he sure isn't worth it.

What this man is doing to you is called emotional and/or psychological abuse. Get away from him as fast as you can. Any man that has to belittle you and make you feel strong is not worth the effort or time. Unless of course you want him to belittle you down to where you don't fight back anymore. No relationship is worth that many tears.

If your boyfriend can't make you happy,leave him.

Getting you to do research before talking to him seems like what we would tell our subordinates to do, not our spouse. You need to highlight that to him and the areas you want him to pay attention to. An eye for an eye, though it is not a good to retaliate in such ways but sometimes i do think it helps. If you were theone saying his same words to him, that may set him thinking of how hurt you had been when he passed such comments. Some people are just not sensitive to how others feel and enjoys saying nasty thinga as and when they like.

I'm sure it's not easy - relationships are NEVER easy. Everything that have been said here are just input of people looking from outside in. We all don't know if you should stay or go, because we only know your side of the story and not the other. Think about this - does the good outweigh the bad? Could it be that you're "too emotional" because you're not feeling well, thus making you cry more? Good luck. I hope you feel better and also resolve your issue with your man, whether that be to stay or go.

Dear friend when i was in 10th standard. I get a friend in my class he is also from my colony. But till i never know him. So as we friend we go to school and come back together. Once i told him that i love him but he angry with me so at that time i disconnected with him and till now when i am in 24years old. I never talk him we see u daily when he passing from my street but never talk. So i know that how about difficulties to leaving a good friend. Its too difficult. Still when i remember that movement i think it was golden movements. Which i can forget anytime

Well, honestly if you're not happy and you've been completely upset, as in upset enough to do nothing but sit and cry for periods of time then maybe you should consider leaving him. You may have good times but are the good times outweighing all the bad times that you have with him? It seems that you're having a lot of bad times and few good times. If they don't outweigh each other in your favor then maybe leaving the relationship should be something you'll want to consider.

Oh yeah if you know in your heart that your relationship it's not worth it anymore then cut if off. Both of you need to take a break, a space for yourselves to think about everything and to figure out what's wrong in your relationship. Do you think you deserved all the cryings you have made lately? Think hard my friend...

I'm thinking of leaving my boyfriend......... Do you know if you were my daughter, sister or friend, I would say leave the sob and you deserve so much better. But I understand how it can be when you've become attached to someone and you don't want to leave them because you don't want to have to start all over again. You wonder if it's something about you that he just doesn't like. All kinds of crazy questions can start to pop up in your head. Listen honey, I"m a grown woman ( I added this to let you know that I have no ulterior motives for giving you the facts as I see them.) and I have to say that no man is worth your tears. If you have to cry over him and he causes you to feel bad about yourself then you are probably better off without him. Most relationships go through ups and downs but as you mentioned you've been crying a lot lately. So it sounds to me like this is the kind of man that isn't doing anything to try to help pick you up. Even when you try to engage in meaningful conversation with him, he acts rude. This is a key indicator that something isn't right. In conclusion It's up to you if you will continue to put up with it but if I were you I would have to turn it a loose and maybe one day when he shows more maturity then you two can talk about getting back together. In the meantime, take care of yourself and let the SOB know that you are not going to take any more of his sh*t because you can do so much better by yourself...... Best wishes...............

It is not supposed to hurt when you love someone. You are supposed to be happy when you are in love. I say kick him to the curb and find someone who loves you just as you are. It is hard trying to impress someone all the time. You sound like you are a better person than he is. Do not ever let someone bring you down!

I know how you feel. My husband has been that way for a long time too. In my situation if you mention a problem or try to discuss anything he refuses to admit that it's an issue. He's more content to stare into the tv for the rest of the night and pretend I don't exist. I'm still trying, but realistically it will eventually end. We're married and have kids so I'm doing what I can to make it work.

I had the same problem. me and this girl were dating for 2 years. we loved eachother dearly. But the fights were unbearable. she would slap me, hit me, and yell at me for no reason. But when we werent fighting, we were perfect. This was hard. I loved her, but i didnt want a relationship like this, but i didnt wanna be lonely. This was going on for 2 years until february, when she "did it" with another guy. I drew the line there and i broke up with her. i've been lonely ever since but i know theres a special girl for me out there. it hurts. its gunna hurt if u breakup, but it could be well worth it. Good luck and i hope everything world out :)