Have your best friend ever hurt you like this???
By subha12
@subha12 (18441)
India
April 18, 2007 2:56am CST
Just want to know what you have gone through. I had a friend whom i used to think my best friend. At a point of time I got all his help when i needed. Not that only it was him who helped me. I also helped him a lot whenever he needed. But after that when i shifted to a diffrent city, he gradually started avoiding me. after that more so. I felt very hurt. Till now also as i have not got any reason from him for this behaviour. May be i was wrong in judging him. Do any of you have this type of experience? Or what isnyour opinion.
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5 responses
@subathra (3519)
• India
18 Apr 07
Hope you should directly ask him what is his problem and why he is not like before? This direct conversation can only solve problem.None of my best friends have hurted me like this but we do have silly fights and remain not speaking to each other but not for a long time ,either some friends enter in the middle and solve or otherwise we will solve among us.So speak to him.
But recently i got a new online friend.he was too good a& hence i started to build my friendship.we use to pass sms, online chat and telephonic talk too.Since we both reside in the same city we got chances to meet.But one day i messaged him to come online he said he is busy now so cannot login now.So i juts replied him to carry on with his work.He then left an offline message that he is very busy with office work and hence missing all friends for the past 2 weeks.Then i didnt get any message from him nor any mails.I felt much disappointed as i dont understand his strange behaviour.
@kalpan_vasa (324)
• India
18 Apr 07
I would say, dont take such things much seriously, it happens, when people go at distance places, such thning are going to happen gradually..
Just keep moving..
Take care
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
26 Apr 07
Well, I am sorry to hear that. But, I think it is the way of the world. You will get hurt all the time, you just got to be ready for it.
@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
18 Apr 07
Misunderstandings happen very often when one least expected it. It seems that he "started" to avoid you only after you have moved to a different city. Did you communicate with him about your moving? Could you have given him any uncomfortable feelings about your moving? Are you sure he is avoiding you or have you both lost contact?
In my opinion, if he is really avoiding you, he could have been feeling hurt in one way or another, and is not comfortable with communicating with you. Give him some time and any misunderstanding could be cleared, ie if he has not decided to give you up as a friend.
Another possibility is that he might be griefing his loss of you as a friend after you have shifted as meeting up might not be that easy anymore. Have faith, continue to contact him, and I am sure all will be well :)
