Cellphone Users Irritate Me Sometimes
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
Philippines
April 19, 2007 11:47am CST
It is understandable why people use cellphones. But when we are asked to switch them off, shall we please comply?
I was attending a conference on health this afternoon. The lecturer requested us to switch off our cellphones. Suddenly, at the middle of his lecture, a cellphone beside me went toot-toot-toot. Everyone's head turned to her. She was not even embarrased at all to see that the lecturer lost his concentration on what he was touching on. In fact, she even answered the call. Her companion advised her to take the conversation outside of the room.
How many of us here have had this experience? I am sure that none of us welcomes anything like this.
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
19 Apr 07
i still can remember when i was still in college. i had lots of classmates who were so addicted into texting that they can't put their mobile phones off even during classes.
mostly at the middle of lectures, mobile phones went ringing destructing everyone's attention inside that room. even if professors kept on reminding students to put off their mobile phone when inside their classes, they simply just don't follow.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
This explains fully well why cellphones are being banned in some schools. There are some teachers who also make it plain to the students that, they will confiscate cellphones which get ringing while classes are ongoing. Then they will claim it from the school disciplinarian's office. People just do not listen to some good sense sometimes, if they are being asked kindly.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
When students do that, the professor will surely feel disrespected. Parents must learn to understand that professors have feelings, too. If parents will explain this to their children, then maybe those kids will be better mannered.
@mskzalameda (4023)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
yes I can also relate to that.. students are using mobile phones in front of a professor discussing his lecture.. very shameful act. they do not give proper respect to he elders.
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@lifetalk (679)
• Pakistan
19 Apr 07
Well, i DO use a cellphone, however, i never intend to disturb people, and so, when am asked to switch off the cellphone, i comply, that is, if it's a valid request. I mean, i wont just switch it off if some passer by asks me to switch it off, or if i am in a place where usage of cellphones is allowed, and does not disturb. However, i am considerate enough, and so, i comply if am asked kindly, rather then being commanded as some people do it!
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
19 Apr 07
yep. being considerate enough is a good gesture in respecting others. it's actually common sense. we know where and we know when we are supposed to put off our mobile phones and still, some people just don't care at all. i hope people will start to respect other people as well even just by turning off their cellphones in places when it should be turned off.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
Yes, it is wise to switch the cellphone off when something important is ongoing like a church service or a meeting. If we are thinking that there might be an emergency, at least we can have it set in the vibration mode. Conversations then can be carried out where it will not cause any disruption of what is going on.
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@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
the incident happened during your conference just shows how people are stubborn. the message is clear, yet people tend to be hard headed. there are always bad apples around where ever we are. it really pissed me off too, when someone's cellphone rings during church services. instead of being kind-hearted, i tend to become imprudent at them. that destroys my purpose already of going to church.
people should know when and where to use their cellphones properly.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
Yes, undisciplined creatures, they get to our nerves. Moreso, when it happens at the church service. We all know that we go there to listen. I believe that it is okay if you remind them to put it off. I know how you feel about it because, I get disturbed when somebody send texts to friends while sitting beside me.
@jhaspher (105)
• United States
19 Apr 07
I do have a cellphone, but i'm responsible enough to know when and where to use it. I do had an experience like that but i was the one who's speaking infront. Before I start the lecture i asked them to please turn of or put your cellphone on a silent mode. When in the middle of my lecture I heard a cellphone rang(looks like it was in a loud mode). I was interrupted and I loose my focus on the subject that i'm explaining to them. It really pissed me off that i want to shout at the owner that "do you have any good manners?!" but just before i speak, one of the guards asked him to go outside of the conference room so we can continue the disscussions.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
Yes, this is the situation which I just went through. I can picture in my mind that the lecturer's expression and reaction would be just about yours then. I hope that you will not go through that undesirable experience again.
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@bruxedo (773)
• France
19 Apr 07
I experienced exactly the same thing during an important teachers reunion. He also answered the phone and we all heard the conversation because he didn't even went out of the room. I think that if was me that was in charge I would tell him to go out and not coming back! It's a disrespect for all other people. Another thing that angers me is to see all those people that are driving and talking to the cellphone without using a handsfree kit.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
I don't know why many people nowadays do not listen to advises and pleadings. To think that it was a teachers reunion yet! All of us know the limits of our freedom, yet so many just simply refuse to do their share. That will go for those hardheaded drivers who never listen to caution. And when they meet an accident because of answering to phone calls that way, who suffers? How come they forget that it is their life that they are risking in the first place? Oh, well, they say we'd better mind our business.
@amar_001us (4)
•
20 Apr 07
u have seen that. once it happened that i went in to a shop to buy some goods there i found the shop keeper was busy with his cell phone.
and i received my goods just with a half n hr after his complete conversation.hahaha
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
those people in the store must not be allowed to entertain calls during their duty hours. their relatives and friends can drop important calls at the stores phone where there is somebody in charge to take care of them. this is how it is being done in most stores in my country. those calls and texts will take so much of their work output. when you had that experience, i know how you hated the moment.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
Welcome to mylot, amar. May you find it fun doing mylot as most of us around here do. Happy mylotting.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
it is really difficult to see why others can never have enough discipline in their system. i know a lot of people who belong to the catergory that your are pointing at, sailor, thank you for bringing this up.
@pitstop (13743)
• Australia
21 Apr 07
I get annoyed when in a meeting or in church etc a cellphone rings and someone actually talks!! I usually keep it on silent as I occasionally get emergency calls from my hospital. If I get an urgent call, I go out and then answer. All other personal calls I cut off and call back when possible.
I also get annoyed by loud ringtones at any place. I prefer a standard phone ring or some soft ringtone that doesnt hurt the ears.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
yes, soft ringtones are better. i agree with you that if we are anxious about getting emergency calls while attending occasions which require us to be in a quiet environment, it is best to make use of the phone's silent mode.
@romel_ece (1290)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
Yes, I agree with you that sometimes other cellphone users will not comply the rules with regards to the usage of their cellphones during the seminars and sessions.Even at church,I could also hear those irritating and disturbing ring tones during the mass.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
This is still a very common problem when in fact this actually calls for simple common sense. I am sure that if it happens to them, they will surely get irritated, too.
@alpha_release (119)
• United States
24 Apr 07
Nothing is more annoying than something like that. Or in a theater when a cell phone rings and they answer it and talk really loudly! I've made some not-so-nice comments to people who do those things.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
People who go to the theater and to those who watch movies, they all know that cellphones are supposed to be switched to the silent/vibrate mode while inside the theater. It is just a matter of being considerate to the others around us. I wonder when will these people ever learn that it is alright for them to carry conversations somewhere else.
@jamesme135 (404)
• Malaysia
20 Apr 07
It's definitely annoying when someone's cellphone rings during lectures and especially during meetings. I had that experince a lot. They didn't even apologize for causing the disturbance. Instead, they just answered the phone! I really wish at that time the chairman would warn them in order to embarass them. I always make sure I switch it off during meetings or in the cinema.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
it is my observation, too, that none of them knows how to say sorry for disrupting everyone's concentration on what's going on. this will only confirm all the more that the ones who are doing this are really the inconsiderate ones. we will notice that the ones who had been remiss feels ashame and switches the phone immediately to silent mode - we give allowances for people who only forgot to do it. it is unto those who do not wish to comply at all that we do not take a liking to.
@jc_star10 (953)
• Indonesia
20 Apr 07
I know what you are feeling here. I don't like the cellphone ringing at quite place. It made sound more louder and noisy, no matter how good the ringtone was. And when someone did that to a place that required you to turn of your cellphone, that person surely don't have respect to others.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
Hi, jcstar, i like your avatar. it's cute and reminds of picachu and ash.
yes, of course, normal people will never desire to be distracted when attending important events which are supposed to be observed in a quiet environment.
@sanyah1988 (306)
• United States
21 Apr 07
I really hate when that happens to me I rhink people are so crazy when It comes t that whole cellphone thing and ringtones and everything else and believe me it drives me craxy just like you.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
yes, sanyah, you found the right line for me, it drives me crazy.
@ladduram (8)
• India
20 Apr 07
cellphones are necessasry anytime.it is both right and wrong on part of the girl.imagine if it was an emergency case would you have bothered to complain about it.what if it was something serious???!!!.but taking into account the fact that the lecturer had requested the phones to be switched off. she atleast could have kept it in the vibration mode to avoid such a situation.certainly it would irritate you .but sometimes people tend to behave like fools so it would be better if you iugnore it.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
yes, nobody will care if anyone receives texts or calls in vibration mode. and neither will anyone be irritated if one answers or takes calls outside of the lecture room. so let's hope evryone will know that this is the best way to deal with important calls. we understand that everyone may receive important calls anytime, we just need to observe some protocol.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
By the way, ladduram, welcome to mylot. may you stay on for long. good luck, and happy mylotting.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
20 Apr 07
i agree with you... it is very annoying when we are in the middle of a serious meeting or in a lecture hall then somebody's cellphone rings loudly... it's not only disturbs the others but also the presenter/lecturer's concentration and i think it is really really rude to do that... i always comply and switch off my mobile phones automatically without being requested to when i have to do it... especially when i am attending a church service... i really hate it when somebody's cellphone just rings in the middle of the sermon...
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
yes, lingli, that is very true. it is good that you are the concentious type. perhaps we can influence our friends by making this a topic in one of our conversations with them. thank you for dropping by and giving it some thought.
@lossforredwords (3620)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
That is a really really rude move. I know that cellphones has been a necessity to our everyday living to get connected but I think there is still some limitations.
Maybe she become deaf the time the instructor said it should be turn off or she is just always against the rules.
Yeah I have experience something like that, it was when I'm taking an exam and everyone was instructed to turn there cellphone and put all the bags at the side of the table of the instructor. Then after an hour a cellphone rang and no one know s who's cell it is cause all of our stuff are in front of the room. so we don't know whose to give an eye.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
Oh, what a disaster to have a cellphone ringing during an exam. The proctor should have reminded everyone to make sure to switch it off before placing them on that table. I can just imagine those who already had a good idea for an answer to a number and then forgot all about it because of the irritation he felt out of the experience.
@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
20 Apr 07
Oh I've had many experiences with people leaving the ringer on when they aren't supposed to. Recently I was in the hospital and there are signs everywhere that states no cell phone usage in the hospital. People ignored it left and right and were using them in patients rooms and hallways. They could care less.
I've also had it at Bingo. They specifically say before the one type of game (speedy) to turn off cell phones. The numbers are called out really fast and are easy to miss. You always have one though that won't turn it off and someone will call during that game. It's not only distracting but it could cause people to miss numbers and thus lose out on a bingo.
I've even seen it happen in churchs. You'd think they'd have enough sense to turn them off before going in but they don't seem to. They usually ring right when the priest is giving his sermon too and some will even answer it. To me that's just plain out and out rude. There is no reason for such behavior. Have some respect and show some courtesy to others.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
we expect hospitals to be hushed because sick people are there. we do not want to miss a single number called out in a bingo, it can spell disaster - we can be the winner already, and if we miss out on it, somebody else will most probably have it. and, never will we ever want to be disrupted as we concentrate on every part of the church service that we are attending. i do hope, just as much as you do, that people will learn to respect our need for no interruptions from their cellphone rings during important events.
@onecutehoneybear (938)
• United States
20 Apr 07
Yea its definitely disrespectful that she didn't turn her cell phone off or on silent. Usually I turn mine on vibrate or silent when its asked to be turned off. Because of the fact that I have a child and I wouldn't want to miss an emergency call from her teacher, babysitter, dad or who ever might be watching her.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
yes, i agree with you, onecutehoneybear, that that is the best way to do it, have the phone on silent mode.
@shreshtha (37)
•
20 Apr 07
Several times in my life i hv this type of experience wherein in the middle of a lecture, in the library or even in the hospital someone's cellphone started ringing. it so irritates me sometimes that i cant say. people just dont pay heed to the signs where its written that switch off ur cellphones before entering a particular area as for example in the library, during a conference and especially in the hospital.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
yes, these are the instances when we want a quiet environment. we need sufficient concentration on what we are hearing or reading. everyone must learn to understand this and give due respect.
@psyche49f (2502)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
I have experienced such predicament, and I agree that these kind of people really annoy others who know cellphonethics. Even mature, educated people fail to comply with simple requests such as switching off their cellular phones amidst formal conferences. Rude, rude. . very rude! It's embarrassing sometimes that even people we look up to violate these simple rules. Definitely such situation is most unwelcome. Why, even students comply with these simple requests. It's pathetic that grown-ups cannot comply.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
Welcome to mylot, psyche. I agree with you that cellphone users must observe cellphonethics, too. It is only normal because, we all have our rights to a proper environment for whatever it may be that we are going through.