do you like living with the parents after the marriage?
By dora81
@dora81 (285)
China
9 responses
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
20 Apr 07
Well if the parents are old and they need caring then definately newlywed should live with the parents. Another thing is they have the experience of married life so they are great help at the time of need.
@wdiong (1815)
• Singapore
20 Apr 07
As a newly wed 9 years ago, I would have liked to live just with my hubby but due to circumstances, we had to live with his parents and 2 brothers. Needless to say, I was not happy with this lack of privacy having so many people in the house, so after lots of prayer and bugging from me, we finally got to move out to our own place 8 years later. I am so much happier now as I feel free to do whatever I like.
@hmike_d (1529)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
No! I don't! Because it's a different responsibility and its my turn to be independent from my parents. It has really been written that we have to leave and live independently. Seems like its not relevant to still stay.
@mofelorn (611)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
Absulotely no. Many couples live at the house of their parents after getting married. Maybe for them it's ok. But for me I need to move out of my own together with my future wife coz I want to have my own house, car, etc. I want to stand on my own feet with the help of my partner.
@Easytime (126)
• Nigeria
20 Apr 07
how will i live with my parents after marriage....that is showing immaturity.. as a man, what my wife say? even if i have the rights to live with my parents, i would not want to do that. the more reason i went out to marry is to leave my parents. god said in genesis 2:18, a man shall leave his mother and father and shall cleave to his wife and they shall...
so i cant live wth them.
@J_F_F_ROSA (57)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
a big NO. I experienced living with my parents and his parents because we have to (we were both the youngest in d family).But now that we are living on our own it is much better.U will have ur own house. buying stuff for ur home. preparing meal 4 ur family(by being not afraid if they(parent) would love ur cooking)playing with ur kids anytime u want becoz nobody would say to u "do this and do that."
really, "been there done that" try to be on ur own.u'll enjoy more of ur marriage lyf.
@akinad (446)
• Philippines
20 Apr 07
that would be a no..i guess when you plan to put up a family,you should consider having a new home and living separately so that you could learn things by yourselves.. a lot of couples who are still living in with their parents usually go to a lot of disagreements..and this might cause a tension between those people involved..and it wouldn't be a great idea to break a new founded relationship especially with those people who are going to be in your life for a very very long time..
