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Nikki Martinez @justnikki (1) • United States 28 Feb 14

Lately i have been feeling extremely down and I try to trace where these feelings are coming from but I cant seem to and it just gets worse.

depression

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akinad Cheer up! :) Feeling down is normal.There are moments of sadness that suddenly creeps on us. However, you have the choice to be happy and not dwell on that sadness. If you cannot trace where your sadness is rooted then try your best not to think about it. Go...

1 Mar 14

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 1 Mar 14

I am currently in a long distance relationship. We've been together for almost 2 years now. He's a seafarer so basically, he is out at sea for 9 months. We are great when we are together, when he is on his vacation. But being...

relationships

long distance relationships

conflicts

love

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 8 Mar 11

I am so tired of my younger brother. He is turning 23 this coming May and he still doesn't know how to manage his allowance by himself. I mean if I give him allowance then he would spend all of it playing online games. After all...

brother

money matters

relationships

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akinad Nice advice :) OH, I hope my brother doesn't end up like that. I hope especially when he earns his own money, that he will be spending and saving his money wisely.Thanks for your advice!

9 Mar 11

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 8 Mar 11

I am so tired of my younger brother. He is turning 23 this coming May and he still doesn't know how to manage his allowance by himself. I mean if I give him allowance then he would spend all of it playing online games. After all...

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akinad Actually, the money he is getting from me is really from my mother who works abroad. My mother just asked me to handle our finances since I am the eldest and I am the more responsible one when it comes to those matters. Anyway, I agree that he is old enough so...

9 Mar 11

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 8 Mar 11

I am so tired of my younger brother. He is turning 23 this coming May and he still doesn't know how to manage his allowance by himself. I mean if I give him allowance then he would spend all of it playing online games. After all...

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akinad Well, he is currently studying that is why he still needs financial support from our mother. But he will be graduating soon and I hope he'll find work by then. And when he works I hope that he'll realize how important even a single cent is.Thanks for your...

9 Mar 11

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 8 Mar 11

I am so tired of my younger brother. He is turning 23 this coming May and he still doesn't know how to manage his allowance by himself. I mean if I give him allowance then he would spend all of it playing online games. After all...

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akinad I would not stop giving him allowance,I mean he should still receive his share because it is from our mother. I am just the one handling the money. I will give his share but nothing more than that because it will ruin our budget.

9 Mar 11

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 8 Mar 11

I am so tired of my younger brother. He is turning 23 this coming May and he still doesn't know how to manage his allowance by himself. I mean if I give him allowance then he would spend all of it playing online games. After all...

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akinad Yes, I have done my part..I guess I cannot push this idea to him any longer. I just to wait for him to learn and I hope it will be soon.

9 Mar 11

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 8 Mar 11

I am so tired of my younger brother. He is turning 23 this coming May and he still doesn't know how to manage his allowance by himself. I mean if I give him allowance then he would spend all of it playing online games. After all...

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akinad Thank you jaiho2009. He is currently studying but he will be graduating this coming April and hopefully by then he'll have some plans for his future. Honestly, my mom is the one who supports us financially that is why I am trying my best budget to all of the...

9 Mar 11

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 8 Mar 11

I am so tired of my younger brother. He is turning 23 this coming May and he still doesn't know how to manage his allowance by himself. I mean if I give him allowance then he would spend all of it playing online games. After all...

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akinad I guess you have a point there. All I have to do right now is to be more patient. I know someday he will learn, I guess just not right now. Thanks!

9 Mar 11

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 8 Mar 11

I am so tired of my younger brother. He is turning 23 this coming May and he still doesn't know how to manage his allowance by himself. I mean if I give him allowance then he would spend all of it playing online games. After all...

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akinad He is currently studying.I am older than him.My mother is working abroad,she is the one that supports us financially, I am the one who budgets all.She asked me to look after my brother so that she can be sure that he is gonna graduate. Fortunately, he will be...

9 Mar 11

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 8 Mar 11

I am so tired of my younger brother. He is turning 23 this coming May and he still doesn't know how to manage his allowance by himself. I mean if I give him allowance then he would spend all of it playing online games. After all...

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akinad I know right :(, but then as long as he is still studying,we will still need to support him financially. By the way, he will graduating this coming April and I hope by then some changes will happen. I hope he becomes more responsible. Thanks!

9 Mar 11

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 8 Mar 11

I am so tired of my younger brother. He is turning 23 this coming May and he still doesn't know how to manage his allowance by himself. I mean if I give him allowance then he would spend all of it playing online games. After all...

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akinad I have already than that. It is just frustrating, I think he understands the whole situation but he just doesn't care enough.I hope in time he does learn. I think just need to be more patient dealing with him. Thanks for your response bingskee.It is a lot of...

9 Mar 11

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 8 Mar 11

I am so tired of my younger brother. He is turning 23 this coming May and he still doesn't know how to manage his allowance by himself. I mean if I give him allowance then he would spend all of it playing online games. After all...

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akinad We still have to support him on his studies until he graduates this coming April. Hopefully, he has a plan with his life like getting a job and helping out. Thanks for your response.

9 Mar 11

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 8 Mar 11

I am so tired of my younger brother. He is turning 23 this coming May and he still doesn't know how to manage his allowance by himself. I mean if I give him allowance then he would spend all of it playing online games. After all...

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3 people

akinad Yes I know that will help him realize. He will be graduating this coming April and I am hoping that he would get a very nice job after graduation. Thanks for your response :)

9 Mar 11

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 8 Mar 11

I am so tired of my younger brother. He is turning 23 this coming May and he still doesn't know how to manage his allowance by himself. I mean if I give him allowance then he would spend all of it playing online games. After all...

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akinad I agree..but don't you think that it is time for a 23 year old man to take charge of his own finances??something to ponder on..

9 Mar 11

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 8 Mar 11

I am so tired of my younger brother. He is turning 23 this coming May and he still doesn't know how to manage his allowance by himself. I mean if I give him allowance then he would spend all of it playing online games. After all...

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akinad That is what I am trying to tell him..but he really takes it the other way around as if I am being so uptight with everything. I told him that it is for his own sake that I wanted him to realize how to handle money wisely, It is one very important aspect of...

8 Mar 11

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 8 Mar 11

I am so tired of my younger brother. He is turning 23 this coming May and he still doesn't know how to manage his allowance by himself. I mean if I give him allowance then he would spend all of it playing online games. After all...

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akinad Thanks SIMPLYD for your advice. I will do that. It's high time that he learns how to be responsible especially on money matters.

8 Mar 11

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 8 Mar 11

I am so tired of my younger brother. He is turning 23 this coming May and he still doesn't know how to manage his allowance by himself. I mean if I give him allowance then he would spend all of it playing online games. After all...

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3 people

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 8 Mar 11

I have been in a very depressive state for a very long time in my life. However, I manage to rearrange and change every wrong aspects in my life. I have change my outlook and try hard to feel certainly positive with everything....

emotions

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akinad Thanks ralitsatomova.It is very thoughtful of you :) Thanks for your advices, it means something for someone like me who is going through a lot of ups and downs. It is good to know that even a stranger lends their helping hand. God bless!

8 Mar 11

tine1421 @tine1421 (41) • Philippines 8 Mar 11

do you ever feel that you have been hating many things or people so much? as if every minute there is something that bothers you and make your day not good? Wrong gestures, no breading people, I mean why not put it in place?.....

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akinad I get those kind of feelings sometimes but I just try to ignore it. Don't be bothered with small things. It will just occupy too much of your time and energy. Remember that we will never get back the time we waste on unimportant events.

8 Mar 11

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