akinad

@akinad (446)

Philippines • Age 39

Joined myLot 17 years ago

carefree and loving it!

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Can you be depressed without haveing anything to be sad about?

Nikki Martinez @justnikki (1) • United States 28 Feb 14

Lately i have been feeling extremely down and I try to trace where these feelings are coming from but I cant seem to and it just gets worse.

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akinad Cheer up! :) Feeling down is normal.There are moments of sadness that suddenly creeps on us. However, you have the choice to be happy and not dwell on that sadness. If you cannot trace where your sadness is rooted then try your best not to think about it. Go...

1 Mar 14

why there is so much to hate in this world?

tine1421 @tine1421 (41) • Philippines 8 Mar 11

do you ever feel that you have been hating many things or people so much? as if every minute there is something that bothers you and make your day not good? Wrong gestures, no breading people, I mean why not put it in place?.....

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akinad I get those kind of feelings sometimes but I just try to ignore it. Don't be bothered with small things. It will just occupy too much of your time and energy. Remember that we will never get back the time we waste on unimportant events.

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Honest and dishonest ways for earning money.

DoctorDidi @DoctorDidi (7018) • India 7 Mar 11

Every man has to earn money for a livelihood. Money can be earned in both honest and dishonest ways. There are some who leave no stone unturned to earn money but whatever they do they always stick to the path of honesty and never...

by hook or by crook

deviate

honest

leave no stone unturned

ways

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akinad Definitely the honest to goodness way :) Earning a living and finding a decent job is hard for me because I am a single mom and the only way that I can support my child while taking care of her at the same time is through home-based jobs. Sometimes it is very...

7 Mar 11

I just wanna be slim and sexy...

vehaileairu @vehaileairu (2286) • Philippines 5 Mar 11

:( I have gained so much weight... these past years is so horrible.. can I ever get my weight back?... i wanna cry..

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akinad Don't be too upset.It happens to everyone. We all gain those fats at some point in our lives but the most important thing is how we feel inside. We should always try to feel pretty even when have those flabs. But if you really wanna change your outer look then...

6 Mar 11

Success minded

Cherubina @Cherubina (16) 6 Mar 11

What are the success mantras that keep you going? ...like a failure is the stepping stone to success!

quotes

success

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akinad I keep telling myself even when in failure that everything will change. Everything will turn out okay in the end. I just think of positive things to have that motivation and keep striving hard for success!It works all the time. WE are what we think ;)

6 Mar 11

If You're In Jail & Sentenced To Die Tommorow, What Will You Do Today?

yansky23 @yansky23 (404) • Philippines 4 Mar 11

I'll ask forgiveness to all the people i had misunderstandings in may life, and i'll forgive people who have done me wrong. I'll say i love you to all my love ones , and pray to God the whole day to Save my Soul and enter to his...

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akinad I'll definitely ask forgiveness to the Lord and others whom i have wronged. I'll also spend the last day of my life with love ones and tell them how much I love them. I'll just cherish every last moment with them then tell them to remember all the great things...

6 Mar 11

what is the single most important activity you wont mind doing the whole day(?

yansky23 @yansky23 (404) • Philippines 3 Mar 11

as a musician, i wont mind playing my guitar the whole day. the guitar gives me the accessibility to express my emotions such as anger, love, hate, and fun. it is also a tool for meeting new friends and for bonding to your...

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akinad I would not mind doing things for my five year old kid. It is a pleasure serving my daughter :) I have a great time doing stuff with her.

3 Mar 11

Do you give importance to your relatives?

singuri @singuri (571) • India 3 Mar 11

Indian culture is of more family oriented. People give a lot of importance to relatives and they make sure to preserve the pride of their family.I don't think now a days people are commercial. If you have money and power, friends...

relatives

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akinad It would not be good if you stay away from your relatives because they are becoming a handful to deal with. Family crisis, problems and issues are inevitable. What we just need to do is to become more helpful, sympathizing to our relatives especially when they...

3 Mar 11

How much do we actually need?

Sanitary @Sanitary (3968) • Singapore 1 Mar 11

Different jobs in different countries has different salary packages to their people. Some may be high income earners while some might earn just enough to scrap by. At the end of the month, no matter how much we earn, we will...

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akinad I am a freak when it comes to budgeting. Before I even spend our earnings, I need to put all the basic necessities and commodities on paper and allot certain amounts for it. I have the need to see if all will be met. However, despite the budgeting, there will...

1 Mar 11

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If are ridicolously rich what would be your charities?

Your Highness Emperor Albert Whisker @CaptAlbertWhisker (32697) • Calgary, Alberta 1 Mar 11

lets say someday I became so rich that i dont know where to spend my money, Aside from enjoying the comfortable life and having luxaries, charities must be a must but I think I will try to be different from the usual...

charity

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akinad I would definitely help those old people in the streets. I am close to my dear grandmother and I am heartbroken to see old people wandering around the streets, abandoned by their family, begging alms. I am disgusted to know that some of their kids would let...

1 Mar 11

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Are you dependent on others?

singuri @singuri (571) • India 1 Mar 11

Many of us are dependent on others financially and socially. But there is a limit for dependency. You cant depend on others for each and every thing. Some cant sleep alone, some can't go to shopping alone, some can't take...

dependent

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akinad I agree that we all have some sort of dependency with people or things. As the saying goes- "No man is island". It generally means that no one could ever claim that he/she does not need anybody to survive in this life. We all have the tendency to depend on...

1 Mar 11

Is it ok to hangout with your ex if you are currently in a relationship?

kaliyha @kaliyha (591) • Philippines 5 Dec 08

My ex-boyfriend called me last night. He said that he's going to be in town on my birthday. He asked if maybe we can hangout and give him a tour of the City. So far, my boyfriend hasn't shown any hint of jealousy yet. Is it ok if...

relationship

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akinad It's okay to hang-out with an ex especially if you really have been friends with him since the break-up..It's a nice feeling being around with someone you have gotten to know a few years back..catching up with each others' life and happenings.. and since you...

5 Dec 08

RA Medications and hair loss

ms1323 @ms1323 (259) • United States 13 Oct 08

I currently take Humira, Prednisone and the newest one is Sulfazine. I started experiencing hair loss about 6 years ago, while I was only taking Enbrel. It is very strange, I will go about 2 months not losing hair and then 2...

hair loss

medication

rheumatoid arthritis

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akinad yes,i am currently experiencing the same thing..i am having a lot of hair loss and it seems that my hair isn't that healthy anymore..i'm now taking plaquenil,methotrexate,steroids and other stuff for my ra..but im not that sure if this is one of the...

22 Oct 08

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do you know everything about each other?

jhl930 @jhl930 (3601) • United States 21 Oct 08

i have been with my girlfriend eight months going on nine and its like i know her so well i mean i can tell waht she's going to do and say most of the time before she does and says it, its very rare that she does something or does...

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akinad i have been with my boyfriend for almost six years now and i can say that i still have a lot to know about him..it seems that i still have a hard time reading his thoughts and emotions..you know men are not that showy that's why i'm having a hard time figuring...

22 Oct 08

being dumped

ChloeStrawberry @ChloeStrawberry (285) • Philippines 20 Oct 08

What are the signs that your girlfriend/boyfriend is about to dump you? What's the best thing to do? Confront them and ask directly? Or ignore and leave it at that and just move on?

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akinad i think that when a relationship changes drastically or when one partner seems to change on how he or she treats the other is one way to look at to know if they're going to dump you..you,yourself should know and feel it or have at least a hint of what your...

21 Oct 08

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Taking a break from the relationship

revellanotvanella @revellanotvanella (4033) • United States 20 Oct 08

Yes I said it. Me and my bf have run into some differences and almost 8 years together it happens. I remember I used to get all in a spin but frankly I think relationships are like a rollercoaster--its gonna happen. We...

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akinad i believe in having "some breaks in a relationship".I'm currently struggling with my relationship to my bf of almost six years.I've never thought that i would end up thinking of breaking up with him..to think that we have a daughter together and that her...

21 Oct 08

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Are Promises Meant to be Broken?

PrincessThinker @PrincessThinker (234) • Philippines 21 Oct 08

I don't make promises...well maybe in the past but not now because I have broken them all. Yes, I admit it. It is really hurting not only on the person to whom I made the promise but also to myself because once again I failed to...

promises

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akinad Like you,i don't make promises that much because for a fact i know that it is very hard to keep them..I've gotten too many broken promises that i don't want any of it now..it's very hard for the person that u have given a promise when you cannot keep it..it...

21 Oct 08

What Do You Think Is The Hardest Thing About a Relationship?

Malyck @Malyck (3425) • Australia 5 Feb 08

In all relationships we have the great, good and not so good times. I'm just wondering what the people of the world think is the toughest thing about a romantic relationship. In my opinion, it would have to be adjusting to...

love

problems

relationships

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akinad for me,the hardest part of being in a relationship is losing yourself..i mean,there's a part where you disregard you dreams and goals to be with someone..you totally changed life plans..you are not free anymore..you can't just do things your way because you...

6 Feb 08