being dumped
@ChloeStrawberry (285)
Philippines
5 responses
@akinad (446)
• Philippines
21 Oct 08
i think that when a relationship changes drastically or when one partner seems to change on how he or she treats the other is one way to look at to know if they're going to dump you..you,yourself should know and feel it or have at least a hint of what your partner is feeling for you right now..so you should know that there is a problem coming to both of you..it's up to you if you would like to stay with him..fight for it if you really love him and if you think that he still loves but just having confusions right now..give him reasons to stay with you..but if it still doesn't work it just means that you must let him go..because you can never change how one should feel for you.it's also their choice..and from then on,you must move on with your life...
@ChloeStrawberry (285)
• Philippines
21 Oct 08
Very well said dear. So, before making any major decisions of dumping, you have to
rationalize first and give the other person the chance. After then, if nothing change, then have a clean breakup. Thanks. Now i know what to tell my friend.
@ChloeStrawberry (285)
• Philippines
20 Oct 08
Yup you are right. Thanks for the complement and i'll try a strawberry farmer instead. hahaha
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@ChloeStrawberry (285)
• Philippines
21 Oct 08
Oh yes i'm an emotional person. It is a case of a friend though because i never experienced being dumped. But if i'll do, i'll pray for the first one to at least have the kind heart to say it directly and right away not to prolong such agony. Did you happen to ask her why and talk about it? Or just walked away and let things hanging. If so, i'm so sad it happened to you. But it is her lost not yours. Sorry to remind you of those moments. You must really loved the girl.
@flance101 (137)
• Philippines
20 Oct 08
The signs? Im not familiar with the signs though. I had one boyfriend and I was the one who broke up with him, but he DUMPED me after. I wasnt after him though, he just did dumped me in a way. :D
Sorry, I cant help with the signs.. But here's my advice. Ask them directly. If you cant do that, send them an email. If he or she doesnt reply, then you have to confront him or her. I dont think asking for reasons is a good idea. Maybe you can ask why he or she is not telling you. Let the person know that the reason you are confronting him or her is because you want to confirm your feelings about him wanting to dump you soon. Why? It is better that you have a proper closure. And then, no better choice, move on. :) It is going to be so hard and painful, but in time it'll all be better. :)
@mercuryman3a (2477)
• India
20 Oct 08
They can dump you only if there is some problem between the two of you or they have fallenin love with someone else. It also depends onteh type of relationship you share. If there is no commitment thenyou really can't keep them from dumping you. if there is a bond, it is better to find out at the earliest rather than let it linger for a linger period of time. if he is planning to dump you, he needs courage to bring it toa flash point. you just need to give the trigger.