I was flung into a dilemma,who can help me and what should i do?

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So many my friends and classmates are married,then my family asked me when will you marry and it's time for me to marry.They arranged miai for me,i refuesd most of them.But this spring festival,i took a miai and saw that person who my aunt always say how good is he.I don't know how to describe him,i only know that he is not the style i like.but one of my good friends asked me to make friends with him first,then i can see his character and other aspects.I did.After these months,i found that he is not bad and cares me,but i still have no feeling,i can't open my heart to him and i keep distance with him. Yesterday was his friend's marrage he asked me to go with him ,i don't like to so i refused.But he taiked talked and talked,i don't know how to refuse him again ,then we went together.During the wedding party so many his friends asked when will you two marry?Oh,my god,you can imagine,how embarrassed i was.Here,my dear lotters,can you help me?I really don't know what should i do.