How do you feel when your reponse is choosen as the Best Response?
By sudeshna22
@sudeshna22 (390)
India
21 responses
@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
1 May 07
I always feel great to have a best response. When my response is selected, i feel honored and that my effort, time as well as content is recognized by the poster. It also gives me another great feeling of satisfaction because when someone selects my response as best, it means i have been helpful in the understanding of subject or provided some really wanted answer, this feeling of satisfying someone else's requirement makes me happy that i have been to any service to some other person. I also feel good when someone else's response is selected as best because i feel that the poster has at least recognized the efforts of someone, even though it is someone else. I feel disappointed when a poster starts a topic never to come back again and who doesn't choose a best response or replies to comments made on his/her discussion.
I have only 38 best responses from serious discussions and same number of best responses from riddles/question & answer, but even some of them are multi response posts. when i started, i hoped to get 1 best response out of every 10 responses that i make i.e. 10% of my total replies. so far i am more than satisfied on my best responses:-) wish you best of luck sudeshna22!
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@sudeshna22 (390)
• India
2 May 07
You really maintained a very good percentage. Your 1st response was partial but you completed it with the 2nd response. Thank you!
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@sudeshna22 (390)
• India
1 May 07
You are right. Really getting the "Best Response" energiged us to write more quality posts. I feel all the members should mark the "Best Response" against their discussions. What do you think?
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@sudeshna22 (390)
• India
2 May 07
12 among 191?, a good ratio!!. We feel very happy when our response has choosen as the "Best" among a lots of posts, but my friend if you find that your response is marked as "Best response" only among two responses, will really feel that happy and honoured?
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@Gmens91 (389)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
Hello. Whenever one of my replies get chosen as the best response I undergo through a lot of emotions. I feel excited, happy, and most especially honored because the person who posted the topic felt that my response was the one that he thought completely answered his post and was deemed THE BEST. You can make me feel that way by making my reply the best response. lol
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@Gmens91 (389)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
Hi. I always respond to posts in a light and jovial mood whenever possible, It makes me feel good about myself and I can lift of the spirits of others reading my posts. In choosing the best response, I try to look for those answers that have the most relevance according to my topic. Whether in a serious or jovial mood, I try to find, honest, sincere and direct to the point answers to my post. Thank you very much.
@sudeshna22 (390)
• India
23 Apr 07
Thank you for your response. I also liked your way of responding to my discussion in a funny way.
Do you used to respond in a funny way like this in all of your posts? I liked this way. Do you think that those who write in a light way get "Best resposes" most of the time? Or is it the serious posts that are selected as the "Best"? What you consider important while choosing a best response among responses against your discussions.
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@wildhorse (1293)
• Egypt
2 May 07
It feels good :) Yes I like receiving "best responses" and i have a few in my profile, I check there occasionally and I'm always happy when I find a new one.
When I receive a new best response, I go to the discussion and read my response again and also the comments from the discussion's owner if any, I may follow up if needed and thank them..
Usually whenever I read my best response i think I could have done better and I feel thankful to the one who gave me a best response despite some minor errors of spelling or grammar.
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@sudeshna22 (390)
• India
2 May 07
Thanks for the response. Getting best responses encourages me also to check the best response section in mylot, and it's really a great feelings to see a new one there.
Do you think spelling mistakes or grammertical errors prevents us to get "best response" if we do it by mistake?
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@touchnshine (2821)
• India
27 Apr 07
Dear sudeshna22
I really feel very happy whenever my response is selected as the best one .. I go through the whole discussion and read other posts too .. and then thanks the member who select my response as the best one :). When I got my first best response .. I was extremely happy and I go through other posts and posted more quality posts .. and again yearned for best response .. I got 8 best responses till now
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@sudeshna22 (390)
• India
1 May 07
EIGHT!! it's Grea...t!!!Your colour and number (9) of star is really supporting your response. Itb was really a thrilling experience for me also when at the fisrt time I was selected as a best Responder. But I was not very impressed when I saw that I have choosen as the best response in between two responses only. By the way, what is the minimum and maximum number of posts among which you got the best response?
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@cutekristine (526)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
I am very happy when my response are chosen because every time im here in mylot, i do chose discussions with good quality so that i can also give my honest opinion or answer on it. Its also flattering because from the number of members who responded, i was the lucky one. it motivates me to answer more discussions and as well post my own topic. From the three months, ive been here, im thankful because a lot of members here in mylot chose me as the best response.
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@sudeshna22 (390)
• India
23 Apr 07
I hope you considered my discussin as a "Quality Discussion" as you have responded. Thank you for that.
Being selected as the "best responder" is really motivating to post good quality responses. It is also a matter of luck, as all the members do not choose the best response in thier discussions.
I always denote the "best response" from my responses.What about you?
Do you consider it is quality or luck that matters when we get selected as a best responder.
@samrat16 (2442)
• India
24 Apr 07
Great, superb , ........... Many words to add. I feel, "well, it worked for me" but then that is how I mostly feel when I am responding. If my response can make life easier for someone else, I feel good.
Sometimes I feel, duh, but mostly I feel proud to have someone consider my input valid. I would guess, as an discussion starter, one would have to wade through many stupid responses, or the simple "yes" ones with no reasoning why. To think someone read mine, considered it and compared it to others and then chose it makes me feel it was worth the effort to think about the discussion and read all the other responses. What drives me nuts is not knowing the outcome of certain situations. I also like it more if I get best response out of more choices. If I was selected as best response out of only three, that's one thing, but I was picked as best out of 25 or more, than that is something, especially if I was not the first to respond.
@sudeshna22 (390)
• India
24 Apr 07
Have you ever been choosen as the "best responder" among a great many responses. If yes, then what is the maximum number of responses among which your response has been choosen as "The Best"? In my case, there was 45 responses among which my response has been choosen as "The Best". I was very much excited then.
@breepeace (3014)
• Canada
23 Apr 07
*LOL* That's too funny, because I just went to check out my best responses and there was a very nice response to one of my posts that I ended up getting best response for. I read all the other responses, too, but I can't help but to be a little proud that I was picked. :)
@little_angel (2458)
• Australia
26 Apr 07
Very very happy, i knew that my English is not good, and i try my best to write in English and try to make other people understand what i wrote.
I'm so happy if someone give me best response.
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@sudeshna22 (390)
• India
1 May 07
Thank you for your response. I think it is not the good english but the expression of our good thoughts in simple and understandable english is enough to get a "Best Response". After all I like to listen and read something that is simle and light. What about you?
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@monkey_d_luffy (52)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
Of course I will be delighted as well as grateful that he/she chose my response as the best.
@sudeshna22 (390)
• India
23 Apr 07
Right your are. When I first time found that my response has choosen the best I was so happy that I could not express in language. I also was grateful. Do you always denote the best response among the responses in your discussions ?
@agi_lucy (102)
• India
23 Apr 07
I will be very happy if my response is selected as a abest response. Difinetely i will open the discussion page and read all other members responses. because i would like to know which made be to be one in the best. what are all the thoughts of other members on that particular issue, what is the different thing i did, what others think. how i am facing that particular issue, to know thaqt and all i will do that
@sudeshna22 (390)
• India
23 Apr 07
Thank you for writing your view. I also do the same when my response becomes the best one. Have any of your responses became best here yet?
@worthy (2413)
• India
12 Jun 07
I feel elated when I get the best response.i do go to that discussion page and read my response as to what i had written and why it was selcted as the best of all.Plus,i thank the poster of the discussion for chosing my response as the best.
@andak2007 (3229)
• Philippines
15 Jun 07
of course best responses are like energy booster for me at least i know someone here in my lot appreciates the things that i have to say and has chosen my answer as the best..yes i look again and read through and then i say thank you for the BR.
@sallyxu126 (1184)
• China
23 Apr 07
I will be very very happy.
But I only have one response to be the best responses, though I reply so many post.
I don't know why.
I already try my best to reply them.
@sudeshna22 (390)
• India
23 Apr 07
I also feel excited when my response becomes best respose. I think our writing skill varies day to day. Sometime we are in a good mood of writing and then what ever we respond, that become a good quality response. But we have to try and continue responding without getting anxious of the result. What do you think?
@touchnshine (2821)
• India
15 Jun 07
I feel great when my response will be selected as best one .. It motivates me a lot to respond to other discussions too. I go through the discussion well and think a lot why that member selected my response as the best one and thank the member for selecting my response as the best one.