Girls I need your opinion!
By MusicOnly
@MusicOnly (328)
Croatia (Hrvatska)
April 23, 2007 2:14pm CST
Hello my dear MyLotters! I need opinion from the MyLot girls. Here`s the story!
I am in love with one amazing girl! We have met last summer and from that day I cant stop thinking about her! We never thought about our relationship as a serious one because we are 250 km away from each other. I call her every weekend and we talk for a few hours! I really enjoy talking to her! She is smart, has great sense of humor and she is very pretty!
My folks were planning a trip to their town because we have relatives near her! God, I was very excited! So was she!
Well, God knows why but I m not a lucky person.
It was Friday and i was packing my stuff! Suddenly my mom enters the room and she tells me that she has one "great" news! I thought that we ll travel on Friday night instead of Saturday morning! Well i was wrong! My little bro, a 5 years old, got sick. And guess who sacrificed himself for the others?!? It was me! I decided to stay and watch out for a little buddy! He s great kid and he has big heart! Whenever i get sick he is bringing me a drugs and he s playing in my room so i dont get bored!
I was really sad because i wanted to see her! She wasnt very happy when i told her that i m not coming!
Last night i had a nightmare! I was dreaming about her but she was with another guy and they were making out! I woke up and i was really depressed! So i decided to do something to surprise her!
We all know that 1st May is next tuesday! And that is going to be a big weekend! So i decided to run away from home, buy a train ticket and visit her! I know i will get in big trouble because of running from home but i cant help myself! I need to see her!
So do you girls have any advice? Should i run away just to see her? Is she really worth of all the troubles i will get into?
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6 responses
@martinha (631)
• Portugal
23 Apr 07
I understand how sad you are but you must think a lot about what you are going to do. It's a long travel and your parents will be mad with you. They'll probably won't let you go and see her again after this. You must think about the consequences because you'll have to "pay" for what you did.
I think you should talk to your parents, tell them you miss her and see if they can't get a date to go there. They might understand your point of view. I don't think running away is a solution... think about it.
Don't get to influenced by dreams, that's what they are, just dreams, I guess you want to see her so badly mostly because you fear she might be with someone else. Be honest with her and talk to her, tell her your dream and see what's her reaction.
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@MusicOnly (328)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
24 Apr 07
Like i already said in my previous reply i cant tell my parents that i am going to visit my girl! That will lead to a lots of questions. I have to much problems besides this one so i dont want to get in fight with folks. I am too tired for that! Any other possible solutions?
Thanks for your response!
@steney (1418)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
First off, I think it's great of you to sacrifice seeing her to take care of your little brother. And, it's also nice of you to think of making up for the lost chance you had of seeing her. I say that you go on and surprise her or do something nice for her. But you don't have to run away to do that. Tell your parents first that it's important that you do this trip because you made a promise. If they don't approve of it, maybe there's a good reason-- then you can just surprise her in other ways like sending her roses and stuff you know she would appreciate. It will melt her heart, I tell you. Now, about the dream, you know that dreams are most of the time the exact opposite! Maybe she just misses you as much as you do. Goodluck! :)
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@MusicOnly (328)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
24 Apr 07
I don't think that my folks will understand why am i doing this. They are pretty conservative in a lots of ways. I would have to explain a lots of things if i ask them for the permission to go. What will you be doing? Why is it so important for you to go? And other crappy things. I know they take care of me but i think it s time to leave me so i can live my life. they act like i am 4 years old!!! and that is why i cant tell them that i want to see her. maybe i could say to them that i am visiting my relatives but they will probably call them to see if i am there! Thanks for your advice, i can see why do you have 9 stars! It really got me thinking! Thanks
@tater03 (1765)
• United States
23 Apr 07
No, I am sorry she is not worth running away for. Personally I feel what you did was very thoughtful on your part and shows a very good character trait. And if she cannot see that or understand why you stayed home then she is not worth your time. Sorry, I am sure you might not agree with this but I wanted to be honest on how I see it.
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@MusicOnly (328)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
24 Apr 07
She does understand but she doesn`t want to accept the fact that she needs to wait three months to see me again. i also can`t stand this fact but i dont think i can do anything besides running away. I appreciate your opinion and your honesty!Thank you
@MusicOnly (328)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
24 Apr 07
Its under construction and i only figured that you are counselor. Are you telling me that i ll have free sessions to help me solve my problems? interesting offer, do you think you can handle my bad english?
@Jennifer21 (2476)
• United States
23 Apr 07
Well, I would definetelly run away if I were you. Who cares if you get into trouble. You only live once, so live it up, go visit with her.
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@MusicOnly (328)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
24 Apr 07
We do have pretty much the same view on world! It`s my life and it`s now and never i ain`t gonna live forever.
But what if running away would be a big mistake?
I made to many mistakes in my life and if i find out that this move will be another one in a row, then i dont see the point of living the life full of mistakes!
Thanks for your opinion! I m one step closer to the decision!
@BeachTime (54)
• United States
7 May 07
Well May 1st has come and gone, so what did u do? U sound very young, so I'm guessing you've not had alot of experience. I'm a mom and it sounds like u come from a loving family. Running away is so not the right decision. UR mom would be absolutely sick/vomit style w/ worry. Parents deserve better from the kids. Can't u talk to u'r mom? I think u would be surprised how she would react. Don't short change her or dad. They were young once and believe me really do remember the feelings u are having.
