@Mickie30 on myLot

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 Hi yeah well this is what I am worried about whether she is using me or not. I don't want to lose her friendship, but if she is using me then she is not really a friend in the first place. Thanks for your advise I really appreciate it.

9 Mar 13

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 You are very wise in what you say. She already knows I have health problems and that I cannot work because of these. I have felt so low since she expected me to do her lounge without even asking. It made me feel like I was being seen as someone who works for...

9 Mar 13

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 The thing is she knows that I have a son who is autistic and that I have mental health problems. She also knows that my back is bad because I've told her all of this. She also knows that social services are on our backs and that I have to make sure my house is...

9 Mar 13

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 Thanks for understanding. She is really subtle with it too. It's like she knows what she is doing. I feel like if she were a real friend then she wouldn't ask me to do things she knows are too difficult for me. It is so hurtful that I might have to lose her...

8 Mar 13

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 I don't mind helping her, but what I don't like is being taken for granted. She has helped me with some things as well and given me things. I like helping her, but I don't like her taking me for granted it makes me feel hurt. She knows that I have trouble...

8 Mar 13

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 You are right, I do need to look after myself. I feel so hurt at the moment because she knows my situation yet still expects so much of me. Whilst I didn't mind helping I am not paid to be her carer and she should not expect this of me knowing that I am not...

8 Mar 13

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 I think that every response leads me to think that I have to talk to my friend about this. I don't know whether she has the money to employ someone, but why should she expect me to be her unpaid worker? It's not fair and it's not what I need. It's a one sided...

8 Mar 13

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 Thanks so much for understanding. I feel that if she really cared about me she would understand my problems better and not take me for granted which is what I really feel she is doing.

8 Mar 13

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 Thanks so much for understanding. You are right her friendship has positively affected my life.

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Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 Wow you have all been so helpful in giving your advise. I hate speaking up for myself, but I realize now that I have to do so. I've been dwelling on this all day and it scares me to death talking to her, but I think you are right I have to do so.

8 Mar 13

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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strawpurple6763 @strawpurple6763 (372) • United States 26 Sep 12

There are people in my life that say they care about me and I know that they really don't. I really don't care.My Health is not the greatest in the world right now and I don't need people telling me what I can and can't do.We will...

mad

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Mickie30 Sorry to hear of what you are going through. I have mental health problems myself. My little boy is almost 3 and has been diagnosed with Global Learning Delay he might also have Autism or Adhd. He hits, bites, pulls my hair on a daily basis. He cannot speak...

26 Sep 12

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dorothy09 @dorothy09 (1520) • Philippines 22 Sep 12

hi mylotters, while I surfing the internet I came across this website Eurex-Trade, I don't know if I am mistaken but as I have understood they are offering if you invest 120% after 5 minutes for beginners, 200% over after 10...

eurextrade

hyip

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Mickie30 Any site that offers something that seems too good to be true, usually it is too good to be true. I would be really careful with any sites like this. Always be aware of scams on the Internet.

22 Sep 12

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 22 Sep 12

Hi I have just started a discussion on tattoos and had another idea for a discussion. Do you have any tattoos on your body and if so what do they mean and what are they? Do you have any plans in the future for more tattoos and if...

lion

tattoos

what do they mean

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Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 22 Sep 12

I just answered a post on Mylot that triggered an idea for a question. Last week I got a tattoo done and when I went into the shop it had a poster on the wall saying that children would not be tattooed even if accompanied by their...

abuse

children

tattoos

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iBizkut @iBizkut (80) • United States 22 Sep 12

I am a young mother of two. Recently I had my second child roughly almost 3 months ago. I had my ears pierced as an infant as did my mother and other females I know. My mother-in-law or should I say in-laws in general brought up a...

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Mickie30 I don't know really. When I was 8 I had my ears pierced and was happy to have them done. However, they hurt me and got infected so I had to take them out. My daughter is 6 and old enough to decide if she wants them done. She says she doesn't so I respect that...

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meowchie @meowchie (992) • Philippines 21 Sep 12

October 2011 was when I met this guy on a site. He was supposed to be a client but eventually became a chatmate/playmate. January this year (my bday),he cracked a joke about when i'm getting married.that's when iI told him that iI...

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Mickie30 I'm sorry to put this negative to you. The thing is you have never even met him person to person. You only know him through a website. You need to be very careful. You really know nothing of this guy. How do you that what he says is not a lie? He could be...

21 Sep 12

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ravisivan @ravisivan (14078) • India 21 Sep 12

I am surprised to find that the responses of a new member -- who joined -- three/four days back only are missing. I found that name is not in the friends list also. That means the membership has been cancelled by the member or the...

old members

reasons for deletion

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Mickie30 Yeah I know what you mean. I do think we need to be careful when adding people to our friends. I get lot's of friend requests from people who have only just joined and have no feedback, but I also like to give people the benefit of the doubt. You would not...

21 Sep 12

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Yanzalong @yanzalong (18987) • Indonesia 21 Sep 12

For serious writing work, a laptop does much better than an ipad. The ipad is only suitable for reading our work or when we present the work to others. At home, I use my laptop to write reports or articles. When I go out I copy...

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laptop

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Mickie30 Yeah I hate that you have to get a separate keyboard because there is just no way that you can possibly type with the one that comes with it. It's like a mobile phone, there's no way you can type with that even if you try it takes ages.

21 Sep 12

powerpuffgirls @powerpuffgirls (627) • Philippines 21 Sep 12

hmm, mostly my friends and families told me that i still don't gain any weight even if i eat a lot of foods o

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Mickie30 I wish I did experience this, lol! Consider yourself lucky everything that I eat turns to fat. I wish I could eat a lot and not put on weight. I think that it is sometimes the kind of foods you eat. Your ability to remain thin may have something to do with an...

21 Sep 12

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