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Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 Hi yeah well this is what I am worried about whether she is using me or not. I don't want to lose her friendship, but if she is using me then she is not really a friend in the first place. Thanks for your advise I really appreciate it.

9 Mar 13

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 You are very wise in what you say. She already knows I have health problems and that I cannot work because of these. I have felt so low since she expected me to do her lounge without even asking. It made me feel like I was being seen as someone who works for...

9 Mar 13

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 The thing is she knows that I have a son who is autistic and that I have mental health problems. She also knows that my back is bad because I've told her all of this. She also knows that social services are on our backs and that I have to make sure my house is...

9 Mar 13

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 Thanks for understanding. She is really subtle with it too. It's like she knows what she is doing. I feel like if she were a real friend then she wouldn't ask me to do things she knows are too difficult for me. It is so hurtful that I might have to lose her...

8 Mar 13

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 I don't mind helping her, but what I don't like is being taken for granted. She has helped me with some things as well and given me things. I like helping her, but I don't like her taking me for granted it makes me feel hurt. She knows that I have trouble...

8 Mar 13

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 You are right, I do need to look after myself. I feel so hurt at the moment because she knows my situation yet still expects so much of me. Whilst I didn't mind helping I am not paid to be her carer and she should not expect this of me knowing that I am not...

8 Mar 13

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 I think that every response leads me to think that I have to talk to my friend about this. I don't know whether she has the money to employ someone, but why should she expect me to be her unpaid worker? It's not fair and it's not what I need. It's a one sided...

8 Mar 13

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 Thanks so much for understanding. I feel that if she really cared about me she would understand my problems better and not take me for granted which is what I really feel she is doing.

8 Mar 13

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 Thanks so much for understanding. You are right her friendship has positively affected my life.

8 Mar 13

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Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 8 Mar 13

Hi I hope someone can advise me. I feel really low today because of this. I have a best friend that has just moved. I have helped her to unpack things and sort things which I don't mind. I have 2 kids, 1 of which has autism and...

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Mickie30 Wow you have all been so helpful in giving your advise. I hate speaking up for myself, but I realize now that I have to do so. I've been dwelling on this all day and it scares me to death talking to her, but I think you are right I have to do so.

8 Mar 13

Yanzalong @yanzalong (18987) • Indonesia 21 Sep 12

For serious writing work, a laptop does much better than an ipad. The ipad is only suitable for reading our work or when we present the work to others. At home, I use my laptop to write reports or articles. When I go out I copy...

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Mickie30 Yeah I hate that you have to get a separate keyboard because there is just no way that you can possibly type with the one that comes with it. It's like a mobile phone, there's no way you can type with that even if you try it takes ages.

21 Sep 12

besweet @besweet (9859) • Ireland 21 Sep 12

I have an old digital camera with 7.1 Mpixel and a li-ion battery. I use it all the time and it's my favourite digital camera! I take it to all my trips, when I go out with my friends or when I travel abroad! It has been used...

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Mickie30 I would just change the battery then, definitely. You love your camera and there is no reason to change it. It's a shame that batteries are not cheaper. Have you done price comparison websites?

21 Sep 12

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Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 1 Jul 12

Hi can anyone help please? My internet works for a while and then stops working and won't go to any websites until I turn it off and restart it again. This keeps on happening. Also Facebook will not work and only shows a list when...

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Mickie30 Thanks so much for your detailed help and advise.

1 Jul 12

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 28 Dec 07

I am hoping I can get some help here. My neutered cat bites us for no reason we can be loving him and stroking him and suddenly he will bite us. Yesterday he bit my husbands hand really hard and drew blood. The vet said he had...

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Mickie30 Hi it is very strange that you should mention this now. Whoever thinks that animals don't have souls is wrong. We re-homed our beloved cat Boo Boo 12 months ago when we got a dog, but to our amazement, he returned yesterday a little thinner and timid, but...

29 May 12

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 27 Mar 12

Hi I need help please. I don't know what to do. I have been diagnosed with Schizoidaffective Disorder which is a mental health illness. I am married to a man who is addicted to codeine and sleeps most of the time. He does very...

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Mickie30 It has been a hard time recently and things have been tough. I feel better than I did. I hate for the kids to have to see me at my lowest. My 6 year old really understands, but I don't want to put pressure on her because she is only young. Then I think she...

29 Mar 12

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 27 Mar 12

Hi I need help please. I don't know what to do. I have been diagnosed with Schizoidaffective Disorder which is a mental health illness. I am married to a man who is addicted to codeine and sleeps most of the time. He does very...

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Mickie30 Hi my Pastor and his wife are looking after the children on Saturday night for us and are paying for a meal for the both of us. I think it is so kind of them. They really want to help us and I think that is so nice. I am feeling a lot brighter than I did....

29 Mar 12

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 27 Mar 12

Hi I need help please. I don't know what to do. I have been diagnosed with Schizoidaffective Disorder which is a mental health illness. I am married to a man who is addicted to codeine and sleeps most of the time. He does very...

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Mickie30 Hi thanks, I feel a lot brighter than I did the other night. I can feel the prayers of everyone around and I know God is there in this situation. My kids are everything to me and I only want the very best for them. Sometimes when I am so low I feel like I...

29 Mar 12

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 27 Mar 12

Hi I need help please. I don't know what to do. I have been diagnosed with Schizoidaffective Disorder which is a mental health illness. I am married to a man who is addicted to codeine and sleeps most of the time. He does very...

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Mickie30 Thanks. Everyone has been really great and understanding. I really needed support when I wrote this the other night I felt at my lowest, but God is good and He has been healing me. I feel a lot brighter than what I did. My Pastor and His wife have given me a...

29 Mar 12

Mickie30 @Mickie30 (2626) 27 Mar 12

Hi I need help please. I don't know what to do. I have been diagnosed with Schizoidaffective Disorder which is a mental health illness. I am married to a man who is addicted to codeine and sleeps most of the time. He does very...

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Mickie30 Thanks for the scripture, I know it well. I am a believer and I know that God makes a way in the wilderness. You are right in what you say about the head of the household, but I think things are getting better. He admits now that he has a problem and is seeing...

29 Mar 12

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