For Those Outside The United States. I Have A Question.

United States
April 24, 2007 10:53am CST
I read a lot of discussions here on mylot. Many of them are fun, informative and some are down right funny. I don't wish to offend anyone. I'm just asking a question. Some of the discussions are based on personal opinions about other countries and other cultures. Many of the opinions are negative ones. Some of them make comments about how bad the Unites States is, how bad the food is and how rude American are. I was wondering if everyone who lives outside the United States (or inside if you want to comment), what is your opinion based on? You must have had a personal incident that led to draw an opinion. Can you give me a reason why so many people don't like the United States? I'm just asking. I really want to know.
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@gabesmom (1246)
• United States
24 Apr 07
I was born and raised in the Philippines but have been living in the United States for more than ten years now. I, too, have noticed that there is so much hatred directed against the United States and Americans from other countries. There is a notion out there that the US wants to exploit every other nation in the world for its own glory. Americans are viewed as spoiled and greedy while the rest of the world suffer from poverty. Most Moslem and Communist countries especially resent the US' efforts to impose their beliefs of Christianity and democracy. Discrimination goes both ways, though. Most Americans regard other nationalities to be inferior and so the cycle goes on. It's a matter of not being able to tolerate the differences and wanting to change the other.
• United States
25 Apr 07
Thanks for your help gabesmom. I appreciate your reply. It helps me understand a bit more.
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@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
24 Apr 07
I am Canadian and as you know we are your friendly neighbours to the north. I have relatives who are American and I have traveled in the states. The people I meet are mostly pretty much the same as the people in Canada. I think that the reason we think Americans are rude is when they come hear to Canada as tourists, they can be pushy and rude and intolerant to our customs and such. I don't think all Americans are rude, in fact I know that is not the case, but due to a few, I have had the misfortune of meeting, the tendency to lump them all into one ball and call all Americans rude is something I do. I know it is wrong but I do. I really don't mean it because I know that there are rude people all over the world and some people are just like that no matter what country they are from. Aside from that I don't agree with the American politics and view the American government as war mongering. I think George W. Bush is true evil. I think that he is the worst thing since his dad was in power. I think that the only thing the American government cares about is controlling oil. Blood for oil! I wonder how long before they run low on natural resources such as water. When they run out of water will they attack us for ours? So as an outsider I have no problem with the people of the USA it is the Government I have a problem with. I think people are people and deep down it really doesn't matter where we are from. No more blood for oil!
• United States
25 Apr 07
Thank you so much for contributing to my discussion. It brings a lot of insight. I appreciate your response.
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@BunGirl (2638)
• United States
24 Apr 07
What a thought provoking, well written question you have here! I was born and raised here in the US, but I do a bit of traveling abroad and get plenty of chances to talk to the people I meet. Just from the impressions I've gotten over the years from my students in Russia, it seems that (as others have mentioned) it's not the people of the US, but the government that they have issue with. Of course, most people who don't know any better think we all like our government and agree with everything our leaders do. I've diffused a few sticky conversations by simply asking them if they agree with everything Putin has done, and the answer is usually no. Then the light bulb goes on and they realize that deep down, we're just like them. Another part of the equation seems to be our isolation. Because we're such a large country and we only share borders with two other nations, many Americans never get the chance to travel abroad, and people from most other nations never get the chance to visit our country. Since most of the world has probably never encountered an American face to face, there's bound to be some misconceptions. When you add to that the the ones they see in the news and such are either spoiled rich people (like Paris Hilton)or politicians, I can totally understand why they'd think poorly of us. This is why it's so important, in my mind, to meet and correspond with people of other cultures, whether it be in person, online, or as pen pals. It's easy to say "All French are snobs" (just an example folks) if you don't know any. I've gotten to know quite a few of them though, and I say they're just people like us who happen to live in France. Anyway, hope all that makes sense -- I'm a bit out of it today, and wasn't planning on writing much of anything until my head clears, but I couldn't resist your question. Can't wait to see the answers that will come after me, the ones you've already gotten are fabulous!
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• United States
25 Apr 07
Thanks for the great response. I appreciate your input. Great responses, all of them. Sure make a body think huh?
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@j27366 (293)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
i don't hate the US. in fact, i have sisters who are immigrants there, one has just become a citizen. i have nieces here who are studying nursing hoping to go there a few years from now. good and bad people are everywhere. i also met a few Americans who are friendly, but, of course, i never got the chance to know them well.
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• United States
25 Apr 07
thanks for your response. I'm still reading the answers.
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• Melbourne, Australia
25 Apr 07
I have quite a few american frineds on the internet. I find that me being an aussie makes them a bit rude towards me as they think that we are all onvicts or something. but I just get over it. For me it's not where you come from but who you are.
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@tigertang (1749)
• Singapore
25 Apr 07
I have family in the USA and I think the USA is on the whole a wonderful place. Americans are very kind hearted. My main gripe with America, however, tends to be with the way American's are unable to see the world beyond their home state. This is very true when it come to the Middle East and its very true when it comes to the way many Asian countries are portrayed. If anytihng Americans are naive about the rest of the world more than anything,
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• United States
25 Apr 07
That's true apricotrains. A lot of people dont' wait to know someone before they make a rash judgment. By the way I love the boxing kitty.
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• Philippines
25 Apr 07
I'm from the Philippines, I personally don't think that United States is a bad country and that Americans are rude or what somehow. Although, I can't and won't generalize. I know that not ALL americans are good, but not all americans are bad either. Just like in a school, not all students are bullies, nerds, geeks, geniuses, nice, etc. Some American Tourists that I've seen here seem pretty nice and are really respectful. :)
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• United States
25 Apr 07
Thanks rockergal. I like your response.
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@kcbomba (616)
• United States
24 Apr 07
l think this happens to be an instinct with we humans ; we tend to use 'a part to judge the whole ,or use the whole to judge a part' - why to me - is just not right and fair. How about in a case where someone calls Nigerians fraudsters ,when is only a very few elements here that actually gives us that bad image across our shores , yet so many people categorize it to be a absolute phenomenom with natives of Nigeria . ls just not fair at all using the sin of one or few to hook on others for the consequences thereof.
• United States
25 Apr 07
I agree kcbomba. Sad but true. Thank you for your input.
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@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Apr 07
I have read some of it also but i just dont mind it, i think they have read it on some books on differnt jokes of different countries and it is not really true.
• United States
25 Apr 07
Thank you for your response vanites. I did a search and it is true. There are a lot of people who don't like the states.
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@gemini1960 (1161)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
Maybe some incidents really happen and it travels by mouth which is some incidents have been added and some are omitted it was how stories usually ends, and i dont think i will think much about it, since i know that some of it are far from the truth.
• United States
25 Apr 07
It sure makes you wonder though doesn't it gemini. Thanks for your response.
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@sjohnson628 (3197)
• United States
25 Apr 07
I don't think I have come across any discussions yet where people are bashing the USA but if I did I think I would add a comment asking them what they are doing on a US website making American dollars for?
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• United States
25 Apr 07
Good thought sjohnson. I like your way of thinking. But the fact remains, a lot of people don't like us.
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• Philippines
25 Apr 07
hi! i'm from the philippines and i have been working in contact centers here catering to americans as our clients. i have spoken to more than 100,000 americans in more or less 4 years. generally, i have observed that americans who work in large businesses or big corporations are not that bad. those who didn't go to school or has little education are the hardest to deal with, its like rudeness is already a part of their daily lives. i can't say that food is bad either as my life as a contact center agent revolves around mcdonalds and other fast food joints which are also part of the american life. for me, i thank the US for giving people like me great job opportunities and a chance to earn big in our country, even if our job is soooo stressful! ;-)
• United States
25 Apr 07
Thank you for your response mearwen. I guess some food is just better than others. Rude people are all over too.
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@Arkadus (895)
• Canada
25 Apr 07
A Canadian here, while I don't have an issue with Americans I am guilty of making rude american comments, though in my defence usually in jest. Though your foreign politics annoy me. Which doesn't say much because politics anoys me in any given situation. Far as I'm concerned the food there is fine, an opinion based on the fact that I've been to the country and eaten there.
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• United States
25 Apr 07
I think most foreign policies annoy people. Thanks for your input Arkadus. I'm digesting responses.
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@aciddrop (798)
25 Apr 07
i think their opinions are just based on the stories and news and gossip they've heard about USA.i havent seen any of those posts though.my opinions towards americans are fun-loving,creative,witty,proud of urselves,and talkative.i have many american friends and we get on well.so i see you guys as nice persons:)
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• United States
25 Apr 07
There out there aciddrop. Thanks for you positive response about the US.
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• India
25 Apr 07
In every country there are all types of people.Americans have a lot of money,freedom from childhood & less control.So they become abusive .Instead they should try and enjoy their life mix with people & thats the only way to change the opinion of others
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• United States
25 Apr 07
I guess every country is just about the same. Thanks for your opinion uncommonman.
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@funfreak2k2 (1734)
• India
30 Apr 07
my negative opinion about the US is based on their external affairs policies. they poke their nose too much into others' affairs and want to take control of almost every country some way or ther other. recent war-mongering attitude of the US has made me too averse to that country. but i do appreciate the courage and morale of the US citizens, pioneering technological advancement.
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• India
2 May 07
1. you can understand well what led to 9/11. its a long story to describe here :-) to sum up, its what i said. 2. On request, its ok to help does not count to interference
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• United States
1 May 07
I wonder funfreak2k2 if it's that the US pokes their nose in other peoples affairs or if it's that they are 1. looking out for our own safe interests, (since 911), and 2, doing their best to actually help those countries who ask for help or who need help.
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
24 Apr 07
i wouldn't say americans are rude (i live an hour from the us and have been there many times....) in my opinion, americans are just self absorbed...most don't have a clue about canada, the people, the places etc...i bet over half have NO idea what the capital of canada is and we are your closest neighbour and largest trading parter!
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• United States
25 Apr 07
Thank you cher913 for your response. I'm still digesting the responses. They are all great.
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@gbolly54 (661)
• Nigeria
24 Apr 07
The world has become a tiny village, thanks to the internet, the telephone, the cable TV and transportation ease. One does not have to be in a place before you know what happens there. Does one have to be in the US to comment on the activities of the US in Iran or Iraq, or to know the influence she wields on international organizations like the UNO, IMF and the World Bank? You might be interested to know that I got to know first from myLot about the bombing attempt on the electoral body's office here in Nigeria. Similarly, it was my friend who is based in Italy that first informed me of the latest result of the Nigerian presidential elections. Times have changed, and things have changed with them.
@BunGirl (2638)
• United States
24 Apr 07
Ok, but you have to remember that the average American has nothing to do with foreign policy. Most of us aren't any happier about the things our politicians do than the rest of the world is.
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@gbolly54 (661)
• Nigeria
25 Apr 07
Hello. I have never shown any interest in or written about the private lives of Americans. You are entitled to your private liberty. I have always contributed an opinion when it comes to governmental activities as they affect others, including my humble self. I still maintain my word that one does not have to be in the US, or any part of the world for that matter, to know what happens there. Please, accept it that any government that does not keep within its own boundaries cannot be free from comments from outside its boundaries.
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• United States
25 Apr 07
A lot of us don't care about politics. We just want to live our own little lives. Eat, love and live. It's the country I was born in, I really have no say in what we do. We learned that at the last election!
@rubiana6 (270)
• Brazil
24 Apr 07
i think its because of many people dont like the foreign policy of the US, and project this on the average american people, who actually have nothing to do with foreign politics. Especially many islamic countries have concerns about the USA because many politicians in the US like to play with words like good countries and bad countries. even if somebody is not a friend of its own government, he doesnt want that somebody calls his homecountry a bad country. The second factor i think is the power the US have. Its simply the most powerful country in the moment. I think this will change sooner or later (to china for example), but who is strong and powerful has also enemies. third is that the americans always take care whats going on in the world. they are always involved in politics of other countries, for good and bad. Its true, therefore many hate them and they made many mistakes (remember the cia and bin laden training and many other), but on the other side, if the americans did not do something, who else would do? nobody! without the americans saddam hussein would still kill innocents children, without US-help Germany, the country where my husband is from, would never get to the leading country of europe with a wonderful democracy after the second world war, but a communistic satelite state. Also i dont know any other country people came for all over the world, and if they had the will to work, they get success, no matter where they are from. Arnold Schwarzenegger, an austrian bodyboulder now governador of california, where is this possible? only in the US! Ronald Reagan, hollywood actor, get president? in which country would this be possible? only in the US thats just great! Also many people are just jealous. I like America, its a great country after all, incredible nature, and also after september 11th, you still feel the freedom to do what you want, if you dont hurt somebody else, like in no other country. The food is really not the best, on my travel there many times i agree that many US citizens really eat mcdonalds and coca cola and fries and eggs all the time and much too much of it, but this is not a question of good and bad, but of culture. in general they are also very friendly and opened and helpful.
• United States
25 Apr 07
Only in America. Thanks for the reply. I'm digesting them deeper one by one.
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@Bletchly (37)
24 Apr 07
Thats a shame if its true that so many people feel that way. I bet there are just as many who like the USA who have not mentioned it. So here goes, I like the USA!
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• United States
25 Apr 07
Thanks Bletchly. It is a shame but it's true. I did a search and it's amazing.
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• United States
25 Apr 07
Well, I am from the U.S. and I must say that this is a two headed coin because be from the city of brotherly love (why they call it that is beyond me) I could agree with people outside the U.S. Yet when I go to other states I found that there are some wonderful, warmheart loving people out there. I believe that they base their opinions on isolated incidents because the U.S. is not as bad as a whole. Just look at how nice people are on this mylot site.
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• United States
25 Apr 07
Thanks billionaire5. I'm still digesting the responses. How interesting though huh?
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