Extent of sacrifice you can ever give to a child
By alekshi2508
@alekshi2508 (89)
Philippines
April 25, 2007 2:25am CST
Motherhood is really such an accomplishment in life.True enough as other says that you feel good and at the same time motherhood makes you feel carrying a big responsibility all throughout. A person who has never become a mother do not realize the duties,actual responsibility a mother could ever do to a child.
I died for a couple of seconds after ten days of delivering my youngest daughter. Bleeding did not stop from morning until darkness came on the day. I had a severe bleeding and my uterus did not contract. I received seven bags of blood and my doctor blindly "closed " me up for the bleeding did not stop.Thank God, he has better plans and I survived.
Today, a year has passed and my daughter will become 2 on the month of July. It is true that you can never estimate the heart of a mother.You can give even your life for your children.
2 responses
@cheryljoyguyot (11)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
Motherhood has been a blessing in disguise for me. If not for Kevin I would have still been working as a dancer where money is easily earned. I would still have been working in a place where in the first place I should not have been working. I finished a Mass Communications degree but I chose to engage myself in that trade. Though my financial strife at that time was really bad,( having a sick dad, got 4 younger siblings to send to school) it could never justify that decision.
Having Kevin in my life changes everything.I've learned to work hard and be responsible in providing him all the things he needs as I'm a single mama.
I remembered having to leave him in Negros just to work in Cebu. That I think was the saddest thing I've ever endured. To sacrifice being away to be able to provide him his needs. And that setup run for 5 months. I missed witness his first teeth as it was growing, his first step, his first time to call the word "Mama" and I know there were a lot more firsts in his life that I wasn't able to witness. And that saddens me.
Now, were together and savoring every minute I get to spend with him. All plans, my dreams, my hopes and my wishes revolves around him- my cute little angel.His smiles just simply take away my worries and stress from work. And his hugs just make me stong.Having my son gives my life a clearer direction on how to go about life.My son gives me life right now.
@lafavorito (2959)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
Wow you're given a second life! I sacrificed having a full time job to take care of my son, I tried thinking that the salary I'm receiving is for my son yet the urge to stay home and be there for him all the time is ach him the baistronger. Income wise, I'm selling some stuff on the internet and got into real estate for some time but my first priority is still my son. I like to be the one who teach him the basics like dressing him, going to the bathroom, eating on his own, write and read. His hugs, kisses and accomplishments are my motivation tools to keep on teaching him. I could never give up my life too, because I would not want leave him helpless, yes his dad loves him very much but there's still so much he needs to learn.
