Why ladies today are single,is this true for you?Are you single or married?

when most people say it's hard to understand women, now i can say... it's difficult to understand men, too. there goes equality in every level! hehe. anyway, i am single because it's my choice. but i am in a relationship and has plans already of marrying the man i love the most. why i chose to not get married yet with my exes because i felt like i wasn't prepared before. or maybe, i was too scared of the responsibilities awaiting for me on becoming a wife and a mother. or maybe, it wasn't the right time for me to get married yet. i am 29 but i am not in any hurry to get married. i believe and i always do that marriage comes in the right time. happy myLotting!

Ladies of marriagable age who are not married today have problems. There could be so many possiblities of their problem. It could be that they dont want to marry, or they are ugly, even the beautifully-ugly ones, or their background dose not respect marriage, or they are sisters of catholic fold, or the are barriered by witches and spiritual forces of darkness. In this situation, they need spiritual backup. There is no how a good looking man even the ugly one who has money will see a beautiful lady and not approach her for marriage. So, if you are not married, pls check yourself.

Well I am divorced so you can say I am single but not for those Reasons lol Then again I am not single as I do have a lovely and loving Man in my Life As for understanding Men lol I don't think I ever will lol

Hihi, this sounds funny:-) But to be honest, i am single because i am still in a process of healing my traumas from the past experiences.

Funny. I always thought still single cause God hadnt brought the right guy along. But your list enlightens me. There are OTHER reasons! ;)

Speaking from a mans point of view, most women seem to be looking for a knight in shining armor when sometimes the man that could be meant for them may be right in front of them.............

i am married already... i married a man that falls with your number 5 desciptions... he is not so handsome but he is a very loving and nice guy and he doesn't have much money... i have to work hard to help him financially... but the most important thing is we are happy and we know for sure that God bless our marriage... we always depend on Him and seek His guidance to guide our family...

I like to add that 1. men are available while climax are grown 2. dating schedule are more than I expect 3. live together scope is more than past 4. marriage tie may loose as rate of divorce increasing 5. value of girl decrease after divorce 6. earning scope is lot without hard labor 7. home work is hard though men are blame women for less work than them 8. giving birth and serving for kids old age come quick 9. kids raising is very hard work but after marriage kids left mom's and live with their wife so old age are troublesome. 10. can write always a word " miss "

I must say all of these have a point my favorite is # "4. The handsome, nice and heterosexual men are married" not because it is true but because the grass always look greener on the other side or so we want to think

I only have one thing to add to this conversation. I'm a happily married woman, my husband is neither handsome or hot. I love him for who he is on the inside and how he makes me feel about myself, not what he looks like. I have this to say, being alone it these are you reasons is because of one thing. Looks aren't everything, and if you expect to find a good man your looking in all the wrong places by the looks of that list. Men are not play things and are not a peice of art that you can enjoy, they are parnters that are to care for the inner you as you would them.

I married a wonderful man, and when he passed away almost 2 years ago, I vowed that I would never marry again. YOu wouldn't believe the pressure that people put you under with the "it's time that you found someone else" or "you know your husband would want you to be happy with someone else. When you have lost your soul mate...you don't need to look for another. I will see him again someday, and I prefer to wait.

It's true that more and more women choose to be single all their life, especially those in big cities. I guess it's not that they don't want to have a family of their own, but that this highly developing world doesn't give them a sense of safety. Most of these kinds of ladies are well educated ones and are financially self-supported. They don't want to find a man who can't earn much as they do if the man is not highly promoted or very outstanding, nor do they want to marry a very rich man because it gives them a kind of insecurity. If a man if very rich, he can offer to make a lot of girl friends and their loves are not reliable. For this reason, many young women choose to remain single though at the same time they can have their boy friends if they like it because women and men are equal.

yes i'm still single coz i still have a lot of responsibilities and me and my boyfriend are not yet ready mentally and financially... hope in 2 yrs. time we are ready to settle down and have our own family... nowadays you really need to think a million times before you get married and one important thing we need to consider is if we are financially stable coz it's possible when financial problems come it will also affect your relationship...

3rd point is the best. except greek guys of course :P

Almost all married men think the grass is greener on the other side. They think that when they got married they got a housekeeper/maid. They also think that their wife is also their mother, expects us to iron their clothes etc.

im still single.

I am happily single because I feel free and I can do whatever I want to achieve. I am very thankful to God that I don't have to go through stressful things such as heartbroken, divorces, and other marital issues. Please don't get me wrong. I am not a lesbian. I just don't have an appetite to marry. Looking at increasing divorces around the world, I don't think that getting marriage is fun and loving things. I am not skeptic about a marriage institution. But I feel that my mission in this world will be more dedicated if I am single.

Hello,disvacchic.I am single now,the reason why I ma still single may be I bad experience in relationship ,I would be very careful in choosing guys when into a relationship,also at this moment, i am enjying to be single actually because I dot have to respond to anyone and I can do anything i want to do without any restiction, if i want, i can sleep for whole day, or stay at home replying mylot without going out.

I'll say this; I was married but now I am divorced; I will be honest, afterwards, I decided to take a man break; It lasted a while; matter of fact, you might can say I am still on it; I have met folks that I would like, then something comes up; I met one recently, and before it could get somewhere, it didn't. I would like to be married, and I will be honest here, I don't believe all them statistics about there being no men out there; I feel they are out there, but sometimes what your looking for isn't what you need. I don't know if I will remarry or what, but for now, I am doing my best to take care of me and my kids; I would love to be with someone, but being out there, trying to find someone and all that, is a bit much for me. On top of that,I have an elderly parent who is terminally ill, another parent who isn't in the greatest health herself and I'm the primary caregiver. With all of that, who will step to the plate and hang with me through all of that? Perhaps that is why I'm still single. then another reason, I downplayed it too. I didn't want to get hurt, I didn't want to get caught up, so I stayed away from it.

I apparantly like to combine reasons, I find not so handsome men, who arent all that nice, and don't have much money. Of course when I meet them, I think of it the other way, kinda handsome, not that mean, and not too broke. funny how our perceptions change based on what we're looking for. I find that I keep falling into the trap of settling...and no, its not really about anyone of those things, but I think, well, this guy seems decent enough...instead of saying "no, he's not everything I want" I guess I'm so afraid that there is no mr perfect out there that i keep settling for mr so-so. After then end of my last not so spectacular relationship, I have decided to take a break. Step back for a minute and remember who I am...and why guys should be falling at my feet..lol. I am actually happier right now than I have been for ages. Of course there are things I miss, but the benefeits are outweighing it. spending more time with my friends and family is number 1.