should women marry before the age of 25??
By manjunath27
@manjunath27 (77)
India
23 responses
@prettylady9143 (238)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
they say, women should marry starting at the age of 25 years old. because of health reasons or of it will be easy for them to carry or bear a baby.
but for me, marry at the age of 25 or less doesnt matter at all (not unless theyre 21 downwards..thats another thing). as long as she is stable in all aspect of life and that they both love each other, they communicate well, understand and respect each other...well i guess she can marry at 25.
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@elshaddai123 (3981)
• Kottayam, India
27 Apr 07
Are you waiting for somebody,but if at all possible it is better to marry when you are young beautiful and enjoy your life.
@manjunath27 (77)
• India
28 Apr 07
that is an easy answer, what if u r not settled and stuggling with ur job?????
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
28 Apr 07
I don't really see what that has to do with getting married. Maybe if you can't afford a nice wedding or something, but just to be married? I don't see what the problem would be.
@EvanHunter (4026)
• United States
17 May 07
I have been married two times and I can honostly say life is alot better the second time around and I was alot better parent at age 30 than at age 20. So I dont think its necessary for anyone to be married before 25 and waiting till you are more settled in makes you a more patient and understanding parent and spouse than being young and immature.
@kislaysinha2222 (169)
• India
2 May 07
i think it should be entirely the decision of the girl who have to marry any girl [above 18 ] can marry when ever she wants to ,if she have found her true love and she wana go with her love instead of her career then she can do that,and if she want to go for her career then she should do that only ,i think in an independant society people should think in this way .they should provide freedom and all kind of rights to girls and women , then only independance will have its actual meaning.
@bettypeng82114 (49)
• China
17 May 07
My psychology teacher tells us that it's better for a lady get married and have kids before the age of 28. It is not only good for the lady, but also for her kids.:)
In my opinion, I believe that the age from 25-26 is best for getting marriage. But I haven't got married yet.:) Career is the most important thing in my life, maybe I don't meet my Mr.right, so I never think to form my own small family. In fact, if we live happily,marriage is not so important. Nowadays,many people delay their marriages because of the high pressure in life.
@angelco (345)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
yes it is not necessary or i don't agree that women should be married before the age of 25 because i believe that as long as women can handle duties and responsibilities and she can manage her family she can go through on that situation... in addition, women should be emotionally, spiritually, physically and financially stable :)
@cyrile07 (236)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
its not really necessary.. as long as your capable and ready to get married or ready to have a long time commitment then why not...any women from age 18 above can marry as long as their ready to face challenges and are responsible enough to a married life.. :)
@summergorgeous (674)
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
if the woman can handle a lot of responsibility and she's prepared to a married life, then why not.
however, i think i would probably get married at 29 or so. i just want to enjoy life without commitment (marriage) and i also want to make certain im financially stable.
@Ashgun (472)
•
30 Apr 07
What will happen if a girl could not find herself someone who suits her to get married? So it is not a matter of age it is a matter of luck, love and goals that a person has set to herself... i am 22 and i am married. i feel i am luckily enough to get such a wonderful husband and i can start to plan my life in a very early age! ans this does not apply to every girls... so in my opinion it all depends on the person not on her age!
@felinegoddess (39)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
although i have nothing against women who chose to marry early, i still prefer marrying at an older age.. i guess like around 27-28.. it's just that there are still a lot of things we can do, don't you think? we can explore career options or if not, explore ourseleves as women. it's not that we might not be able to do these things when we marry, but of course there would already be a lot of restrictions. & of course, we might wanna be able to save or build our own resources first so that we won't have to be entirely dependent on our husbands...
@supersach (1523)
• India
27 Apr 07
If you are absolutely sure that you have found the right person then there is nothing wrong in marrying before the age of 25. However, I personally feel that both men and women should get married after 25, because at that time you are more matured mentally to have a relationship and carry out your reponsibilities towards your family. I think we should settle down with our career first and then think about marriage, family, kids, etc. because it can be very difficult to work towards your career once you get married and you have to deal with responsibilitie of marriage.
Sometimes people get married at 20-21 or even before that and then a few years later they realize that they made the wrong decision. When you get married too early, either you marry the wrong person or you realize that building a career while being married is difficult but its too late then. I am not saying that all couples who marry at a young age regret their decision but most of them do end up this way.
@cutekristine (526)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
For me theres actually no exact age when a woman should be gatting married except she should be in a legal age. Everyone has its own perspective about when she is getting married. But what is really important is that she is ready not only financially but as well emotionally, psychologically and even spiritually. She should be ready to accept all the responsibilities a woman should have in her married life specifically being a mother to her children and a wife to his husband.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
Hello there! I am Angel from the Philippines. I don't think that there really is a right age for getting marriage. I think it depends upon the maturity of the person and their stability. A person's maturity in a certain age vary from one another. So I guess, age will not be an accurate basis. Also, if you want to live a really nice life, you have to consider financial and emotional stability. And it doesn't end there. The situation may seem right and all but still, there's no such thing as a perfect life. Problems will arise but the real challenge is how to overcome them and stay together.
@caido_dionelyn (126)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
for me, it depends on the situation. if a woman is emotionally and financially stable even before the age of 25, y not? marriage is a very complicated so it does not depend on the age. it depends on how a woman would face the huge responsibility that comes along.
@Tracy2224 (37)
• Canada
27 Apr 07
I think this all depends on the person, not the age. If you want something bad enough, and are willing to work for it, and have the right mentality to do it, I say go ahead and do it. But be sure.
@brand4less (1061)
• Indonesia
27 Apr 07
well..i think age doesn't have connection with it. if u feel u're ready then go ahead, do it. i just turned 27 and also just get married but i have friends who get married under the age of 25 and they're fine until now. getting marry is not the age but it's about u're ready or not.