supersach

@supersach (1523)

India • Age 37

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Need Your Advice

love1124 @love1124 (31) • Indonesia 25 Mar 09

Hello all mylotters, I'm already in a condition which i don't want to. I already have a relationship. But a couple days ago, my ex-girl suddenly call me. He told me that he needs me to sharing about her problem with her...

relationship

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supersach I think first thing that you should do is to tell all of this to your CURRENT girlfriend and ask her for advice. She may not necessarily be able to give you the most perfect answer to your problem but what it will do is let her know that you're being honest...

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What Do You Prefer...Marriage or Live In???

Gwapako_28 @Gwapako_28 (2140) • Philippines 13 Nov 08

All my life i dreamed to get married in the church. Having a complete and happy family. I never thought that this dreams, will never come true. After my separation with my xhusband, i really regret of getting married. Means, i...

marriage

people

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supersach To answer your question, I'd always prefer marriage over a live-in relationship. Laydee has raised some really good points so I'll try and come up with a slightly different perspective on marriage. You see, different societies around the world like...

13 Nov 08

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Does Love really exist on the Internet

ejiskolo @ejiskolo (78) • Nigeria 13 Nov 08

Is it true to say I have fallen in love with somebody I met on the internet or it is just infatuation. I wonder where love is going with the bulk of liar on the web if really one can find true love.

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supersach Yes, you can fall in love with someone over the Internet but the probability of that happening I think is very small due to various factors. I think often when people get into a romantic relationship over the Internet, they more than anything else fall in love...

13 Nov 08

married people are happier that unmarried people?

clarkmy @clarkmy (428) • China 13 Nov 08

do you agree or disagree? i think unmarried people are happier,because they don't need to sacrifice for thier famliy,moreover they don't have more concern in life and can freely whjoy themselves,however,they may be lonely when...

marry

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supersach I don't really think happiness has any DIRECT bearing on whether you're married or not. It really depends on the person as to what he/she thinks will make him/her happy. There are happy people out there who are single and there are also happy people who are...

13 Nov 08

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Accepting friend request

omar0913 @omar0913 (942) • Legaspi, Philippines 24 Oct 08

Have you ever denied a friend request from other users here in myLot? I have never denied any friend request that I have recieved here in this site or even to other sites that I sign up. Even at the outside world of the...

attitudes

community relationship

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supersach Yes, I have denied friend requests at times but it'd be a small number of people. I usually do add people who make friend requests here or on any other website but I hate it when they try to sell me things or pestering me in any other way. I mean it's kind of...

25 Oct 08

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where do you see your self in 10 years?

mattcassethan @mattcassethan (226) • Canada 29 Sep 08

i see my self.... ( i want to own my own bussiness) i can see myself in 10 years owning my own place, being and doing what i always wanted. This is one dream i have and i hope so much that i can make it happen...

future

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supersach Frankly, I've absolutely no idea where I WANT to be or where I WILL be. I'm someone who just believes in living in the present. I mean, yes, one needs to plan for the future to some extent and I suppose one should at least outline what kind of future he/she...

25 Oct 08

Overcoming a breakup

anewor_08 @anewor_08 (65) • Philippines 24 Oct 08

I'm willing to bet that most of mylotters have experienced a breakup at least once in their lives. Breakups can happen for a variety of different reasons, and it can be very painful experience. I have some tips for moving on after...

break up

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supersach I'm in complete agreement with you that jumping into a new relationship just after you're broken up with someone the WORST thing to do. Often while being in relationships people sort of get used to being with someone and after they've broken up, they crave...

25 Oct 08

Female Or Male

netty79 @netty79 (991) • Indonesia 27 Oct 06

Somebody tell me Who is the stronger Female or Male???? WHo Knows

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supersach Yes, it is and thats why I said ON AN AVARAGE. There are exceptions to everything, my friend and when there are numerous variables, we have to rely on the average. I have been a part of a few such male vs female discussions and I know for a fact that nothing...

10 Jan 08

Relationships and Racism

supersach @supersach (1523) • India 18 Dec 07

I wanted to ask all the mylotters here what they think of people who only want to date/marry a certain race/races(whether their own race and/or a certain other race/races). Do you think it is racism? Personally, I think one should...

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supersach You summed it all up pretty well.

25 Dec 07

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honeydew07 @honeydew07 (48) • United States 17 Dec 07

I need your advice good people see i need advice on how i can find some one special im a little shy in i need help on how to talk to guys in say im interested i want to get the guts what are some ways i could do this plzzzzzzz...

love advice

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supersach First of all, its not wrong or stupid to be shy, its just the way some people are. But you also need to understand that you'll never get a guy if you don't start a conversation with him. So the next time you see someone who you like, just say hi and ask him...

18 Dec 07

do you believe racism still exsist

honeydew07 @honeydew07 (48) • United States 17 Dec 07

THIS is a disscusion i have to hear cause this lets you know how socity thinks in what they believe in so let me know how you feel about this.

racism

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supersach Yes, even today racism exists and believe it or not, we are all a part of it to some extent or other and it will continue to be there until there are "races" and people will continue to judge people by the way they look and not by who they actually are. I...

18 Dec 07

Relationships and Racism

supersach @supersach (1523) • India 18 Dec 07

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define love!!!

padu19 @padu19 (1441) • India 5 Dec 07

hey people... this question seems to be very general.. of course it is a usual question.. but it has many intersting replies that could be given out of our imagination.. i could state a simple definition of love stated by a 4...

love

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supersach I think it would be difficult for most people to define love because I feel that very few people are actually lucky enough to experience TRUE love and even fewer get to live their life with their loved-one. When most people think that they are in love, they...

5 Dec 07

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Pakistan cricket has lost that standard which it had once

rb200406 @rb200406 (1824) • India 1 Dec 07

Don't you think so.There is lack of that killer instinct.The team so dull.What do you think?

killer instinct

pakistan cricket

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supersach I don't think they have lost the standard as such but they just lack the experience needed at the international level, more so now after Haq's daparture. I feel that after Wasim and Waqar retired, they haven't had a bowler who can carry their bowling attack on...

2 Dec 07

How can you know you have falled in love with somebody?

Moliliuzu @Moliliuzu (140) • China 1 Dec 07

What is the sign when falling in love with somebody?Is there something special? What would you do if you love somebody but he or her does not know?

fall in love

love

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supersach Have you tried to tell him how you feel. If you haven't then I suggest you should. I feel it would always be better if you asked him rather than to die wondering how he feels about you. It could be that he also likes you back and he is also wondering whether...

2 Dec 07

Do you consider yourself attractive?

Ministry @Ministry (70) • Norway 26 Oct 07

Or at least sexy? I was just wondering if you know if you're attractive or not, which might reflect upon your self-confidence?

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supersach I know I'm not the sexiest man alive but I think I'm ok looking. But anyhow I don't really care about it that much because I would want others to like me for the person I am and for my looks. As far as looks and confidence go, yes, if one knows that he/she is...

1 Dec 07

How can you know you have falled in love with somebody?

Moliliuzu @Moliliuzu (140) • China 1 Dec 07

What is the sign when falling in love with somebody?Is there something special? What would you do if you love somebody but he or her does not know?

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supersach Actually I don't really have an answer to your question because I haven't been in love so I don't know exactly how it feels to be in love, but you have started a very good discussion and I'll give you credit for that. I think it can be very difficult to know...

1 Dec 07

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